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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do not have relationship with sister Lilli.  Keep relationship with parents as best you can, but do not let them tell you you need to "bury the hatchet".  Keep in close touch with sister you get along with.  Not dealing with bad sister will help you more than you know.

If you are visiting with parents and they say you must so whatever for your sister.  Tell them this is not up for discussion, leave room. Keep doing this.  It may get to that you need to stay in a hotel if parents continue to harass you.  And then after you make that step, if it does not stop, do not visit parents.  Sorry.

I have a mean horrible mentally ill sister and parents who used to guilt me into trying to be friends with sister or do stuff for her.  Do not let parents guilt you into anything.

I'm surprised your therapist has not told you to disengage. [/quote]

I stopped seeing a therapist a few years back. She told me sister is toxic and stay away. I really do feel guilty but she is seriously tormented. I haven't said a word since I found out (via Melissa) about her cruel impression of my son at Melissa's baby shower.

Thank you DCUM- I was feeling guilty for telling my dad off when he told me to bury the hatchet yesterday. [/quote]

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