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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a coworker problem for a few years and dated/slept with 5 people from my office.  Luckily only 1 of them is still with the firm and it was a long time ago so it doesn't bother either of us.  It was very obvious which ones were interested.  Flirting, a lot of "stopping by" my office, going out to grab coffee invites, email chains that continued long after the original work related question/issue had been resolved, etc.  I've been married for 7 years to a wonderful woman now and would never step out on my marriage so it's a non-issue now.  I don't know if there is something about me being married in and of itself, not flirting at all myself or maybe I'm just not as attractive as I was in my 30s but it has definitely dropped off completely now.  I will echo what the others said though and advise that it's a bad idea.  It was a lot of sneaking around and a lot of pressure to be discreet that wasn't always shared by the person I was dating.  Lesson learned.[/quote]

I don't think you have a "coworker problem." [/quote]

Yeah he had an "I'm an unstoppably awesome sex machine" problem.
But a warning for the former sex machine: stay attractive to other women in order to remain attractive to your wife. If you are boring to other women you will be boring to wife too.[/quote]
Ha. PP here, nothing like that I promise.  I probably used the wrong wording in my post.  I had a problem in that I was working a lot and wasn't getting out much so I was falling into repeated relationships with coworkers.  I realized that was a problem (too late I admit) and then stopped dating coworkers.  Luckily I met DW so now I don't have to worry about it.  Thanks for the tip about staying attractive.  I stay in shape and try not to bore DW, but I'll remember to never stop working on it.  :)[/quote]

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