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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you sure this is the reason? Is he more stressed at work? Traveling more? Have you talked about getting pregnant or having kids and that could be making him uncomfortable? Recently moved? Any health issues, ages? Could his testosterone be going down? Is it possible you're more self conscious of your body now that you're working on it, and that vibe is turning him off?

I've lost 150 lbs and no changes to sex life (frequency). Sex is better and easier, but no changes in DH's desire. Heads up, my body after weight loss, while lighter, isn't particularly more attractive naked. Looks better in clothes but the loose skin and belly issues can make more strange noises and generally make me uncomfortable during sex... just a warning. [/quote]

We have recently had the kid talk ( he initiated it). It could be testosterone.  I am a bit sensitive. He's older than me. I'm in my late 20s he's in his 40s. I have become very insecure about my body. Maybe I discuss it more than I realize. The skin makes me very upset. It's funny when I was nearly 100lbs heavier I was completely happy with how my body looked. Now I just feel gross.[/quote]

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