What happens when you call a suicide hotline?
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Anonymous
| Is it anonymous? Do they record you and can they track/follow up with you. What if you don't want them to but just want someone to cry to. |
Anonymous
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Call them if you need them.
It is anonymous. They will only help to the extent that you request. |
Anonymous
Thanks |
Anonymous
| It is anonymous and they do not call you back or track you. I called them once. The person on the phone was very kind, but I was looking for resources and he told me my only option was to go to the ER, which I did not want to do. He did listen to me cry though, and likely would have as long as I would have stayed on the phone. |
Anonymous
| The only time they will call 911 is if you’re in imminent danger to yourself or others. They are mandatory reporters. |
Anonymous
| Thank you both. No imminent danger to others. As for myself, I am day drinking, but it is better than the alternative. Really shitty day. Really hard. But I will be OK. |
jsmith123
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I'm really sorry OP. Hang in there. |
Anonymous
This part is true but don't let that dissuade you from calling if you need to, especially if you are in danger. |
Anonymous
Thank you. |
Anonymous
Yes, you will, OP! Remember, you have survived very other bad day you've had in your life, and you're still there. I'm sorry you are feeling so low. When I'm there, it helps me to remember all the times I've pulled myself out of that hole and how strong I am. You are strong too! |
Anonymous
I very much appreciate your truthful reminder. I have tears in my eyes, everyone's thoughtfulness is so meaningful to me. Thank you all again. |
Anonymous
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I didn't find them too helpful practically, and neither did my child, but it could just be the center in my area or maybe just that agent. They were helpful otherwise- it was someone to talk to even if briefly, and they aren't scared or reactive about whatever you say. You can be honest, out loud, to a real live person and that is helpful.
You also have to be on hold for awhile before you get to someone which might be helpful to know ahead of calling. I found distress lines more helpful than the suicide ones so maybe you could try that too. No asking for your name or call backs or anything like that. |
Anonymous
| OP, one day at a time. Total strangers here are rooting for you and sending strength and good thoughts your way. |
Anonymous
| OP, sending you a huge virtual hug. I've been where you are. Stay strong. |
Anonymous
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I volunteer with the crisis text line which I assume is similar. For it the goal is
1) help you identify strategies to find a place of calm when you're most distraught 2) help you develop a plan to access longer term help / support 3) if you are in imminent danger of suicide (intention and means to do within 24 hours) deescalate that situation (remove pill bottle from room, put gun away etc) 4) escalate to emergency services ONLY if there is permission. with nature of text there is no way to escalate without someone providing an address |