Have to say it somewhere

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:People, you got married for better and for worse. A lot of people fall out of love, but they made a commitment. Then they fall back into love again.

Unless you're being abused, you have no right to complain. You made a promise to stick with someone through thick and thin. what did that mean to you? That you'd stick by them no matter what, except boredom?

There are many ways of being abused besides physical abuse.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’m in the same boat OP. My DH is grumpy, boring and sometimes mean. There is no fun or levity. He is completely withdrawn and I think that I would almost rather have sex with anyone but him.


Do you have that option? I mean, how is that possible during the pandemic?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m in the same boat OP. My DH is grumpy, boring and sometimes mean. There is no fun or levity. He is completely withdrawn and I think that I would almost rather have sex with anyone but him.


Do you have that option? I mean, how is that possible during the pandemic?

God no. I just realized that I have barely had the opportunity to speak to a man who wasn’t my husband or a relative in years.
Anonymous
Me too.

I’m trying to find ways to connect to make this bearable.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:People, you got married for better and for worse. A lot of people fall out of love, but they made a commitment. Then they fall back into love again.

Unless you're being abused, you have no right to complain. You made a promise to stick with someone through thick and thin. what did that mean to you? That you'd stick by them no matter what, except boredom?

There are many ways of being abused besides physical abuse.


Neglect. It’s a doozy.
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I feel the same way about my wife, but better to stay together for my son....I think 🤔?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Same, except I’m on a visa and can’t stay here if I get divorced.
Dumb a$$

Anonymous
If you are confident it is mutual I would recommend talking to DH. You might find a way to both be happier.

A DH in similar circumstances.
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