Help me enjoy this rendezvous
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Anonymous
| I had a long-term (multiyear) FWB when I was in my twenties, and we stayed friends. I'm recently divorced and we are getting together this weekend. We've been in each other's lives for over a decade, but last slept together when I was ~25 and he was in his early thirties. However. I'm really anxious about sleeping with him again! I'm just a little heavier than when we were involved, but have had a kid and have the attendant stretch marks and tummy. I'm trying to feel excited instead of dreading this. He'll also be the first man who's seen me naked (other than my ex-husband) since I got married! Please talk me down. |
gentry
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Obviously he knows that you have had kids and that there is territory that comes with it. Good men don’t expect perfection.
Relax and be confident- you’re a milf now! I’d take a confident sexy momma ANY day over a swimsuit model. |
Anonymous
| He's probably got a few extra pounds as well plus other aging changes. Just turn the lights down low and turn the heat up. |
Anonymous
| He got older too. Trust me, your fine and he'll be thrilled to see you naked. |
Anonymous
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Getting back with an old flame is like riding a bike - you never really forget how to do it!
Enjoy your weekend 
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Anonymous
| Send me a naked selfie and I promise I'll help your confidence. |
Anonymous
| OP, when the fun begins, toss on your sexiest lingerie, and pick something like a teddy. He has access to what he wants, and you might be more relaxed and comfortable. Do not forget the heels. |
Anonymous
Why on earth would you want to be talked down? You should run with this anxiety and embrace it completely - be scared, be nervous! Being all wound up like this is only going to make the EXHILARATION you feel when you two finally hook up all the more powerful. From one end of the emotional spectrum (fear) to the other (joy) in a matter of seconds as soon as he kisses you...WHOOOOOO!!! Run with it girl. Enjoy 
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Anonymous
| Wow! I envy you, OP. Have an amazing time and don’t worry, he knows that you haven’t been frozen in time. He will have changed, too, and is probably just as nervous and excited as you. |
Anonymous
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Gray pubic hair may make you feel a little anxious but many men do not mind.
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Anonymous
| Shave down there and wear something low-cut. All good. |
Anonymous
| He is going to bang you good. Don’t worry. |
Anonymous
| Update? |
Anonymous
| Make sure you both are good and drunk. |
Anonymous
| OP here. We had a great time! He kept talking about how beautiful my body was - and yup, has gotten a little paunchy with age - and I enjoyed getting together. He's such a kind man and good friend. I'm glad it went well, and thanks everyone for your encouragement! |