DH betrayed me, and I’m not sure I will ever forgive him.

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[Post New]06/08/2018 12:36
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Anonymous wrote:You are a troll, correct? You must be one way or another, either this is fake or you troll the newspaper site and that is why you're so scared of someone seeing your opinions


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Only a troll would worry about their only strength comes from anonymity; irl they are weak and spineless. So good- you had this coming.


DP. Oh can it.

You guys are assuming that the embarrassment comes from posting things that are mean, when in fact it could be that they are embarrassing for other reasons. Your quickness to jump to this assumption suggests more about you than it does about OP.

Plain and simple, this is not DH's information to divulge without permission. It's disrespectful whether or not the particular circumstance may seem trivial to some.

I'm sorry context clues aren't your thing. Try reading the OP's posts again.


I'm sorry inserting made up drama is your thing. There are no hidden clues to decipher. OP provides no info on her actual posts in the two times she posted.

Some of you people are batshit.

She is not sure if she will ever forgive her husband, who she apparently already didn't trust, for betraying her by exposing her comments, the content of which she doesn't remember. Yes, someone here is quite dramatic.

Exactly, then all casual like she says
"OP here. I don’t even recall many of my posts. My political views have nothing to do with this. It’s just odd. Perhaps he should have asked the other person for their screen name in exchange.."


"It's just odd" is a far cry from betrayal she can never forgive. Definitely a troll. OP is the one full of batshit.
[Post New]06/08/2018 12:57
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I asked my dh not to tell his family how much I make and he didn't. He told them a lower amount.
[Post New]06/08/2018 13:11
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Anonymous wrote:My DW used my gamer tag on Xbox one and lowered my K/D ratio on battlefield...I’ll never forgive...


Now that is seriously
[Post New]06/08/2018 14:18
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Anonymous wrote:My DW used my gamer tag on Xbox one and lowered my K/D ratio on battlefield...I’ll never forgive...


Now that is seriously


It’s not as profound but sometimes I show DH a video on my phone and he starts clicking links and I don’t get my phone back for 20 minutes. If I can’t trust him with my phone, how can I trust him with anything else in life?
[Post New]06/12/2018 22:40
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grace4ever
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Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I am so sorry for what you are going through. It is understandable the way that you feel because your DH exposed your screen name without your consent. I’m sure that it was not intentional, maybe he was trying to ventilate his concerns about your posts and he did not realize that it was going to offend you. Can you remember what are the things that made you fall in love of him in the beginning? I think it would be very good to remember those things that made you fall in love and focus on them. No one is perfect so no marriage is perfect. Each spouse brings their own baggage and when we get married we accept not only their strengths but also the weaknesses. Bring our own baggage means that you we bring our wounds from our own families. Counseling can be helpful to work through things like this. Marriage therapy can help you both improve in your communication and the way that you love with each other. You and your husband are worth of fighting for. Have you considered of forgiving your husband? Forgiveness is the first step of healing and change. Forgiveness does not mean that what he was doing is right but means that you appreciate more the relationship that you have with him and let the differences go. Forgiveness will restore your peace and joy. I hope both can restore your marriage. Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers my friend.-keep us posted, OK?
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