I Feel Like A Loser

Anonymous
You are in the Saturnine. It is hard but necessary. Get a notebook and write down your wishes and goals. Then start taking steps to make them happen.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I felt that way at your age. I guess a lot of people do. I had an audit lead tell me the same thing. He was 38. I told him that I heard of a US Army officer in the same spot. ( I know this from my grandfathers cousin. A general). Any how this mediocre officer was going to retire. Then WWII broke out. President Roosevelt ask Gen Ganey to help select the head of European Operations. He said a logistics officer with diplomatic skills. As we now know Eisenhower became president. My former team lead from the age of 38 to 56 became the head audit pic of a world wide organization. It did help that he checked the minority box though. Good luck


Can you post this again in coherent English?
Anonymous
I wish that I had focused more on my career at your age, and worried less about romantuc relationships. Professional achievements, and the confidence they give you, will make you a more attractive woman in the long run.
Anonymous
OP: what do you look like?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I wish that I had focused more on my career at your age, and worried less about romantuc relationships. Professional achievements, and the confidence they give you, will make you a more attractive woman in the long run.


No it won’t. You do your career for you. We care about what you do when you’re not at work.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I wish that I had focused more on my career at your age, and worried less about romantuc relationships. Professional achievements, and the confidence they give you, will make you a more attractive woman in the long run.


+1 This is the same advice I recently gave one of my younger male friends who is 30. Investing in a solid career and having professional achievement will make you a more attractive to the opposite sex. Romantic relationships may not last but having a solid career will always be there and help you attract an economically stable partner with whom you can have and support a family.
grace4ever
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Dear Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I am so sorry for what you are going through. It sounds that you have been through a lot recently.. It is understandable the way that you feel for the situation that you are experiencing with health issue. But let me tell you that you have a purpose in life. Even in the darkest moments in our lives there’s always hope. Please, let me tell you that you are not alone. Things happen for a reason. It is a hard situation that you are living now, but do not feel discouraged. Maybe you can take out the good from this situation in the near future. Hang in there!! Please do not give up! Have you ever thought seeking counseling or therapy or local churches for free? Christian counseling or therapy can be helpful to work through things like this. You are valuable and worth fighting for. In regards to find a solid career, I encourage you to check for a local career source or job training office suite in your local city/county area. Have you considered volunteering to help others who are less fortunate, such as a charity organization, Habitat for Humanity or any church ministry? You may be able to connect with someone in a ministry that could lead you to a job. This list-ly is extremely important for you are going through: https://list.ly/list/1CE4-looking-up-from-the-stubborn-darkness. Do you have a faith or believe system to help guide you through this? I do not know whether if you believe in God, I will keep you in my prayers my friend.-keep us posted, OK?
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