Your list of expectations is entirely reasonable, and if those expectations aren't met, you should make sure that the coach contacts the league assignor and/or officials and lets them know what happened. As for your opening comment, I'd like to hear some examples of what you're referring to. As a ref, my expectations are simple: Parents, set a good example to your kids by not arguing with the ref or complaining about any calls. Coaches and players, feel free to disagree with me respectfully, and I'll happily explain why I'm calling things the way I am. And to everyone, learn the Laws of the Game. There's no excuse for parents, coaches and players that put so much time and effort into soccer, not to understand offside, or the difference between a direct or indirect kick, or many, many other basic issues. The vast majority of the time when I'm cudgeling parents with my knowledge of the laws, (where's the sarcasm font when you need it) it's because, simply, I'm right and they're wrong. |
Seriously? You sound like a child. In my experience (about a total of nine years in travel if you add up three kids' worth) the referees are much more professional, knowledgeable and amiable than the parents... by far. It is true that we have a surprising number of older, out of shape referees, but for the money the make and the abuse they get, I always feel lucky to have them. |
Yeah, I realized coaching rec you have to have a whistle in your equipment bag. And hopefully a parent on your team who knows enough to step in. There is a huge problem recruiting refs for youth soccer because it just doesn't pay that well, and the people most likely to do it are probably watching their own kids play somewhere else. |