Why isn't he proposing?

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[Post New]07/04/2016 22:15
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Your "friend" is crappy and immature for letting this "slip", and you're a fool for moving in with BF without being engaged and having a wedding date set.


+1,000

Your grandmother is right.
[Post New]07/04/2016 23:26
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Anonymous
I find it so disloyal that your friend disclosed all of this to you.
She has made everything much worse for you plus she betrayed your boyfriend's confidence in a horrible way.

Oh well....It's done now.

I advise you to try not to place too much focus on this which I know will be easier said than done.
Try not counting down months + weeks, etc.

Let everything happen in an organic fashion.

Trust me, when your boyfriend is ready he will know.
[Post New]07/04/2016 23:32
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP, why don't you propose?


+1. What on earth is wrong with you that you expect the man to propose?
[Post New]07/04/2016 23:33
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Anonymous

You can also take matters into your own hands.

DH proposed on the second date, I turned him down, and starting talking to him about getting married 2 years later. I picked out the rings and everything. At least we both got to propose! As a woman brought up in a socially conservative household, I don't understand why the man should have exclusive rights to the whole marriage proposal spectacle.


[Post New]07/04/2016 23:35
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your "friend" is crappy and immature for letting this "slip", and you're a fool for moving in with BF without being engaged and having a wedding date set.


This. Don't move in. Who cares about the deposit.


If you don't live with your partner before getting engaged you're a pathetic fool. It's how mature adults learn to build a life together.
[Post New]07/04/2016 23:48
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your "friend" is crappy and immature for letting this "slip", and you're a fool for moving in with BF without being engaged and having a wedding date set.


This. Don't move in. Who cares about the deposit.


If you don't live with your partner before getting engaged you're a pathetic fool. It's how mature adults learn to build a life together.


That's right. Kind of like "mature adults" call strangers names on anonymous message boards and assume that their own experience is universal.
[Post New]07/05/2016 02:27
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ZachF
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Your GF is a horrible person.
[Post New]07/05/2016 12:30
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Anonymous
ZachF wrote:Your GF is a horrible person.


The GF is fine, none of this is a big deal to people who aren't basic bitches with tedious lives.
[Post New]07/05/2016 15:31
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, why don't you propose?


+1. What on earth is wrong with you that you expect the man to propose?


Do women REALLY propose? Because I have yet to know one woman who has proposed to her boyfriend.....
[Post New]07/05/2016 15:33
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your "friend" is crappy and immature for letting this "slip", and you're a fool for moving in with BF without being engaged and having a wedding date set.


This. Don't move in. Who cares about the deposit.


If you don't live with your partner before getting engaged you're a pathetic fool. It's how mature adults learn to build a life together.


My DH and I didnt move in together until after we got engaged. We have kids and a home and such, so I think we overcame the offs re: building a life together.
[Post New]07/05/2016 16:05
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Anonymous
Moved in together before getting engaged. It was great.
[Post New]07/05/2016 16:53
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your "friend" is crappy and immature for letting this "slip", and you're a fool for moving in with BF without being engaged and having a wedding date set.


This. Don't move in. Who cares about the deposit.


If you don't live with your partner before getting engaged you're a pathetic fool. It's how mature adults learn to build a life together.


Then explain why people who live together before marriage have higher divorce rates than those who don't.
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