Need to break up with him. Before or after holidays?

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[Post New]11/13/2015 09:40
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MikeL
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If it were done when 'tis done, then 'twere well
It were done quickly
[Post New]11/13/2015 09:58
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Do it now.
It will suck either way.
He will be hurt either way.
But if you spend the holidays together, you'll be giving the false impression that all is well.



+1
[Post New]11/13/2015 11:47
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Anonymous
OP, he probably already feels the same way. Have a talk, cry together, thank each other for what each of you has offered, and finish it. if you are longtime friends, Nevis probably a good guy. But if he has never even met your kids, he knows the score.
[Post New]11/13/2015 13:41
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Anonymous
A few years ago, a friend of mine couldn't decide whether to break up with his gf before or after Christmas (she'd given him a early gift--very nice sunglasses--and he didn't want to get her anything but didn't want to return the glasses either. Ugh). He waited until after Christmas then well into January, then she dropped the bomb of "oops, I'm pregnant". They got married and now have a two year old. He still thinks she got pregnant on purpose because she knew he wanted to end things.

If you want out, get out.
[Post New]11/13/2015 14:14
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A few years ago, a friend of mine couldn't decide whether to break up with his gf before or after Christmas (she'd given him a early gift--very nice sunglasses--and he didn't want to get her anything but didn't want to return the glasses either. Ugh). He waited until after Christmas then well into January, then she dropped the bomb of "oops, I'm pregnant". They got married and now have a two year old. He still thinks she got pregnant on purpose because she knew he wanted to end things.

If you want out, get out.


Yikes! (Do you think they'll stick it out?)
[Post New]11/13/2015 14:29
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Anonymous
Since his willingness to have sex is based on the assumption you'll be together, continuing to have sex while knowing you'll break up with him is in fact non-consensual. And therefore rape. Break up now.
[Post New]11/13/2015 14:34
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Since his willingness to have sex is based on the assumption you'll be together, continuing to have sex while knowing you'll break up with him is in fact non-consensual. And therefore rape. Break up now.


Don't be a total idiot.
[Post New]11/13/2015 14:35
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Anonymous
Just do it now.
[Post New]11/13/2015 14:41
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Anonymous
Do it now so he's able to find someone else to be balls deep in on Christmas morning.
[Post New]11/13/2015 14:53
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Do it now so he's able to find someone else to be balls deep in on Christmas morning.


And OP time to have someone balls deep in her on Christmas morning. Holidays are great hookup times! Break it off and hit the holiday parties!
[Post New]11/13/2015 15:02
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Since his willingness to have sex is based on the assumption you'll be together, continuing to have sex while knowing you'll break up with him is in fact non-consensual. And therefore rape. Break up now.


Modern uber liberal logic at its finest.
[Post New]11/13/2015 15:02
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A few years ago, a friend of mine couldn't decide whether to break up with his gf before or after Christmas (she'd given him a early gift--very nice sunglasses--and he didn't want to get her anything but didn't want to return the glasses either. Ugh). He waited until after Christmas then well into January, then she dropped the bomb of "oops, I'm pregnant". They got married and now have a two year old. He still thinks she got pregnant on purpose because she knew he wanted to end things.

If you want out, get out.


He should have walked out on her.
[Post New]11/13/2015 15:04
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Since his willingness to have sex is based on the assumption you'll be together, continuing to have sex while knowing you'll break up with him is in fact non-consensual. And therefore rape. Break up now.


Modern uber liberal logic at its finest.


It's only a matter of time before we see something like this in court and the jury declares it rape.
[Post New]11/13/2015 15:16
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Since his willingness to have sex is based on the assumption you'll be together, continuing to have sex while knowing you'll break up with him is in fact non-consensual. And therefore rape. Break up now.


Modern uber liberal logic at its finest.


It's only a matter of time before we see something like this in court and the jury declares it rape.


Oh, and if you let him take you to dinner it would be theft.
[Post New]11/13/2015 15:16
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Since his willingness to have sex is based on the assumption you'll be together, continuing to have sex while knowing you'll break up with him is in fact non-consensual. And therefore rape. Break up now.


Modern uber liberal logic at its finest.


It's only a matter of time before we see something like this in court and the jury declares it rape.


I'm an über liberal. It's already "black letter" law that consent due to "fraud" i.e. I'll marry you, is still valid consent. And I have no problem with that.
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