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[Post New]01/12/2015 18:41
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Anonymous
My wife spends way too much time on this forum: easily two-thirds of her waking hours. I'm concerned she's neglecting her work (she just told me she didn't do anything at work today and just read DCUM...this is not an unusual). Any advice on getting your spouse to take good things in small doses?
[Post New]01/13/2015 09:39
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Anonymous
If she is on here 2/3 of her time, get ready for a divorce. This place will make you hate your wife/husband and convince you that it is OK to cheat.
[Post New]01/13/2015 10:00
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If she is on here 2/3 of her time, get ready for a divorce. This place will make you hate your wife/husband and convince you that it is OK to cheat.


I'm his DW!!! LOL. I love my DH and never post complaining about him. You're a meanie.
[Post New]01/13/2015 10:03
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If she is on here 2/3 of her time, get ready for a divorce. This place will make you hate your wife/husband and convince you that it is OK to cheat.


I'm his DW!!! LOL. I love my DH and never post complaining about him. You're a meanie.


But you are probably having an emotional affair
[Post New]01/13/2015 10:05
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If she is on here 2/3 of her time, get ready for a divorce. This place will make you hate your wife/husband and convince you that it is OK to cheat.


I'm his DW!!! LOL. I love my DH and never post complaining about him. You're a meanie.


But you are probably having an emotional affair


Um, I guess, if you say it's an emotional affair with DCUM??? LOL. Seriously, there are a lot of other topics on this site besides marital issues. Stop projecting.
[Post New]01/13/2015 10:09
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Anonymous
DW: Are you admitting there's a problem?
[Post New]01/13/2015 10:13
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MikeL
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Leave her alone. She sounds fine.
Maybe should get back to work, but that's another topic.
[Post New]01/13/2015 10:14
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Anonymous
[Post New]01/13/2015 10:37
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DW: Are you admitting there's a problem?


Yes, I am. I'm doing cognitive behavioral therapy to deal with it. DH and I both overcame our World of Warcraft addictions and we'll handle this, too

Sorry, honey, I promise I won't post anymore today! I had to do this last one from my BlackBerry but it's awkward to type so I won't be tempted to continue. I love you!
[Post New]01/13/2015 14:17
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Anonymous
DW spends a lot of time on here. Should I look for posts/comments that might be her? Given the tenor on this thread so far, it seems like "no."
[Post New]01/13/2015 15:13
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Anonymous
How can someone spend 2/3 of their time on one website??!

That is just outrageous to me.

And it is starting to affect her work productivity and soon her marriage?? Yikes!!

Now we are entering some new territory here.

I don't know what to tell you OP. This is really all so brand new.

So 2015.
[Post New]01/13/2015 16:41
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If she is on here 2/3 of her time, get ready for a divorce. This place will make you hate your wife/husband and convince you that it is OK to cheat.



Actually, DCUM makes me realize how lucky I am and appreciate my wonderful husband even more.
[Post New]01/13/2015 17:10
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Anonymous
I need an intervention too, for this and my other procrastination sites.
[Post New]01/13/2015 17:12
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My wife spends way too much time on this forum: easily two-thirds of her waking hours. I'm concerned she's neglecting her work (she just told me she didn't do anything at work today and just read DCUM...this is not an unusual). Any advice on getting your spouse to take good things in small doses?


You ain't my Daddy. Now go fix us some dinner.
[Post New]01/13/2015 21:06
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DW spends a lot of time on here. Should I look for posts/comments that might be her? Given the tenor on this thread so far, it seems like "no."


DW camps out here, but I thought it was mostly on childcare until I was turned on the relationship forums. We weren't (and aren't) getting along so thought I'd see if she posts and comments, and sure enough. Been reading a couple months and then very recently read a confession about a short term emotional affair that got physical briefly. Panicked. Pumped her for details and... wasn't her. But I was convinced, spent an entire sleepless night thinking about everything (from who it could be and other gory details, to what I might do/say, what does it mean for our relationship, kids, etc), and am still kind of emotionally off balance.

But, I think the experience (convinced DW had an affair but didn't) will actually help save our marriage (not sure what would have happened had I confirmed it was her). But, it wasn't fun at the time and YMMV.
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