Surprise, not all Christians follow the Pope. There is a very wide range of Christian beliefs. So why are you blaming all "you Christians" for the actions of a few, and how is this different from atheists? But you knew this of course. Hypocrite - again. |
To paraphrase Larry Summers, "There are assholes. Look around." |
Anyone with brain cells will tell you that being a Christian is not about being a saint. We are all imperfect. If I based my belief in God/Jesus on the actions of Christians, I'd probably be an atheist too. But I, thankfully, realize that being called to love one another does not preclude me from chastising someone and/or having differing opinions. |
I'm not 10:30. But I'm with her. I don't think calling out atheists on their awful behavior is unchristian. What is unchristian is how the "smug Christian" pretends this is about atheism per se, instead of about atheists' behavior. Don't twist the debate. Then read Luke - you're supposed to talk with other people about their bad behavior, but judging - atheists or your fellow Christians- is flat-out wrong.
Glad the Smug Christian's nasty, un-Christian attacks on other Christians provided some amusement for the Ranting Atheist, though. |
I think you have me confused with another poster. I'm the poster who said that I shouldn't be responsible for the posts of other atheists and I won't hold you responsible for David Koresh. |
I have two Christian friends who celebrate Passover and Hanukkah. I think you should be able to observe as you please. |
Well, in the first place, Lent is *Catholic*, not Protestant. But Protestants have been appropriating lenten traditions for a while now. So we've already travelled down the road of cultural appropriation.
Still, even though I'm an atheist ex-catholic, something about non-Catholics (not just atheists) doing Lenten traditions (Ash Wednesday, giving something up) does grate on me. I guess it's because I grew up in a minority Catholic area, so I don't feel that comfortable with people appropriating my culture as they see fit, just because it seems cool or whatever. I also grew up in a pretty intensely religious home, and it took quite a while and a lot of thought to arrive at my atheism. Because of this, I think I take ALL religious practices very seriously and would never just wholesale adopt one because it seemed pleasing for whatever reason. I've met other atheists who feel the same way: perhaps counter-intuitively, because we've thought a lot about religious believes and how important and meaningful they are, we actually have a lot of respect for religious traditions and take them more seriously than casual believers might. |
On protestants and lent: http://www.slate.com/articles/life/faithbased/2006/02/get_lent.html
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Quick Smug Christian! Register the "SmugChristian" DCUM alias while it's still available! We need a team of psychologists to untangle PP, though. never seen anyone so quick to anger, so quick to cast stones, and so quick to go on the defensive: "I'm not judging! I'm just calling out bad behavior! You're judging!" It's like a simmering gumbo of pathology. |
Apart from yourself, at least going by the posts you bother to put your name on ![]() |
Totally agree with RA on this. |
I'm a non-denominational Christian and I don't observe Lent. It does seem a bit odd when non-Catholics participate. I can't help but think that these folks are following "the fad". Participating in a religious observation without full understanding of its importance seems a bit disrespectful and insincere to me. |
Did any of you actually read OP's post? They are upset that all other days of the year, the bf mocks being a Christian but then wants to partake in something that is a Christian 40 day long tradition. Nobody is saying atheist cant participate in Christian holidays, but it's off putting when that atheist mocks the very thing they are wanting to participate in. |
That's not an accurate summary. OP's boyfriend may mock the Catholic church and many of its teachings (something even many Catholics do!), but OP did not say he was mocking Lent specifically. Indeed, if he's mocking Lent and saying Lent's really a dumb thing to do, I'm also puzzled why he's choosing to participate. I suspect he has negative views of the Catholic church and its teachings, but sees some positive value in the sacrifice and purpose behind Lent. That doesn't seem inconsistent at all to me, and again, I suspect many Catholics feel the same way. Just so we're all clear, I am the atheist who posted at 12:35 on page 1 of this thread, where I spelled out exactly how and why I sacrifice during Lent season. Here are some views I distill from this thread and others. I'll dub them the "Asshole View of Religion" (AVR). 1. Don't be an asshole. Whether you are a Catholic, a Christian, a Jew, a Hindu, a Muslim, a Mormon, a multi-theist, a pan-theist, an atheist, or whatever ... just don't be an asshole. 2. Sadly, however, the world is full of assholes. They come in all shapes and sizes, and from all viewpoints on the spectrum of religion (including non-religion). 3. Just because you meet an asshole of one religious viewpoint does not mean that everyone else who shares that viewpoint is also an asshole. 4. Just because someone disagrees with your own chosen religious viewpoint, or even thinks your views on religion are utterly stupid, does not mean that other person is an asshole. 5. The line between asshole and non-asshole can be a very hard one to spot. So if you think someone else crossed the line, give her the benefit of the doubt, since maybe you misjudged the line. By the same token, if you yourself are getting close to the line, take a step back, lest you be judged an asshole. 6. Many teachings of different religious viewpoints (including non-religious viewpoints) are positive, and they can lead you to be a better person. If you can identify and follow some of these teachings, you are less likely to be an asshole. Also ... people aren't wearing enough hats. |
I think you're missing the point here. If OP's BF is an athiest, he doesn't believe in God (or faith, for that matter). So why, exactly, would he want to participate in Lent? I agree with OP that this doesn't make much sense and would be inclined to be annoyed with the BF, too. |