Did you get your son circumcised?

Anonymous
Is Rush on DCUM? See also reference to the CDC - in addition to AAP, HIH, and WHO on medical benefit -- and that since there are pros and cons, one should leave the decision up to parents.

Thursday, Aug 27, 2009 13:35 ET
Limbaugh: You'll pry my foreskin from my cold, dead hands
Circumcision -- tool of the coming fascist, penis-hating regime
By Gabriel Winant

AP Photo/J. Scott Applewhite
Conservative talk radio host Rush Limbaugh attends a ceremony in the East Room of the White House in Washington, Tuesday, Jan. 13, 2009. President Bush was presenting the Presidential Medal of Freedom to Colombian President Alvaro Uribe, former British Prime Minister Tony Blair and former Australian Prime Minister John Howard. Limbaugh, who suffered hearing loss as a result of autoimmune inner ear disease, wears a cochlear implant, a powerful hearing aid that is implanted in the inner ear of an individual with nerve deafness. If you had to whip up a too-good-to-be-true story for the right-wing pundit class to freak out over, what elements would you include? There would have to be, of course, an element of command-and-control socialist-fascist invasion and regulation of the most private parts of our lives, in the name of some spurious "common good." But that alone is a little pedestrian nowadays, so you'd want to add a nice dollop of male sexual neurosis to really kick it up a notch. Then add just a hint of racial fear and beat to a froth.

What are we talking about here? Officials at the Centers for Disease Control, showing touching naiveté about the current political environment, are weighing an initiative to encourage male circumcision, with the idea that there are probably some minor health benefits. Says Dr. Peter Kilmarx, the head of epidemiology for the H.I.V./AIDS Prevention wing of the CDC, "What we've heard from our consultants is that there would be a benefit for infants from infant circumcision, and that the benefits outweigh the risks."

Seems straightforward. Sure, there are reasonable people on all sides of the general arguments about circumcision, but if the CDC takes a rigorous look and decides to encourage the surgery, what harm can they do?

Only a little bit, it turns out, but in a place where it really hurts. Ed Morrissey of the conservative blog Hot Air writes, "If the CDC -- which is part of the same government that will control health care -- decides that circumcision is beneficial and cost-efficient in the long term, that same mechanism would create pressure on doctors and patients to perform them."

Morrissey's argument has the same basic flaw that animated the "death panel" fears: an inability to distinguish between advice and force. If this CDC proposal goes into effect, it, like the now-dead end-of-life counseling proposal, would make available some valuable medical advice. There's nothing on the table to penalize doctors who don't circumcise newborns, or parents who decline the procedure. To have a "mechanism [that] would create pressure on doctors and patients," you need, well, a mechanism. Morrissey can't come up with one.

But when was the last time that stopped these guys? Two days ago, Rush Limbaugh claimed, "It is President Obama who wants [to] mandate circumcision ... And that means, if we need to save our penises from anybody, it's Obama."

So now that we're talking about Limbaugh's penis, all of a sudden, we're in a world where the tiniest measure of government suggestion about sexual health equals a full onslaught against privacy. Expect to see the radio talker at the next march to protect abortion rights with a "Keep your government hands off my private parts" sign.

Gabriel Winant is a graduate student in American history at Yale. More: Gabriel Winant

cuzimawesome
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Anonymous wrote:Is Rush on DCUM? See also reference to the CDC - in addition to AAP, HIH, and WHO on medical benefit -- and that since there are pros and cons, one should leave the decision up to parents.

Thursday, Aug 27, 2009 13:35 ET
Limbaugh: You'll pry my foreskin from my cold, dead hands
Circumcision -- tool of the coming fascist, penis-hating regime
By Gabriel Winant

AP Photo/J. Scott Applewhite
Conservative talk radio host Rush Limbaugh attends a ceremony in the East Room of the White House in Washington, Tuesday, Jan. 13, 2009. President Bush was presenting the Presidential Medal of Freedom to Colombian President Alvaro Uribe, former British Prime Minister Tony Blair and former Australian Prime Minister John Howard. Limbaugh, who suffered hearing loss as a result of autoimmune inner ear disease, wears a cochlear implant, a powerful hearing aid that is implanted in the inner ear of an individual with nerve deafness. If you had to whip up a too-good-to-be-true story for the right-wing pundit class to freak out over, what elements would you include? There would have to be, of course, an element of command-and-control socialist-fascist invasion and regulation of the most private parts of our
lives, in the name of some spurious "common good." But that alone is a little pedestrian nowadays, so you'd want to add a nice dollop of male sexual neurosis to really kick it up a notch. Then add just a hint of racial fear and beat to a froth.

What are we talking about here? Officials at the Centers for Disease Control, showing touching naiveté about the current political environment, are weighing an initiative to encourage male circumcision, with the idea that there are probably some minor health benefits. Says Dr. Peter Kilmarx, the head of epidemiology for the H.I.V./AIDS Prevention wing of the CDC, "What we've heard from our consultants is that there would be a benefit for infants from infant circumcision, and that the benefits outweigh the risks."

Seems straightforward. Sure, there are reasonable people on all sides of the general arguments about circumcision, but if the CDC takes a rigorous look and decides to encourage the surgery, what harm can they do?

Only a little bit, it turns out, but in a place where it really hurts. Ed Morrissey of the conservative blog Hot Air writes, "If the CDC -- which is part of the same government that will control health care -- decides that circumcision is beneficial and cost-efficient in the long term, that same mechanism would create pressure on doctors and patients to perform them."

Morrissey's argument has the same basic flaw that animated the "death panel" fears: an inability to distinguish between advice and force. If this CDC proposal goes into effect, it, like the now-dead end-of-life counseling proposal, would make available some valuable medical advice. There's nothing on the table to penalize doctors who don't circumcise newborns, or parents who decline the procedure. To have a "mechanism [that] would create pressure on doctors and patients," you need, well, a mechanism. Morrissey can't come up with one.

But when was the last time that stopped these guys? Two days ago, Rush Limbaugh claimed, "It is President Obama who wants [to] mandate circumcision ... And that means, if we need to save our penises from anybody, it's Obama."

So now that we're talking about Limbaugh's penis, all of a sudden, we're in a world where the tiniest measure of government suggestion about sexual health equals a full onslaught against privacy. Expect to see the radio talker at the next march to protect abortion rights with a "Keep your government hands off my private parts" sign.

Gabriel Winant is a graduate student in American history at Yale. More: Gabriel Winant



Well shit. I don't wanna be like Rush. Therefore I change my position! I now declare myself a supporter of all circumcisions!
Anonymous
one son and YES! And I don't regret it.

His half brother it is not and now with 8 years old HE HAS TO DO IT but he is afraid.
cuzimawesome
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Anonymous wrote:one son and YES! And I don't regret it.

His half brother it is not and now with 8 years old HE HAS TO DO IT but he is afraid.


Why does he have to do it?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
So if you take away all of the improper care problems, problems with the intact male are rare. If your son suffered one of them, you have my sympathies, but your plight does not convince me that we should all circ our babies. (interestingly, breastfeeding reduces UTI's much more than circumcision, but many of the same people who circ do not breastfeed or do not breastfeed for long. They're willing to cut a piece of baby's penis off to reduce the risks of a UTI but they can't breastfeed? I'm not saying this was true in your case, but it's an issue that baffles me at times and I think goes a long way to illustrate that people are NOT circumcising mainly due to health issues but rather culture, because dad is, or cosmetic).

I love how niftily you expanded your characterization of families who opt for circumcision! Yes, they are wicked, wicked people who advance upon newborn babies with scalpel in one hand and formula bottle in the other, grinning menacingly as they move. What other evil tendencies might these baby-butchers have? Feed their children non-organic vegetables? Let them play with plastic, Chinese-made toys? Leave them in carseats with the motor running? Oh evil, evil is their name!

Sarcasm aside, suitable as it may be for this argument, do you have any actual data or reason (based on evidence) to believe that families who circumcise are less likely to breastfeed? Care to share sources? Preferably the ones that have nothing to do with your opinion.


Yeah, this statement is odd. We circ'd and I actually exclusively pumped (so went above and beyond breastfeeding) for 12 months. No correlation or causation for us.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
And, by the way, to PP, a toddler's death from being under a *general anesthetic* for a circumcision is not on point. http://gothamist.com/2011/05/05/circumcision_gone_wrong_leaves_quee.php I have no idea why one would have a general anesthetic -- which has substantial risks always. The normal practice is local or none.


Only up to a certain age, then they always use general, perhaps short of an adult choosing a local.

None is quite unethical, yet I agree with you that it is common.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Sarcasm aside, suitable as it may be for this argument, do you have any actual data or reason (based on evidence) to believe that families who circumcise are less likely to breastfeed? Care to share sources? Preferably the ones that have nothing to do with your opinion.


I'm not the pp you quoted but I don't think she stated that families who circ are less likely to breastfeed -- just that many don't. Many who don't circ also don't breastfeed, I'm sure.

Her point was that if one was examining the studies that suggest the potential for a lower likelihood of UTI in the first year of life (perhaps, the study is flawed, as a pp mentioned), and choose to remove a functional part of their son's body to decrease this risk, perhaps they should consider breastfeeding, which doesn't cost anyone a body part.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:We did. DS was born last year. Asked my OB what percentage of his patients did it, and he said 80%. (This is in DC.)

Still feel odd about the decision though. If I had to do it again, there's a good chance I would not do it. No complications or anything, just seems unnatural to me. But didn't feel that strongly against it and DH felt strongly in favor.


^^^This was me. I don't think I'd do it again, if I could go back, and not b/c my DS has had any complications...it just felt wrong/unnatural. We read all the research and were really on the fence, and ultimately ended up circ'ing b/c 2 good friends of ours had problems w/ their foreskins and tightness growing up, got circ'd in their 20s/30s, and it was such a hard process in adulthood (after many years of discomfort pre-circ) that we we were swayed to do so at infancy. But again, not sure I'd make the same decision if faced w/ it again.
Anonymous
I hope that male infant circumcision will one day be relegated to the same list of body modification rituals that we consider bizarre such as Chinese foot binding, female genital mutilation, whalebone corset wearing, scarification, neck rings, lip stretching, etc. It is all the same. Cosmetic procedures because people in the culture continue to see these things as more attractive. They are beauty rituals. The sad part about male circumcision is that we do it to babies who can't choose for themselves.
Anonymous
I am Catholic and DH is Jewish. We did circumcise DS shortly after birth. Neither he nor I are devout, but DH wanted it done, and all the boys in my family are circed too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
All the docs agreed that we needed to wait until DS was recovered from the first UTI (so I can't imagine doing it to a baby who was STILL in the NICU, yikes!). Once he was, we picked a ped. surgeon (who also practices as a mohel). He had an anesthetic injection, but still cried HARD when we got him back in the recovery room and refused to nurse for several hours--that was very hard for me. But he was back to his usual self within a day.
So the way I see it, he lost his foreskin, but it probably saved his kidney.


If you are referring to our case (we have previously crossed path on DCUM about our sons with UTIs before), my son was not in the NICU anymore and his circumcision was done the night before he was supposed to be discharged. (he was 4 weeks old, btw and discharged on his due date) And of course he was fully recovered from his UTI (otherwise they wouldn't have let the OB do it) So if you think that that's what caused his complications, it was not. Btw my son did not cry at all after the procedure or at any point the next day.

It still seems to me that the research on preventing kidney failure through circumcision is controversial. Yes, our son never had a UTI again, but neither of my uncir'ed brothers ever had one either.

I am with you on the fact that it is a personal choice. But to make it sound like it is ALWAYS medically preferable or necessary is just wrong. Also, the majority of people do not have pediatric surgeons do the procedure.

Anonymous
When DS was born, we chose not to circ. Fast forward 3 years. DS had developed adhesions that prevented the foreskin from retracting. When he urinated it sprayed all over the place. While it was annoying to us, it was very upsetting for him. He has always been rather fastidious. The ped. urologist at Johns Hopkins finally recommended that he be circ'd. We ended up having him circumcised at 4 years, a month before DD was born. He had to undergo general anesthesia for the process which took about 1.5 hours. If I had to do it over again I would have had the procedure done when he was born.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Not the poster you are arguing with, but it's hard to argue with someone like this. Your views are really skewed here. Yes, FGM is perpetuated as violence against baby girls / women in OUR view. In the view of those doing it, it's culture, tradition, and necessary. You say "there doesn't seem to be a problem" with male circumcision, which just shows that you've completely ignored all of the risks and drawbacks that so many people have patiently laid out here. For all your supposed reasonableness, you just don't want to accept the basic premises that there are risks involved with circumcision. I've laid out, a few pages back, my opinions that the risks outweigh the benefits. Studies that demonstrated UTI's (are you the UTI poster?) are much more common in intact babies are flawed and we've said why. Studies demonstrating HIV reduction are DEEPLY flawed and we've said why. UTI's are caused by a number of things - bubble bath and soap can do it (intact or not). Proper care of the penis and foreskin (aka leave it alone!) are important. In the hospital where my son was born, I was absolutely shocked that a nurse there actually was looking at him and tried to move his foreskin down. She was like "when you clean him, you need to get under these folds." If I hadn't stopped her, she might have retracted his penis. So many of the supposed "problems" with intact men come from mistakes that health care providers make (a friend of mine's son was forcibly retracted by his pediatrician before the mom realized what was happening at 12 months).

So if you take away all of the improper care problems, problems with the intact male are rare. If your son suffered one of them, you have my sympathies, but your plight does not convince me that we should all circ our babies. (interestingly, breastfeeding reduces UTI's much more than circumcision, but many of the same people who circ do not breastfeed or do not breastfeed for long. They're willing to cut a piece of baby's penis off to reduce the risks of a UTI but they can't breastfeed? I'm not saying this was true in your case, but it's an issue that baffles me at times and I think goes a long way to illustrate that people are NOT circumcising mainly due to health issues but rather culture, because dad is, or cosmetic).

Like the UTI argument, in fact there is even stronger evidence here, (I've laid it all out above) the HIV reduction works only in a very, very specific vacuum that is not like the situation we have in the U.S. because we don't practice dry sex and much (not all) of our HIV transmission is man on man or needle driven and this only reduces female to male (not male to female) transmission rates. Your child is SO much better off wearing a condom when it comes time for sex.

I do not know what I think about making circumcision illegal. I'd like to see that happen, but I'm not sure it ever will. I think circumcision will slowly go away when medicaid stops covering it in all areas except where there is medical need (this would just be a manner of coding, so I'm sure some practitioners would have nearly all babies with medical need, but it's a start. Private health insurances frequently follow medicaid's practice, and that will make parents face the fact that they're doing cosmetic surgery on a baby, there is no health benefit, there are risks, and they're on the hook to pay for it.

Until then, I just hope more parents can be counted on to do the research and spare their poor babies this barbaric ritual.


20:13 again. I DO accept that there are risks to circumcision. I feel that they are minor, statistically acceptable risks, and when weighed against the also minor benefits for healthy babies, it comes out to a wash. Thus, it should be the parents' choice, and we should stop demonizing people for making that choice.

The UTI studies to which I refer are much newer, 2001 and 2010:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11445813
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022534710033239
Yes, the earlier studies you mentioned were flawed, but that doesn't automatically mean they were wrong, it means new studies need to be done to test the hypothesis again. The two new studies I linked above go a long ways towards doing that.

The same applies to HIV studies. Yes, the earlier studies were flawed and thus not valid. But again, not necessarily wrong--new studies are needed. Some are apparently underway with promising results; I haven't researched this extensively, but a quick search led me to this article:
http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=circumcision-penis-microbiome-hiv-infection&page=2
(And OF COURSE I will teach my son to wear a condom, but any extra prevention is good in my book. I also plan to teach any daughters to insist on condoms, but I will still give them the HPV vaccine.)

I do agree that more education is vital regarding care of the uncirced penis, and that parents of intact children remain vigilant against early retraction to prevent problems.

My son did not have any problems with his penis, intact or not. His problems were all internal; reducing his chance of future UTIs was critical, and so based on the new research I linked above, it was recommended that we have him circed, so we did. But he did not have any problems with his foreskin, from poor care or anything else.

I breastfed exclusively for 6 months, and continued for over a year, and am offended at your insinuation. I highly doubt you can show ANY correlation between breastfeeding rates and circumcision rates, so you need to stop making that claim.

Lastly, I never, ever said we should circ all babies. I don't even think it is always better. I think it is a very close call, and given that I still haven't seen any evidence of widespread harm from the procedure (and you'd think we'd have enough data at this point to determine that), I only wish the option to be available to all parents to make the choice that is right for them without being demonized.

I have no problem with people who choose not to circumcise their sons, for whatever reason.

I have a problem with people who throw around outright insults or use false logic to make spurious and insulting claims and insinuations about my opinions, intelligence, education, love for my child, breastfeeding status, etc. It doesn't help your case.

But, I strongly suspect that I will never change your mind, whatever evidence or arguments I present. To you, I am barbaric, and that's the bottom line. I'm sorry.
Anonymous
17:11, I'm sorry, but that makes no sense. An intact boy doesn't "develop adhesions" at the age of 3, he retains adhesions, as it were. They're normal at birth and yes, still at 3, and resolve at some point before puberty. Spraying means the separation process had begun and he was on his way toward retraction.
Anonymous
17:11, were you attempting to retract him as well? I hope that wasn't the medical advice you were given. It really shouldn't be messed with by anyone but the child and retraction is unnecessary until the child can do so themselves at whatever age that may be.
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