
Mid forties are the new mid thirties... |
When the oggler is mid-40s, and the oggled is in her mid-30s, the oggler is a dirty old man. Perhaps more a delusional middle-aged man.
I don't even know what to do with your assertion that anyone over high school age is fair game. Even men in their actual mid-30s (not their delusional "new mid-30s") are too old to think this way. |
45 yo woman here - 'oogling' at any age is creepy but there's nothing wrong with admiring the human form as long as that person is of legal age. Men may do it more than women but don't tell me most women don't enjoy looking at a fit, attractive man. I don't know how old David Beckham is but he looked quite studly at the royal wedding and....well, let's say I'd hit that on Thursday. |
I can tell you that the "Our Whole Lives" OWL class at the Cedar Lane UU church in Bethesda is really well done. It will cover EVERYTHING though so your friend needs to feel comfortable with the curricula. The next course - which lasts from Sept to April will have registration in August and meets on Sundays. It will not be in agreement with Catholic religious teaching, but you don't need to be a UU to go.
Scroll down here to see the curriculum which is taught to 8th and 9th graders at Cedar Lane. http://www.uuabookstore.org/productdetails.cfm?PC=720 |