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OP here - I tried to reply to a thread above but I guess I messed up formatting. Long story short - we will be making a trip down to DC in the coming months to scope out the Hill and the commute etc but for those familiar with it - are there any general differences between different areas of the Hill?
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Some areas are grittier than others. The closer to the Hill itself the better, generally speaking. But again it ain’t Hoboken. |
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NP. This is what I think too. It's not an hour each way, unfortunately. I think CH might be closest to what you're looking for otherwise. |
+1 This is a perfect solution, and I bet you’ll end up liking it more than Hoboken |
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I guess you sre fixated on trying to replicate Hoboken. And you are going to CH. But please please please do mot sign a multiyear lease or buy until after your second winter here.
You are condemning DH to a hellish commute which in his and your innocence he is willing to do to get you the lifestyle you want for your family. Ok. But the reality is he will not have much quality time in the family during the week. The anxious weather watching wrt snow or wintery mix an the DC area version of snow removal is wearing. I wager most of the CH cheerleaders do not commute to Ft Meade daily. And if he needs to be there on weekends he is driving. |
If you stay out of the bathrooms and are just using Union Station during commuting hours, it's fine. That said, the commute from Union Station to Ft Meade plus a shuttle 5 days a week sounds horrific. I wouldn't even consider it unless it were a unique job opportunity with a finite term, or something paying the big bucks, as they say. These trains are NOT what you are accustomed to in NJ and NY. That being said, I think you would enjoy the other aspects of living in CH. Idk why everyone keeps telling you that you will be disappointed, I presume you already know you can't replicate Hoboken and a NYC-adjacent lifestyle in DC. |
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OP here - yes, I know it won't be Hoboken. There are things about Hoboken that we're ready to move on from - e.g., it sounds like we'll get a bit more space for our $$ in CH, a little less hustle/bustle, etc. Those are net positives.
We just really do not want a suburban lifestyle yet. We are not ready to settle into a full detached house with a big front and back yard that we need to maintain, and the requirement to drive everywhere (grocery, parks, school, etc.). Maybe some day but not yet. These factors - plus the plethora of young, seemingly like-minded families, is what is driving us to look at CH. For the record, my husband (the Ft Meade commuter) is just as stubborn about these requirements as I am, if not more, and understands the trade-offs in terms of commute. We won't be buying - just a lease, likely for one year only as we get our bearings. I hear those of you saying the commute via Union Station would be alot. Just curious - if this were your commute, would you rather drive via 295 or is that worse? Thanks in advance. |
That is the hope! |
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I grew up in NJ outside of nyc as well. The transit is not like it is there. Taking the Marc or the shuttle every day will be terrible. It would
Make more sense to be closer to FT. Meade and you commute longer since it’s 2-3 days in person vs. five. Maybe some places in Howard county (Fulton, MD) or Montgomery County would work for what you are looking for. |
I think I would pick Union Station verses 295 as the best of 2 bad choices. I only drive 295 a few weekday mornings per year, but I completely dread it. I never know if it will take me 75 minutes or a full 2 hours to get where I am going. It's not just 295, it can be absolute hell inside the DC city limits in and around the Hill during commuting hours, especially afternoons/evenings, IME. Maybe someone who drives it more regularly can weigh in. Perhaps I have just had extraordinarily bad luck. |
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I'd focus on Capitol Hill which is dense, historic and beautiful with cafes and galleries. The elementary schools are excellent and a number of kids stay public through high school since there are many strong middle and high school options accessible via Metro rail or bus. Totally doable for a family.
Or focus on Baltimore, but I'd don't think the public school options are as strong as D.C.'s. Bolton Hill, Canton, Federal Hill, Hampden, etc are all wonderful neighborhoods you'd like. |
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NE DC is the clear answer, and I’m shocked no one mentioned that DC has free Pre-K for age 3 and 4 while Maryland does not, which is immediately relevant to you. Plenty of great elementary schools in NE DC, it doesn’t get dicey until middle school and by then you will know the area.
Capitol Hill is a great choice but you should also consider Brookland, which is a shorter commute to Ft Meade. Tons of young families there and walkable restaurants and cafes. |
Brookland is also a good suggestion. It’s not as dense and connected as Capitol Hill but is charming and has good metro access. I’d still suggest Capitol Hill. I’ve done something close-ish to that commute. I drove from Capitol Hill to NASA Goddard (not all that far from Ft Meade) for two years (about 2022-2024, so post pandemic/normal traffic levels). I took 295 each way daily. It actually wasn’t that bad, and I hate driving. It was a reverse commute from most people. Coming home/back into the city was always worse than going to work. I’d say it took 45/50 min each way. I did figure out a great “local roads” option after a few weeks that could keep me off 295 if there was something like an accident going on. All in all, it really wasn’t all that bad. Would I choose to do it again? No, but I had a job there and also loved my life on Capitol Hill. |