I have an old Rick Steves carryon and I love it. It's 25 years old so different models are stocked now I also use an old Eagle Creek laptop backpack bag as my one personal item by stowing my small travel crossbody purse in it. Both are soft sided so very expandable as needed. I try to leave a lot of capacity outbound. But if I need to check the suitcase on the way home I will. I didn't have trouble with a roller bag in central Florence or Rome or Venice, using public transport. I am a F in 50s. |
Ugh, “look European,” again?!?! What do you do about your U.S. passport? Can you obtain a faux EU passport cover to look European? |
Trip was wonderful! I would highly encourage all women to travel solo at least once in their lives. I was not truly lonely because I was in English-speaking countries and could easily strike up a conversation with others. I always suggest first-timers or newbies do solo travel to English-speaking countries first. I took public trains and buses all over, and being able to read the schedules, ask questions, etc. eased any concerns I had. Dining alone doesn't have to be lonely - i love to people watch, and have a book or my phone to look at. Dining earlier helps to get a table without feeling like you are taking up space. Or sitting at a bar for a meal is a great way to meet others. In NZ, I sat at a bar to eat an early dinner and struck up a conversation with a 20-something woman who was in the same career field as I had been. We had such a good conversation, we wound up sitting at a table for awhile and talked about our experiences. I would sign up for day tours or walking tours. Talking with others on the tour helped fill a desire to converse. Hotel/B&B owners are often very friendly, too. Especially once you are a "certain age" I think it is easier. Maybe people see their mom/grandmom in you and feel protective and helpful towards you. I always had someone offer to help with my bag even if I didn't really need it. Same with seats on transport - it is SO nice when others give you their seat after a long day of sightseeing! Some benefits of getting older! Otherwise, be realistic about what you can do physically and plan accordingly. Only on one tour did I have a bit of trouble keeping up because the 20-something tour guide walked uphill fairly fast. I didn't let it bother me, though, because I knew I'd catch up. If there was anything that I felt was risky physically, I just didn't do it and "sat it out" somewhere. I didn't want my trip ruined because I overdid something. Speaking of which, I do make sure to purchase good travel insurance which includes a large medivac allowance. Although I take solo trips I am not single. I am very fortunate that my DH does not mind my wanderlusting, and sometimes he joins up with me later in a trip. But if I can be totally honest I have had many more memorable experiences when I've been alone simply because I have more conversations with others/locals. I find that you don't get approached for conversation as easily when you are a couple - people assume you don't want any interruptions, I guess. |
Respectfully disagree with this. You need at least one extra pair of shoes or sandals (wear with socks if need be.) If the one pair of shoes you have get sopping wet, or break in some way, you are SOL. It isn't always easy to find another pair of shoes that meet your needs. In many small/medium towns in foreign countries, stores may not be open when you need them, they may not have style/size you need AND you may need to WALK to get to there! Plus it's always better foot-health to rotate and let your shoes air out for a while, especially when you are putting lots of miles on them and wearing them all day. |
Take old or cheap clothing which you can shed if needed. |
Pack for utility and comfort, no need to carry vanity stuff to impress people there or back home with pictures. |
One very important item! Get some sort of cell phone tether/lanyard. Cell phone theft is rampant. Never leave your lodging before making sure the phone is tethered to your pants or purse. |
Trying to be gracious while also not understanding the mindset, at all. For anyone who hasn't traveled alone - get out there!
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I use one of those very small wheely carry-ons, the kind that flight attendants use (except Amazon Basics brand). That and a school-based backpack is enough for a week for me.
If you can avoid bringing extra shoes, big hair tools like hair dryers or flat irons, and bulky sweaters or jackets, it's fine. The small carry-on is light and easy to grab to go up stairs when necessary. |
I traveled alone for decades, as a young adult. Now, as an older person with an empty nest, it is more daunting. If you are not in that phase of life yet, don’t assume how it feels. |
I like osprey backpacks in general. I have a Briggs and Riley rolling backpack that I have used in Europe and Morocco, where there aren’t always escalators but they don’t make this model anymore.
Suggest checking out this rolling backpack by osprey https://www.rei.com/product/207738/osprey-fairview-36-wheeled-travel-pack-womens?cm_mmc=aff_AL-_-178833-_-227769-_-NA&avad=227769_b37651275 |
Hmmm...I'm a mom of 2 tweens going to an epic 4 wk adventure trip without DH who can't take off enough time for work and I'm also thinking of the same strategies for light travel.
I've done a lot of travelling in my day but it really boils down to this: how little can you afford to pack? We'll be doing trains, planes, car rides, hiking and in a country that while safe, will be very culturally different than the US. I mean - it doesn't matter what bag or bags you choose - you can only carry X much with you. For us, I think I'm looking at each of of having a regular carry on rolling pack + backpack of 20-30L. While I plan on doing wash during this trip but it comes down to wanting to bring enough and have enough space if we did buy a few things too. My plan is to use a lot of compression packs and luckily it's summer so I'm not looking at sweaters ![]() Some brands I've always like include Caraa, Beis and I use a lot of diaper bags. Diaper bags are good for short people because they are not long but wide in shape typically. They have 10000 pockets and I like that they usually are designed to be quite fashionable + practical - convertible carry functions for example. I like Briggs for luggage because they have a compression system where you can fit 50L - truly the most in a bag I have ever found! I've considered checking in my carry on and taking 2 smaller packs - this allows for travelling light on our day trips with more flex by having 2 packs that are both small and just choosing which I need for that day. I don't know if that helps you to have a small rolling bag to check but carry on 2 items and then you have 3 pieces to choose from when you train/travel day trips but still easy enough to actually get around given that all 3 bags are small. Good luck! |
I'm using a JanSport Driver 8 convertible bag. I bought this in one of my trips in Asia. I can carry it as a backpack when contents are light, but roll it when it is heavy. |
Oh, this is a great idea! Thank you (not the OP) |
I have learned to travel with carry ons only and can definitely get through a week without washing more than a couple of things in the sink. After a week I need laundry.
I am 60+ and also vote for rolling carryon and small backpack. I have a Lo&Sons backpack that is lightweight and also has a sleeve that goes over the handle of the rolling bag so I can roll both together when possible. |