Your logic is childlike. You are basing your numbers on the admitted open house for the group you were in but there were a lot of groups and they seemed to have been created based on your sending school. If you came from a school with a lot of Asian American students or were grouped with kids from another more Asian schools like the Churchill feeders the demographics at that open house probably looked really different than if you came from some of the middle schools that have fewer Asian Americans. |
How do you know who had to work harder? How can you compare? Maybe the kids who made use of the programs they had access to, had to work really hard to get in. Why compare and single them out as privileged? The same argument can be made about other kids who had other resources such as parents, great teachers, good peer group, etc. Were they not privileged? Or the kids who are bright enough to be able to grasp ideas and didn't need to put much effort in, are they not also privileged to be smart? And what about other kids who also worked hard but didn't get in because there are only x number of spots, are they privileged? Or shall we label them as suckers? What is the point of comparing like this?? |
Nope did not. And my observations held true at the admitted students main session in the auditorium, and also at the recent back to school night in the magnet classes. Plus my kid’s observations in their classes at school in the program. But I guess the back to school night representation was just flawed because Asian families are more likely to show up than other groups?!! Very clear that you don’t have a 9th grader in the magnet. |
Look, access to tutors and “enrichment” programs is a privilege that advantages some kids over others. That’s a fact. I’m not continuing this argument beyond that. Some kids succeed without that kind of parental or special help - that’s impressive. Not the kid who has been hothoused since birth. |
But why the fixation on comparing who was more privileged? Shouldn't it be celebrated that both kids have put in a lot of effort and accomplished something, irrespective of how they learned? I would say both are impressive and have great potential. Think about most of the world's leaders in various domains; most were certainly privileged in many ways. The main thing that matters is what they can accomplish and how they can use their knowledge to benefit humanity. Comparing their privilege is pretty irrelevant. |
It's funny! I've been using this thread for a while, but this is my first post. Let me share what I know. No need to sugarcoat it. Blair seems to outperform RMIB in NMSF and SAT, perhaps due to its larger Asian student population. Initially, we favored Blair for our child, but she changed her mind after a shadow day at RM. I even know a boy who picked Blair immediately after a shadow day, despite his mom's preference for Blair. In my daughter's middle school, more students chose Blair than RMIB for the Class of 2026. Preferences do seem to shift each year. It's normal for kids to make different choices, and I'll never blame others for that. Claiming people are lying just because they didn't choose Blair is amusing. I feel sorry for your bigotry. School decisions are personal. In the Class of 2022, RMIB had strong college acceptance results, and Wootton seemed very poor. But this year, Blair performed better, and Wootton turned out to be amazing. Why? Because things change all the time. It's important to have open and respectful conversations. I share what I know based on my DD’s school data, but you present your knowledge as the ultimate truth in the whole school system . That's where our differences lie. |
The prep-kids are privileged because they can leverage their highly-educated parents on tutoring or paying for academic courses out of school. But these parents are mostly first-generation immigrants who fight their axx off to get a better and stable life than what they had in their mother country when they were a kid. On the other hand, the native speaker's child got family connections which the 1st generation immigrant could barely provide. Isn't that a privilege? So I can totally understand why college give a leg-up for kids from poor families. Those are the ones are truly privilege at all so they get a privilege for college admission. |
You must be the most impossible person at work because you don't make a lot of sense. How would that person know how the magnet tour groups for admitted students were set up? We also noticed it seemed to be done by school. You seem to think your perspective is the only valid one. There's actual MCPS data that shows the percentages of different races at the magnet. It was less than 60% in the years they reported in the past so IMO it stands to reason it's now lower given they changed the criteria to make them more diverse. I've never asked my kid what the racial breakdown seems to be. What kind of loon actually counts people like that anyway and insists her count is 80% over and over again? Total loon. |
This post is all kinds of messed up. You say this is your first post but then you refer to another post you posted before? You say more people chose RMIB over Blair but it's 3 out of 5 which is mathematically more than half but why would that be surprising giving Wooton's proximity to RM. Then you jump to bigotry? What? Before you post can you please actually write something that makes sense and has a point. |
Your kid counted the number of Asian kids in his classes? Why would someone do that? |
You don’t need to count when there is 80 percent of one group. |
PP here. I don't know about that. I think all the kids in the magnet are really bright and bring acumen and talent to the table, and I honestly think there should just be more seats. But, I also think these programs might be more important to those of us who haven't invested heavily in STEM enrichment. I'm in arts and can't really afford cty etc, so having the magnet instruction has been really wonderful. But, I also have a grad degree and have helped my kids in other ways. There are other kids/families who benefit more than us. All this to say, let's not make this a pissing match. Also, all the other responses on this line of the thread were not me! It's a little nutty, all the claim staking and grand standing. |
Parents. Get a grip on yourself. |
Blair isn't even ranked as a top STEM school by US News anymore, so I don't know what the fuss is all about. |
Blair has 3300 kids. The magnet is just 400. US News ranks the entire school not the magnet and then compares it to schools that are entirely STEM programs. |