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Sad . Mangy animals and they rip the feed buckets out of your kids grasp
Hopefully she will sleep with him soon. Would hate to see her go into marriage without knowing if they are compatible
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP again: I got a message from the husband of a woman telling me my DH was having an affair and that my DH is a liar and a cheat.....but my DH told me the man was just psycho/making it up and that he hadn't had contact with the man's wife.........
Um....... This sounds legit. Did you ask for proof/details?
By reconciling with him, she has let him off the hook for cheating (he would owe her more in a VA divorce bc of cheating) . She should have seen a lawyer along with the therapist
Get tested for std
His gf broke up with him
Anonymous wrote:DiverDown wrote:Anonymous wrote:DiverDown wrote:You sound like you are willing to go without a physical relationship . Not everyone can endure that
I did it for years in my marriage. A few more years won't kill me.
I feel the opposite. Wasted years with no good sex in my marriage. I won't waste any more time now that I am divorced
The problem is I just don't know who to trust. Dating is so different than 20 years ago.
Online chats can help build trust. Then you can see if it is a good match.
Trust in a FWB relationship is defined by honesty. Don't deny your current needs in fear of what might or might not happen.
Anonymous wrote:DiverDown wrote:You sound like you are willing to go without a physical relationship . Not everyone can endure that
I did it for years in my marriage. A few more years won't kill me.
I feel the opposite. Wasted years with no good sex in my marriage. I won't waste any more time now that I am divorced
Care what other people think about my personal life
You sound like you are willing to go without a physical relationship . Not everyone can endure that
Anonymous wrote:Please recommend that best wineries in Charlottesville area?
Pippin Hill . No question.
Best wine is at Barboursville.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would date a 35 yr old divorced mother of 2 if -- she was emotionally stable, she had built healthy boundaries with her X, she had a BMI <25, she didn't make me treat her like a helpless princess, she was open minded about my politics & life choices, and she still knew how to enjoy life! Don't give up!
I make $175K, own the house, can run the household, have very clear boundaries with the ex, and I'm willing to discuss politics. I have no idea what you mean by life choices. My BMI is under 25 but I don't want to date someone that cares about something like that.
You just need to date for fun when you don't have custody. Have fun and don't take it too seriously. In a year you will know whether you want to pursue a long term relationship . If your time is limited then a FWB might work for awhile.