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Anonymous wrote:I need to see progress quickly to stay motivated. Help!
Unfortunately, its a bit more than just 1 trick or a quick progress scheme to stay motivated. What works for others will not work for some.
You need to list what you eat and drink for every meal. You also need to list what you do for exercise. This will give us a better idea of how to address it. Also, its a matter of assessing progress. Some techniques may not work which means you will have to adjust other areas.
Anonymous wrote:I'm a girl, and a lesbian to boot, but when I thought I was straight and dated guys, and not with women. If by the 4th date the other person, regardless of sex, doesn't do some initiating...they just aren't that interested.
Most people like to be pursued, but if they don't pursue back a bit, then they are just enjoying being pursued. So they stick around to have their ego stroked. It should be a two way street by now.
Nice to hear from someone that ran on both sides. Quality post right there!
Its understood that the men should pursue and yada yada blah blah. But we are all human and the sense of need and each should give and take a bit as you said.