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I have a job interview and wondering how much to negotiate for. Salary has already come up in a pre-screen...

The job is a Grant Writer at a nonprofit, raising about $6M of private and government grants at a 150 person organization. Reporting directly to the CDO. I've got 5 yrs exp. Salary.com says $61-67. $70K would be preferable. what do you think?
i'm black, never been called a nigger before... which I'm incredibly grateful for. if it did happen, I'd like to think at first I'd be confused and at the most bemused by it. then laugh it off and pity the person who said it.

i think the historical use of nigger makes it far sharper and hurtful than cracker. however, how about we all just agree that racism is bad, and that you shouldn't be a racist.
Did you tell him how you feel about the outfit? Maybe try talking to him about it. Not to be Captain Obvious here...

I think what you said about the all male, sexist environment is telling. If that's truly it, it's not that he's embarrassed of you, he's actually protecting you! He doesn't want you to become the object of sexual ridicule, nor does he want those guys talking about you behind his back, or worse, while he's standing right there.

if he still wants you to wear it after talking to him, wear something sexy underneath it. You and your DH might enjoy that thought... frumpy on the outside, sexy underneath
Anonymous wrote:Has anybody noticed that this geek guy is constantly trolling for women on here? In the explicit thread he happily throws out how big he wishes his paternity wand is only to mess up the length vs. width ratio proving he's a liar. somebody get this creep a hooker!


who's trolling for women?? i haven't propositioned a single person... jeez get a life. nice job taking the time out of your busy schedule to track my posts.... loser.
Anonymous wrote:My husband loves the "mature" ladies and he has always shared that with me and I have always found it weird. He says he can't wait until I'm 40. :-/


Interesting... 40 is an ideal age... actually 42 for some odd reason to me, lol. The sex drive tends to go out of control which always makes things.... interesting.
I'm 31 and am strongly attracted to women in the 40-50 age range. It's not a fetish or odd "mom" or cougar thing (otherwise i'd post in the explicit forum!), just a strong preference.

Just curious if other men feel the same way?
Where do Russians in hang out in DC? I like Russians alot and don't know where to find some to chat/hang with for happy hour or other social events.
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