Bad Form?
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Steve2020
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Recently divorced, tailgating, meet two woman… one recognizes me from school, nice, May have interest in me, DK. Friend from another school, flirty.. definitely did… and sensed a naughty vibe. Wanted to get number, they were together, awkward, thought I’d get after game. Mistake, didn’t see her again, I’m out of practice certainly… worse can’t remember name, but do friends name.
Bad form to FB friend, and scroll through her friends to see if I can figure it out? Thanks. |
Anonymous
| You unfortunately lost your chance to get her contact info. I wouldn't track her down over a "vibe". Too many fish in the sea - keep swimming. |
Anonymous
| She’s sober now. |
Anonymous
Ha! She wasn’t that far along… |
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Why not? Worst that could happen is she doesn’t even remember you or turns you down, but such is life. Make the connect, but be prepared for rejection and be graceful if that happens.
It was a long time ago, but I met my now DH in similar way. We met at a function but didn’t exchange info. He started calling people who might have my number and eventually found it (no FB back then). He called me “cold” and I was thrilled. We are about to celebrate 20 years in December…. |
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I’d be very creeped out if I were her, especially since you don’t even remember her name. It would feel very predatory to me.
I think best you can do is add the woman you do know on FB, and see if she invites you to any events or if she mentions friend is interested. But if you push it or look like you’re obviously using her to get to friend, you’ll blow your chances and look like a d bag. |
Anonymous
| Snooze you loose… |