So my DH is a good cop on a shift full of good cops. They have tons of life-saving awards between them and no internal affairs investigations. They support each other and hold each other accountable. In short, they are exactly what you want police to be. So here’s the question: they receive the same anti-police hostility as every other police officer. What else can they possibly do to please the anti-police crowd? PP says they “earned” this problem. What more can they do to earn your respect? Sincerely... I would like to know. It pains ME to see how beat up he feels, and yet he walks out the door to do more good work in spite of the hate he receives. |
No one thinks all police are "bad". The GOP is pushing that and it's not true. What we do know is DT defunded the police all over the county. PERIOD> FACT. He owes those departments millions of dollars what do Trump supporters think the police should do with those short falls? |
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Crime is skyrocketing in all major jurisdictions (R and D run). Studies suggest it happens when people face uncertain economic futures. No one bought into defunding police except republicans who love to use it as a talking point. Given how much cities pay out in police brutality cases, retraining is necessary. No one is going to risk their lives for $36K a year. Would you? You can make more doing much less dangerous work. Many of the officers who retired needed to. It's was for the best. |
He can make it clear publicly that black lives matter to him, that he is committed to fair and just policing, that he agrees Derek Chauvin (as one example) was wrong to kneel on George Floyd's neck for 9 minutes, etc. Don's assume people just know you are one of the good guys. Say it. Show it. Condemn unwarranted police violence when it happens. Awards awarded by policing institutions might carry less weight than making it clear that you condemn the treatment of Sandra Bland, or Philando Castile, etc. etc. The short hand to show that you agree with that is "Black Lives Matter". |
Not PP, but Donald Trump held rallies all over the country and his campaign hasn’t paid the cities and towns for the extra police services those rallies required. Going on five years now in some cases. https://thehill.com/homenews/campaign/448323-10-cities-say-trump-owes-them-money-from-rally-security |
So, you are saying all cops are bad? |
DP. Wow. So we see here that you clearly don’t give a $hit about violence in black communities. Obviously, not *all* black lives matter. Thanks for being honest about that. |
You missed the point (and the sarcasm) by a mile. DP |
DP. WTF?? 1). There most certainly are people who hate all police. Ever heard of ACAB? Educate yourself. 2). Please provide links to back up your BS claim that Trump defunded police. We’ll wait. |
It is true there are a lot of negative perceptions of LE due to cherry picked videos going around on social media and fake cable news. But your husband also has a warped perception of reality that is impacting how he feels. The anti-police crowd are actually a very small group of people. I'm sure your husband and his coworkers are watching Fox news and taking the "defund the police" bait. If he gets out of the trenches, he will be a better man. |
| The best way to solve bad cops is to have them hold malpractice insurance like doctors and get rid of their immunity. Bad cops won’t be around for long! |
My husband doesn’t watch Fox News. Ever. I can’t imagine many of his coworkers do, either. As for the anti-police crowd, it may be small but it is loud. It comes for him while he’s at work, where he is regularly scorned by local politicians. He is already a better person than I can ever be, so I’m not sure what more can be asked of him. |
This is a terrible idea. Cops will become the get rich quick scheme. |
| Nobody is risking their life for 36k a year. You can more than that doing hustling Instacart and Uber. |