Intimacy with an ex-spouse - is it weird?

[Anonymous]

OP you know thats sloppy business
Elevate girl.

[Anonymous]

I can't imagine doing sex with my ex. Sex got bad with her during the last leg of our relationship and she wasn't very good in a lot of things. Gaining weight and poor attitude are a few of the other reasons I can't see myself hooking up with her.

[Anonymous]

My MIL does this with her ex, or, I assume she does, because she still occasionally has sleepovers with him. In the same vein, I don’t know how she can willingly and enjoyably hang out with him after being divorced for nearly a decade, but couldn’t future out how to make their marriage work.

Explain it to us, OP!

[Anonymous]

You are divorced for a reason. Sleeping with your ex is weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My MIL does this with her ex, or, I assume she does, because she still occasionally has sleepovers with him. In the same vein, I don’t know how she can willingly and enjoyably hang out with him after being divorced for nearly a decade, but couldn’t future out how to make their marriage work.

Explain it to us, OP!

A lot of women find it easy and effortless. Also, sleeping with an ex doesn't add to the total or count as a rando.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My MIL does this with her ex, or, I assume she does, because she still occasionally has sleepovers with him. In the same vein, I don’t know how she can willingly and enjoyably hang out with him after being divorced for nearly a decade, but couldn’t future out how to make their marriage work.

Explain it to us, OP!

A lot of women find it easy and effortless. Also, sleeping with an ex doesn't add to the total or count as a rando.

I’m a grown woman. I couldn’t care less what my “body count” is or whether I enjoy random sex. That doesn’t answer the question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My MIL does this with her ex, or, I assume she does, because she still occasionally has sleepovers with him. In the same vein, I don’t know how she can willingly and enjoyably hang out with him after being divorced for nearly a decade, but couldn’t future out how to make their marriage work.

Explain it to us, OP!

Not op but maybe the sex is really good with the ex, and good can mean a number of things depending on what you want. A lot of couples have sexual chemistry but can’t work as a couple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who’s been sleeping with her ex for about a year…..but they split up 3 or 4 years ago AND he’s remarried, so it could be worse!

Sounds like a Jerry Springer Show episode.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How often and are you both in relationships?

Maybe twice a month or once every two months, it depends. We are both dating, but not in super serious relationships.

So basically, every couple of weeks? Yeah that's a lot. I thought you were gonna say like, 4 times over the 7 years.

[Anonymous]

It’s not weird at all. That’s the husband you vowed your life to and the father of your children. Go back home and make it work!

[Anonymous]

Its common.

OW don’t want to know how common.

It’s like “here you go good luck I’ll just take the fun part enjoy his dirty dishes”.

Yes he had to come in the house for drop off and pick up. 😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How often and are you both in relationships?

Maybe twice a month or once every two months, it depends. We are both dating, but not in super serious relationships.

So basically, every couple of weeks? Yeah that's a lot. I thought you were gonna say like, 4 times over the 7 years.

Yeah she has more casual occasional sex with her ex than some of us have with our current spouse..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How often and are you both in relationships?

Maybe twice a month or once every two months, it depends. We are both dating, but not in super serious relationships.

So basically, every couple of weeks? Yeah that's a lot. I thought you were gonna say like, 4 times over the 7 years.

Yeah she has more casual occasional sex with her ex than some of us have with our current spouse..

Try not living with him, of cleaning up after him, or doing his grocery shopping or cooking for him or everything else..,
voilà… it’s like magic,