We bought a 4 bedroom house 14 years ago for $400k. (Now it's worth more than a million, the neighborhood has changed etc) You have options, you just need to figure out what you can tolerate. |
| We get on the property ladder. Buy a townhouse or a condo. Trade up to a exurb when you have kids and are worried about schools. Until then enjoy city life. |
If you’re only willing to consider a SFH in a handful of very expensive neighborhoods, sure. You’re priced out. There are other places and housing types. You could definitely get a 3 bedroom house for less than $1m 10 years ago if you were willing to compromise just a little on location. |
A lot of expensive neighborhoods have residents in the 45-65 range, we have great income and bought in our early 40s, and we had less than 3 bedrooms before this. My neighbors are all 8-10 years older than me. If PP is barely 27 making less than 6 figures and hypothetically live in great falls, where do they even go for young people fun activities? 😆 the cool bars are 40 min away. |
We're also in a SFH house in West Springfield - people on this board loved to shit on Springfield in the past and would never dream of moving there. It's not our starter house either! It's our home either until we retire and move or until we die. |
You have champagne tastes on a beer budget. |
| We bought a partially updated non Instagramable SFH in one of the less desirable school districts for 400k 10 years ago. And have stayed there. Values are now up to about 650-700k and we could not afford to buy here anymore. |
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I bought my first place a small coop in a foreclosure sale in 1991. Sold it 2000 for a 49k profit. Added 80k in savings during that time and bought my starter home. Paid that off a few years early. Sold that for an 240k profit and added 250k savings and bought my trade up home in 2018.
People today want to jump straight to trade up home. |
Commute, schools, crime, cost. Pick 2. |
fck off, people who were in the market in the 90s |
| We need to accept the fact that most Americans under the age of 30 will never own a home, get married, or have children. We need to reset our cultural/social expectations for adulthood. It is ok to rent an apartment for your entire life and spend your free time pursuing leisure instead of raising a family. |
Some of the best school districts in NOVA have 600k-800k townhomes. Like this one, the HS has IB program. https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/9490-Virginia-Center-Blvd-UNIT-130-Vienna-VA-22181/65729399_zpid/ |
Plenty of DMV homes, even SFH that will fit well within $1M even today. PPs are just spoilt brats. |
| The only reason I have a decent home in a good neighborhood is because I worked overseas for a number of years in a country many people would avoid on a decent expat package which allowed me to save pretty aggressively. That allowed me to put 40% down during the years of low interest rates. Needless to say we are probably never moving. At least not until retirement. |
OP do you have kids? Are you married or single? Also where do you work? Let us know and we will brainstorm with you! It definitely is much harder to buy a home in this area these days. And many people have help from family. We saved aggressively for the 6 years (lived in a cheap neighborhood while all our friends were living in nicer areas) snd had enough to put 10% on an 850k townhome. My parents then gave us the other 10%. If it weren’t for their help we would have probably bought a much smaller townhome or lived farther away. We bought when I was pregnant with my first. Our townhome is now worth $1.2 and there is no way we can afford to sell and buy a SFM in our neighborhood. We would have to move further out which we aren’t willing to do. You need to find the combo that works for you. What are you willing to sacrifice? And what is nonnegotiable? For us it was location and size - we wanted 3 bedrooms and to be walking distance from a metro so that we could easily commute into DC. We gave up on having a SFH, a yard and a second car. |