Convince that there are young men who believe in women’s rights

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:From OP - daughter is not a “shrew” or a “cat lady” - she is scared. I didn’t reference abortion specifically in my post. She is scared that a misogynistic (grab em by the p*ssy) rapist was elected president again and that men (and women) are OK with that. She is scared that respect for women doesn’t matter in society anymore and this is just the beginning of a downward spiral of women’s rights.

Did you ever stop and consider that many/all of the accusations against Trump were likely fabricated for political reasons? And as far as “grab em,” he specifically said “they let you!” Ie it is an issue with slutty behavior by women as much as anything.

No, we didn't, because that is just so completely wrong, demented and asinine.

Exhibit A of why OP's daughter is concerned about views about women in a Trumpy world. Because he makes it seem okay to say out loud what so many sicko men are really thinking. Just like that ahole who posted "your body, my choice". bunch of pigs.

Are all men this way. No. But waaaay too many are.

As a woman who was raped while being restrained in the back of a vehicle at 17 and threatened with being strangled if I resisted, I don’t believe E. Jean Carroll. At all.

There is not enough money in the works to get me to confront my rapist in court decades later.

If she was truly attacked, the trauma would be too great for her to make such a spectacle of herself.

A writer in NY, however, would know very well how to tell a good story and would enjoy the attention.

These women are despicable to me. They disgust me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:From OP - daughter is not a “shrew” or a “cat lady” - she is scared. I didn’t reference abortion specifically in my post. She is scared that a misogynistic (grab em by the p*ssy) rapist was elected president again and that men (and women) are OK with that. She is scared that respect for women doesn’t matter in society anymore and this is just the beginning of a downward spiral of women’s rights.

Did you ever stop and consider that many/all of the accusations against Trump were likely fabricated for political reasons? And as far as “grab em,” he specifically said “they let you!” Ie it is an issue with slutty behavior by women as much as anything.

No, we didn't, because that is just so completely wrong, demented and asinine.

Exhibit A of why OP's daughter is concerned about views about women in a Trumpy world. Because he makes it seem okay to say out loud what so many sicko men are really thinking. Just like that ahole who posted "your body, my choice". bunch of pigs.

Are all men this way. No. But waaaay too many are.

As a woman who was raped while being restrained in the back of a vehicle at 17 and threatened with being strangled if I resisted, I don’t believe E. Jean Carroll. At all.

There is not enough money in the works to get me to confront my rapist in court decades later.

If she was truly attacked, the trauma would be too great for her to make such a spectacle of herself.

A writer in NY, however, would know very well how to tell a good story and would enjoy the attention.

These women are despicable to me. They disgust me.

Suffering a rape and a sexual assault is very traumatic. It's happened to millions of women and they do go on and heal and do amazing things with their lives. Some can handle a prosecution of their attacker and some can't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thinks it’s absurd that abortion is framed as “women’s rights,” as if women are the only ones involved. Babies include males too and every man had a mother and we damned well are entitled to have an opinion on what “women can do with their bodies.”

Her body, not yours

The body inside hers is NOT hers. Sorry. And this is a nation of laws and we can restrict whatever we like subject to limited exceptions not including murder.

Ooh La La who would not want to date you? Can we bring back slavery while we're at it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:From OP - daughter is not a “shrew” or a “cat lady” - she is scared. I didn’t reference abortion specifically in my post. She is scared that a misogynistic (grab em by the p*ssy) rapist was elected president again and that men (and women) are OK with that. She is scared that respect for women doesn’t matter in society anymore and this is just the beginning of a downward spiral of women’s rights.

Did you ever stop and consider that many/all of the accusations against Trump were likely fabricated for political reasons? And as far as “grab em,” he specifically said “they let you!” Ie it is an issue with slutty behavior by women as much as anything.

No, we didn't, because that is just so completely wrong, demented and asinine.

Exhibit A of why OP's daughter is concerned about views about women in a Trumpy world. Because he makes it seem okay to say out loud what so many sicko men are really thinking. Just like that ahole who posted "your body, my choice". bunch of pigs.

Are all men this way. No. But waaaay too many are.

As a woman who was raped while being restrained in the back of a vehicle at 17 and threatened with being strangled if I resisted, I don’t believe E. Jean Carroll. At all.

There is not enough money in the works to get me to confront my rapist in court decades later.

If she was truly attacked, the trauma would be too great for her to make such a spectacle of herself.

A writer in NY, however, would know very well how to tell a good story and would enjoy the attention.

These women are despicable to me. They disgust me.

Thank you for writing that. I am very sorry that happened to you.

E. Jean Carroll talked about rape being a fantasy on Anderson Cooper and laughed about going shopping with the money on another. Nothing about her Law and Order SVU story is credible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thinks it’s absurd that abortion is framed as “women’s rights,” as if women are the only ones involved. Babies include males too and every man had a mother and we damned well are entitled to have an opinion on what “women can do with their bodies.”

Her body, not yours

The body inside hers is NOT hers. Sorry. And this is a nation of laws and we can restrict whatever we like subject to limited exceptions not including murder.

Ooh La La who would not want to date you? Can we bring back slavery while we're at it?

The ladies must be lining up for that one. What a catch!

[Anonymous]

So in all seriousness - OP, your daughter can’t find like minded people to date? Almost half the men under 45 voted for Harris. Is this a serious question?

[Anonymous]

There are a gazillion men that voted for Harris. And for those that didn't, at that age point - 25 and presumably college educated - they are unlikely to be hardcore Trumpers. More likely, is that they are "libertarian" or "pox on both houses" or non-voters entirely. I 100 percent agree to avoid any enthusiastic 25 year old Trump supporters. But among college educated young men, Trump enthusiasm is not typically a thing. But what is real is that there is a majority of young men that do feel disconnected from today's Democratic Party - hispanics, asians, whites, black men, working class, middle class, straight. And it's not at all access to reproductive care for women that's driving it. It's the rest of it. They've been told they are the enemy by progressives their entire lives. So they don't identify with the Democratic Party today.

[Anonymous]

I can help. The problem is that your daughter actually believes all the things that have been spewed out there by politicians in order to get her vote. Fear is a powerful motivator. I assume she voted for Kamala so let’s just listen to Kamala. When asked about calling Biden a racist in the 2019 primary, she dismissed it by saying, “It was a debate.” In other words, you can’t believe things people say when they are just trying to get votes and win. In her concession speech, she told us that everything is going to be ok. She just called Trump Hitler and his supporters facsists to win the election. It’s not true! So, no worries. Everything is going to be ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:From OP - daughter is not a “shrew” or a “cat lady” - she is scared. I didn’t reference abortion specifically in my post. She is scared that a misogynistic (grab em by the p*ssy) rapist was elected president again and that men (and women) are OK with that. She is scared that respect for women doesn’t matter in society anymore and this is just the beginning of a downward spiral of women’s rights.

That was just locker room talk.

Anyways, your daughter should consider Riyadh. Men will treat her like a princess there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can help. The problem is that your daughter actually believes all the things that have been spewed out there by politicians in order to get her vote. Fear is a powerful motivator. I assume she voted for Kamala so let’s just listen to Kamala. When asked about calling Biden a racist in the 2019 primary, she dismissed it by saying, “It was a debate.” In other words, you can’t believe things people say when they are just trying to get votes and win. In her concession speech, she told us that everything is going to be ok. She just called Trump Hitler and his supporters facsists to win the election. It’s not true! So, no worries. Everything is going to be ok.

Ok. Also, it's fine if she doesn't want to date a trump voter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thinks it’s absurd that abortion is framed as “women’s rights,” as if women are the only ones involved. Babies include males too and every man had a mother and we damned well are entitled to have an opinion on what “women can do with their bodies.”

This is creepy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thinks it’s absurd that abortion is framed as “women’s rights,” as if women are the only ones involved. Babies include males too and every man had a mother and we damned well are entitled to have an opinion on what “women can do with their bodies.”

This is creepy.

Yeah. Maybe don't date that guy.

[Anonymous]

I would question if your daughter is ready for a relationship.
If your daughter (or son) cannot:
Have difficult communication and conversations with out defensiveness or judgement
Have respect for another’s feeling needs and boundaries
Be willing to flexibility adjust needs and desires to find a solution that works for both partners
Have mutual respect, and a willingness to give and take, ensuring that neither person feels like they are constantly sacrificing their needs for the other
IE- understand that her/his partner is an entirely separate being and that it is not always one’s own way. Not my way, not my partners way but many times it’s the third way that wins.
There are very few reasons that a couple is so different it will never work. Politics is NOT one of them.
Go read Gottman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would question if your daughter is ready for a relationship.
If your daughter (or son) cannot:
Have difficult communication and conversations with out defensiveness or judgement
Have respect for another’s feeling needs and boundaries
Be willing to flexibility adjust needs and desires to find a solution that works for both partners
Have mutual respect, and a willingness to give and take, ensuring that neither person feels like they are constantly sacrificing their needs for the other
IE- understand that her/his partner is an entirely separate being and that it is not always one’s own way. Not my way, not my partners way but many times it’s the third way that wins.
There are very few reasons that a couple is so different it will never work. Politics is NOT one of them.
Go read Gottman.

I see what you're trying to say but there are some issues where there really is just not much middle ground. I don't really want to date a person that thinks I'm a murderer or that I am fine with murderers. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Dems had four years to render the abortion issue about 85 percent moot. With Trump having stacked scotus, BidenHarris could simply have directed fda to promote miso in its one fda use as a gi bleed with nsaid use given that population can’t get opiates anymore. They didn’t. It wasn’t that important, I guess.