why are short woman blamed for dating tall men ?

[Anonymous]

I am 5'0" and my husband is a foot taller. I didn't chase after taller men specifically. But I was also annoyed when people would push short guys at me just because they're short. I don't need to date a short dude, I can have my choice of anyone!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 5'0" and my husband is a foot taller. I didn't chase after taller men specifically. But I was also annoyed when people would push short guys at me just because they're short. I don't need to date a short dude, I can have my choice of anyone!

Exactly! This notion that short women should just date short guys is so bizarre. I can date whoever I please and so can they.

[Anonymous]

I’m a petite 4’11 and my husband is 6’2. I’ve always dated taller guys because that is who I was always attracted to.

I can’t believe how nasty some of you are on here towards short women. I bet it’s mostly tall hunchback ogre women or ladies who settled for a sub 6’ manlet with small pp.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a petite 4’11 and my husband is 6’2. I’ve always dated taller guys because that is who I was always attracted to.

I can’t believe how nasty some of you are on here towards short women. I bet it’s mostly tall hunchback ogre women or ladies who settled for a sub 6’ manlet with small pp.

Sub 6' manlet? lol
I've always dated shorter guys because that's who I was always attracted to.
Why is it okay for you to have preferences but it's not okay for others?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I really don’t think this is a thing. My husband is a foot taller than me. I think the only person who commented was my grandmother saying all the tall girls would be mad I took him.

It's definitely a thing - I'm 5'2", my husband, at 5'10", is the shortest man I ever dated. Like OP, I always had tall men asking me out, and rarely had short men ask me out. I was never averse to dating a man closer to my height, but they were not into me. I also happen to have a lot of tall female friends, and every single one of them has commented at some point about how the tall guys love me and they wish tall men would be interested in them.

Team Not-a-Thing. I have dated short, average, and tall men. My husband is a foot taller. The only comment I have ever gotten was from my grandmother about how handy it was having a tall person around to put things away in the tall cabinets. As soon as I end this post, I'll forget the whole thing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I really don’t think this is a thing. My husband is a foot taller than me. I think the only person who commented was my grandmother saying all the tall girls would be mad I took him.

It's definitely a thing - I'm 5'2", my husband, at 5'10", is the shortest man I ever dated. Like OP, I always had tall men asking me out, and rarely had short men ask me out. I was never averse to dating a man closer to my height, but they were not into me. I also happen to have a lot of tall female friends, and every single one of them has commented at some point about how the tall guys love me and they wish tall men would be interested in them.

Team Not-a-Thing. I have dated short, average, and tall men. My husband is a foot taller. The only comment I have ever gotten was from my grandmother about how handy it was having a tall person around to put things away in the tall cabinets. As soon as I end this post, I'll forget the whole thing.

Keep telling yourself that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Truly desirable men have their pick and usually like variety when they are sowing their wild oats. They’re not scared of tall or obsessed by short any more than James Bond would be. I blame women who don’t understand the appeal of variety and can’t get excited about guys of different heights.

Why do you keep [wrongly] assuming that we are seeking out tall men? Is that a complex of yours because you are short? I dated and married plenty of short men. I happen to have a tall partner now but it has almost nothing to do with his height. I would love him the same if he was 10 inches shorter. Stop projecting your insecurities onto women and men you know nothing about.

Which is exactly what the short women PPs are doing re: guys who are less than 5'10". Point taken.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a petite 4’11 and my husband is 6’2. I’ve always dated taller guys because that is who I was always attracted to.

I can’t believe how nasty some of you are on here towards short women. I bet it’s mostly tall hunchback ogre women or ladies who settled for a sub 6’ manlet with small pp.

This.

[Anonymous]

I’m 5’ even and 101 lbs and I’m married to someone 5’8”. In my late teens and early 20’s plenty of super tall guys, 6’4+, were attracted to me for what I soon figured out was their fantasizing about what sex would be like with someone so small.

[Anonymous]

I would assume they're a pedophile or have some kind of sick fetish TBH.

[Anonymous]

All these tall men probably have short Ds.

[Anonymous]

Taller women have higher IQs and some men prefer less intimidating women.

[Anonymous]

I always assume a super tall man with a short wife is a pedophile and I, silently, congratulate them on managing it in a socially acceptable way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I always assume a super tall man with a short wife is a pedophile and I, silently, congratulate them on managing it in a socially acceptable way.

No, you don't. No one is that dumb.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Tall gorgeous women are intimidating to men. Petite women are much less intimidating. I definitely agree with the power dynamics comments.

Men may think models are hot, but they don't have the confidence to go for them.

I've never heard anyone "blaming" short women for men's lack of confidence though. I've heard people say the same thing about white women/black men, but I've never heard anyone actually say it IRL.

I don’t find this to be true at all. I’ve dated some beautiful tall women and in no way felt intimidated. I do prefer the short ones like my wife.

Why do you prefer shorter women? Especially if you apparently dated some beautiful tall women?

It would be one thing if you said "oh I've dated tall women and short women, height wasn't a determining factor, it turned out I married a short woman." But you go out of your way to say you prefer short women. Why? Why didn't things work out with any of these gorgeous tall women you dated who didn't intimidate you in the least?

I think you like how being with a shorter woman makes you feel (big). You won't say that out loud, you won't even admit it on an anonymous website, but it just does not make sense to specifically *prefer* shorter woman as a taller man unless there is something about their shortness that appeals to you.

+1
Something about tiny hands or what?

Well, yes.

There is that factor too.

Children have small hands too you f***ing creep