DP. What on earth does "flagship" have to do with anything? Are you the same triggered poster who's been spamming this thread recently? |
DP. Your reaction to the PP seems triggered, tbh. |
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Haven't read through the thread but UMass has some great psych professors. |
UMass would be a (mentally) healthier psychology environment than Virginia Tech. |
How about comparing biology/premed major in these two schools? I am not the OP, but my kid also have these good options. |
Why do you say that? VT students are known to be happy! |
+1 The PP is obviously trolling. I’ve never met any alumni or current VT students who didn’t love the school. |
OP here. Back after Hokie Focus this weekend. I think it opened her eyes to the possibility of VT. I was very impressed by the school and the honors college.
She says VT feels like the safe choice, but UMass is the one she wants. With a roughly $40K difference in total price tag, while we have the money to cover it, I have a hard time stomaching that much more when from my perspective, VT is offering a better experience. The cost differential basically means she either drains her 529 completely (UMass) or has $40K left over for grad school/retirement (VT). I'm trying to come to terms with this ending with UMass. I know it would be a great fit for her in so many ways. I just choke at spending that kind of cash unnecessarily (probably a result of my upbringing where I couldn't even go away to college for the first two years bc we couldn't afford it, and paid for most of my school with loans). I'd love any perspective on this anyone can share. |
My kid also has this two options (among others), and we toured both campuses. She liked both campuses and food in UMass is indeed better!! She spent the night with VT ROTC cadets and really liked it and thought she fits in very happily in UMass too. So, OP, I understand your struggle. One thing that differentiate the two is that for UMass she will be the few NOVA OOS kids while for VT, she will be among the tons of NOVA kids. Does your kid like to be the special OOS kid or the in-state kid? For my kid, among her other options, she has UIUC and Pitt. Right now she is inclining to pick UIUC because of ranking even though she does not like the campus. She may change her mind ... |
I am from Massachusetts and I love UMass, and I will defend it against snobbish elitists who don’t see the value of state schools. However, I don’t see the sense of traveling hundreds of miles, which is an expense itself, and paying 40k more for similar education, prestige and experience. I’d try to explain that they would be depleting a fund that could be used later for their own benefit. They might be looking at a smaller allowance while in school, and cheaper Christmas gifts family vacations. . If, knowing this, your kid insists, I’d just try to accept it in a loving way. I think I would follow through on money-saving strategies to preserve capital for eduction in the future. At that point, it’s their choice. |
My feeling is if you have the money and she clearly feels a stronger fit at UMass I'd let her go with her gut.
Definitely should consider the value of the $40k for after college and also her post-college aspirations. Does she ultimately want to live in New England? UMass will likely have recruiting more focused there. VT recruiting tends to be more DC-focused. Of course you have the potential to go anywhere from either school. I can understand the wanting to get out of VA. One of my kids is very happy at VT but the other wanted to go someplace nobody else from her HS was going to. She's overall happy there but did comment on how many students are from the state she's now in. Um, yeah, you knew the stats going in that 2/3 were from that state. Knowing that fact vs. living the reality surprised her. Also, in looking for summer jobs she found the career center was very focused on opportunities in-state. They were helpful with resumes and coaching on job search but ultimately she found summer jobs on her own (although that was the same with my VT kid!). |
My DC wants to work on NYC after graduation. Business major. Which school would be the best feed to NYC? |
Personally, I think it is important for kids to spend some time farther away from home than in state. Even though our area has people from everywhere, it isn't the same as living somewhere else for while. Each region really does have its own lifestyle and vibe, and that helps a person grow. Add a semester abroad to that and you've got the start of some life experience. |
"anywhere else" being Harvard, MIT, and the other highly ranked institutions of higher ed in Massachusetts. |