This aligns with what a couple other parents have told me about their experience with kids that need a lot of services, and at least one who then sent kid to a private school. And I do think in general sometimes kids get punished inappropriately -- either too much or hardly at all. However, I will say that in my experience I'm happy with the related services and accommodations my kid receives, admittedly for pretty minimal needs comparatively, and I like and trust the professionals involved. |
Yes-- it's a weird combination of leniency for sometimes really egregious behaviors, and other times having very little tolerance for documented special needs. I can't quite figure it out. |
14:33 and the 'want to leave' poster -- did you pull an ADD kid out, and if so, was the next place better? |
Our IB was better—more equipped to handle different learning styles, more loving environment. Not perfect by any means, but an improvement. |
What happened in the Middle School yesterday that required teacher intervention? |
I believe some sort of interpersonal scuffle in a stairwell. There was also some saying of bad words. My kid is too young to know much, but that's what was reported to me anyway. |
lol, like a fight? |
I guess. But my kid is too little to be reliable and didn't actually see it, so I don't know much. |
As a kid with fully diagnosed and properly medicated ADHD at ITDS for many years, our kid has been fine. Several other kids in the class have done well and also had ADHD. The only kids I've seen forced out have been the bullies and that was clearly more related to anti-social behavior than any diagnoses. Two bullies left the school, and given that both of them gave my kid a hard time, I was glad to see them go. |
I think a minor fight. Not a major fight. And not one that lasted very long. My kid's takeaway from the community meeting was that intentionally spreading gossip to rile kids up who go on to fight will be punished as seriously as the fight itself. So take from that what you will. |
Sigh. It just sucks to be a MSer. The only thing harder is parenting one. |
8th grader from earlier here. I AM A REAL 8th GRADER!!!!! So, first of all, I am autistic and have ADHD, and the school treats me very well and helps me out a lot. Now I do get made fun of in a friendly way for my autism, but that is beside the point. There are a lot of kids in my grade who are on the spectrum or have ADHD and they have been here since pk-3. I don't think the school tries to remove people from the school. I think it is more of the fact that different kids fit at different places and some kids might not fit at ITDS. That is perfectly fine and true for all schools, I wouldn't fit at a boarding school because I would become a HOMESICK CRYBABY!! By the way, I kind of have an addiction to Dc Urban Mom now... -8th grader that is REAL |
I would rate it a solid 9/10. We get to do very fun writing projects, for example we sometimes write fanfiction (what happens after) when we just finished a whole class book. Last year we would have 15-minute grammar lessons twice a week. This year sometimes for homework our teacher writes sentences that are intentionally flawed grammar wise, and we have to figure out what is wrong. We read a lot of whole class books, for example we are reading The War Outside right now (I just finished, it had a great ending) We have to take notes on the book and do a ton of analyzation. Hope this helped |
If you keep posting here, someone is going to tell your mom. |
Six years ago my DD went there for Grade 1 and it was a disaster. Teacher could have cared less, the administrators were out to lunch. That was 6 years ago so it may be totally different now, but that was my experience and we regret putting her there. We pulled her out at the end of the year. |