
yes all women only want money. Hope you are happy staying single forever. Women are definitely better without you. |
glad to see that even a man can take advantage of his looks and not his brains to make it. |
I can read just fine. That said. I only read through the first 3 pages and the majority of women posting confirm, it's about the money. |
😂 So “6 pages of RESOUNDING YES” has flaccidly diminished to “most of the responses on the few pages I bothered to read.” Appropriate. |
It's about a grown man barely being able to support himself. And what that says about the grown man. I'm sure if you compared a hot nice personality man making $100K versus an ugly jerk making $500K there would be very mixed answers that would likely favor the hot nice guy. So it's not only about the money, but if you can barely support yourself and not doing anything with your life besides whining about how you can't get a date, that will likely be a deal breaker for most. |
At 50k, it's definitely about the money. At 100k and above, we start looking for other qualities.
At 50k, you cannot provide for yourself. I am not providing for you, not to mention providing for the kids by myself. Nope. Nope. Nope. If it makes you feel better, in my family, 50K for a woman will not cut it either unless it's entry level with room for growth. |
yes it's about the money. Hope you're happy being single all your life. Where does OP think he will take his date to dinner? And how often? What is OP's idea of a great first, second, third... twentieth date? Dating takes money. He can barely take care of himself. How is he going to pay for a date? I think it's fine and expected that women should sometimes pay for dinner. I did that with DH. But, if he only took me to cheap places when he was paying, I'd start to get annoyed. I never cared about the places DH took me to. It wasn't about how much money he spent on me. But, I definitely found the fact that DH had a good paying job with a good future as attractive. We made about the same at the time. OP thinks that a woman should be happy to just be with him even at McDs, and not mind that he can only take her to cheap places, but that's idealistic and an immature way of looking at dating at his age. I can see OP and women in their late teens, early 20s thinking this way, but not at 30+. That just tells me you don't know how to plan for your future, which is again, associated with immaturity. |
There’s a difference between “only wanting money as a first priority” and “wanting a partner who makes enough they can pull their weight so I don’t go broke financially supporting this guy”. Most women at some point have dated men who could not financially pull their weight. I had a boyfriend who relied on me and his mom to pay his rent, food, and bills. After they go through that, most women vow to never again date a man who needs financial support because it financially ruins you. If money were my first priority, I would have married once of the millionaires who pursued me. But I didn’t. I found someone who makes a reasonable salary, along with other qualities like being reasonably attractive, being kind and compassionate, and having hobbies in common with me. You really need to get off the red pill stuff because it simply isn’t true. Yes, some women only care about money. The vast majority just want a man who can support himself and won’t cause them to go broke. |
The answer here is simple. OP needs to date women but don't tell them how much is salary is. Simple.
Second, 1) Try to date women with similar salary. 2) Lease an expensive car. Tesla Model 3 is reasonable and not too flashy. Drive the women in the car. Don't say it is a lease. Say you own it outright. 3) Drive uber or similar part time job in your spare time. Or start a Youtube channel called How to date women when you only make 50K. |
You need to screen hard or you will be wasting your time. The type of woman on this thread is the exact type that you need to avoid. They are not high earners, which is why they are only seeking men that can bring home the bacon. They are living a lifestyle they can't afford. You need to find someone who isn't obsessed with living in Bethesda or sending kids to privates. Maybe a hippy type or foreign national would be a better fit. |
Tons of way to save $$ for dating, but it will out come out in the wash eventually. |
I’m still really curious what OP does and for which organization. I represent a lot of non profits and 50K is really low for someone with a degree and 12 years experience. It makes me wonder whether he did something else for all his 20s that was not paying bills and only started at this non profit fairlt recently.
I just did an idealist search and the first non managerial job for DC (an organizer position) is listed at 61k to 88k depending on experience. There are over a thousand open jobs on idealist in DC. |
Sure there’s hope! Find someone who earns $30k and she will be thrilled, and if she isn’t, she is being unrealistic and you don’t want her anyway
Then also if she doesn’t have legal status - she will love you very very much… at least for a year or three |
Screen the foreign nationals. Most of them come from upper middle class families. 50k will not cut it once they are settled in with you. They'll dump you. I have seen this happen a few times. Even some of the mail order brides are from middle class families. Once their eyes are wide open here, they'll leave you. Generally, it takes an especially financially/ career ambitious person to move here.You are not that, and the personality difference will shine through soon enough. Go for a 30 something year old who makes 50k and works for a nonprofit. They are out there. You both can buy a condo or small townhouse, have one child and live happily. |
Sure seems like a troll. No follow up at all. |