Are you friends with your ex-spouse?

[Anonymous]

I've heard of people becoming besties with their ex-spouse, but it's odd to me. My guess is that it was mutual and there was no hurt involved. Are you "friends" with your ex-spouse? And what does that even look like???

[Anonymous]

I try to be friendly with my ex wife but then she eventuall reveals her true self. She’s such a loser.

[Anonymous]

No. We are courteous to each other and we can occasionally laugh together about something kid related but I think he’s a terrible person and the more distance I have the more I see how terrible he is and how cruel he is to people.

[Anonymous]

Hell no. I’m civil bc of the kids but honestly I was young and dumb when I met him and he’s nothing that I’d want in a friend or fit my friend circle at all. And he’s a liar. (Hindsight is 20/20).

[Anonymous]

Cooperative coparents so far, that's it.

If we wanted to be around each other, we'd still be married.

[Anonymous]

No. We were friendly and then he remarried. His wife was uncomfortable with it and it wasn't that important to me (or him either, I guess) so we just went on about our business.

[Anonymous]

We're sort of friends. We have my ex come to dinner with us many times. He stayed here when he was recovering from surgery.

When he drops the kids off he often stays for a half hour or so.

We're maybe a bit more than friendly? I don't think we'd vacation together.

[Anonymous]

No. He reached out to me 8 yrs after our divorce. We were friendly and then he showed his ass. He messages me every few weeks I don't respond.

[Anonymous]

We’re friendly and share the kids milestones together.

[Anonymous]

I can’t stand his sneaky ass.

[Anonymous]

We are friendly. He was one of my best friends before we (mistakenly) got together. I didn’t feel truly romantic about him but kept our relationship since we worked together so well in life. When we finally divorced, it took a year or so of distance (beyond child things) to settle down. We’re friendly but it’s not what it was, but we can travel together and spend time together without fighting or weirdness

[Anonymous]

We do our best to cooperate and be friendly in front of our children but we are not friends. It works very well for both of us.

[Anonymous]

I’m friends with my ex. We are not beasties and we see less of each other if he is dating somebody who gets jealous.

My sons school is 8 hrs away and we drive together, we stay in the same hotel room, we meet for lunch/hh/dinner, I watch his dog when needed.

My close friend is very close with her H’s ex wife. They do holidays together, go shopping, run marathons, etc

[Anonymous]

No. We share of 17-year-old son, but my ex-husband is a bitch. I can’t stand him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m friends with my ex. We are not beasties and we see less of each other if he is dating somebody who gets jealous.

My sons school is 8 hrs away and we drive together, we stay in the same hotel room, we meet for lunch/hh/dinner, I watch his dog when needed.

My close friend is very close with her H’s ex wife. They do holidays together, go shopping, run marathons, etc

Will you provide each other full release?