Start of something dangerous?
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Anonymous
| Woman from college with whom we shared a mutual attraction but never truly acted on due to naiveté has requested to follow my instagram. We are both married with kids. Bad idea to accept? |
Anonymous
| How old are you? |
Anonymous
| The fact that you are even asking the question should tell you everything you need to know. |
Anonymous
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How's your marriage OP? Sound like you need a refresher on that. If your marriage is solid, I'd say go ahead. If you are unsettled or unhappy, then give her a pass.
In the meantime, try to do something nice for your spouse today. |
Anonymous
| If it were harmless, you wouldn't bother asking you'd just accept her. |
Anonymous
| I guess it matters how you use Instagram. I think I've messaged someone on there once? I'm friend with my college ex-boyfriends, as well as the one with whom I shared a mutual attraction but never acted on it on Instagram and it's never crossed my mind that it would be an issue. Now, if he called to say he was coming into town for work and did I want to meet him for room service at his hotel, that would be something different. But to me Instagram means nothing. You may feel differently. |
Anonymous
| Yep. You’re asking and that tells you about your frame of mind. Do t accept. |
Anonymous
| She's just looking for free attention from you. Don't waste your time. Why are you on Instagram, anyway? You're a grown man FFS. |
Anonymous
Why do assume OP is a man? "Mutual attraction" could suggest being bi-curious. |
Anonymous
| Why not? Could be your soulmate. |
Anonymous
| Go for it |
Anonymous
| How many years since college? How many years since you saw her last? |
Anonymous
| Obviously. |
Anonymous
NP. Doesn't matter. OP is in a committed relationship, period. The fact OP is even asking the question means OP already knows there's a red flag here. OP, if you were hoping to hear, "Go for it! It's perfectly harmless!" here...nah. |
Anonymous
Hope you get cheated on, PP! Then you'll be free to find YOUR soulmate! |