You'll always be afraid if you work for someone else. Start a side business (a "hustle" as it's called today). Take control of your own destiny and career. Go after opportunities - don't wait for someone to give them to you. If you're a star trek fan, watch this clip (don't "play it safe"): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGvUDvZ7KyU |
Well I have a noncompete so I have to build a separate unique career that doesn’t overlap. That makes real money, as well as work full time and parent. I honestly want to do it, but I’m honestly baffled by logistics? Ritalin? And I have to build the business outside normal business hours b/c I’m working. How do you court customers on the weekend? |
How do you prove adding value if you are in accounting, HR, or possibly legal? To some degree you're doing compliance. Ok, I reduced the monthly close process, but try quantifying what they saved. Everybody just worked less hours. |
We're slightly older, but had to move to DC to find jobs in our 40s and adjust to the higher prices; neither of us have never made more than 100k each, even in the DC metro. Concerned, because we pretty much have to work until we are 69 / 70. |
Didn't do this but feel we're in a similar boat. DH is 8 years older than me. We plan to live overseas as soon as our kids finish college. Know this isn't for everyone but you can live quite well on much less elsewhere. |
Except by time kids graduate college, they move back home for a bit before save up enough to move out the younger is almost 25. By time who can pack up and leave, need access to good health care and SS and Medicare kick in plus RMD 401k. It is damn 55-65 that is killer |
this is true. Too old in the workplace, too young for medicare to kick in. If it wasn't for the crazy health care costs in this country, we could easily retire soon, in our 50s. |
I agree - DH is 63 and I'm 55. We plan to go to a country with good, inexpensive healthcare. We speak Spanish so have lots to choose from. Also Portugal (I speak some Portuguese as well) has excellent, inexpensive care. We are looking into getting citizenship elsewhere too but that can be expensive (Spain, Portugal, Malta, Ecuador, Panama, etc. We've told our kids about our plan their entire lives, traveled with them overseas, and they will either find their way after age 26 here in US (when we stop paying for their healthcare) or follow us or work to get a job overseas if they don't want to go the govt/teaching/corporate/military route which are the only ways to access healthcare consistently anymore in the US. Healthcare will break this country if coronavirus or some other pandemic/radical climate issue doesn't. Time to move on... |
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This is how it happens:
NEW YORK: Weber Shandwick has let five senior executives go in what the agency is describing as "a small staff reduction." https://www.prweek.com/article/1673307/weber-shandwick-ousts-five-senior-leaders |
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Look up your company here. It is where they post lay-off info by company
https://www.thelayoff.com/freddie-mac |
That’s not reality true. One of my friends is doing that and he has to retake all his gen ed courses as the ones he took for his bachelor degree is more than 10 years old. Then he also need to take nursing courses. It’s definitely not as seamless as you made it sound. |
Except the "trades" have same issue. Unless you own a Plumbing or Electrician business etc., you get too old that type of work. I am 58 and newly laid off from a white collar job, I can do work around the house home repairs, but to be honest I am pooped after 2-3 hours. I cant work 8 hours a day of manual labor for long. Plus I need benefits. I have a whole family on plan. And nursing the pay is way too low. I honestly could do bagging groceries 20 hours a week to get benefits and then manage investments, etc and make more money. Plus I bleed out at below 100K. so Under 100K is almost same as zero. My monthly bills run $10,000 a month. |
+1. Trades is only a wise option if you switch pre age 40. Trades work is also not easy....those of you 50+ who have had to bend under the kitchen sink to install a faucet know what I'm talking about. Same with an HVAC tech having to go into an attic on a 90 deg plus day. Do you think a 50+ YO could survive the 150 deg temps for too long? Trades work requires skill, physical stamina, and knowing trick of the trade which oftentimes takes a lifetime to learn and master. |
| Also trades are in demand b/c housing and RE is hot. It’s very cyclical. |