They can charge a minor as an adult for a felony. It’s important to know how she’s being charged. |
| ^^^ Now isn't really the time to get judgmental. |
Thanks for your support. She was visiting family friends. |
Why are you on here casting your judgmental opinion on OP? Things happen and there but for the grace of God go we all. It could happen to any of our children. We can't guarantee they will exercise good judgment 100% of the time. I know I did some dumb shit when I was a teen, although I never committed theft. But, if I had been with some friends in a department store and they stole something and encouraged or dared me to do it, I don't know if I would have walked away from the peer pressure. I am not saying this was the situation with OPs daughter but the point is we don't always know how our kids will behave when out of our presence. So, I would not dare judge another parent. PP, you are a sanctimonious asshat. |
| Charged as a juvenile, if her record is sealed, it is almost impossible to get unsealed in the future. My husband is a recently retired law enforcement officer in VA. He said try to plea bargain down to a misdemeanor, offer reimbursement, and ask for community service. |
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I am a lawyer, but do Administrative Law. So definitely not legal advice. And my area of expertise. But...
If you have a good kid, involved in the school, headed to college, first mistake, etc., maybe you could get a deferred prosecution? They continue the case for a year. If your kid does community service and stays out of trouble, after a year the charges are dismissed? That way there is no record? Someone who knows more about criminal law in VA might be able to say if that is possible. |
Yeah, you do not want to get a judge who wants to make an example, or this stuff being on her record with every college and job application. I had a co-worker who was in federal court for shoplifting at a military base. Once prosecution dug in her record of a prior arrest "bad act" this elaborate plan of bringing character witnesses did not work since then that would allow the prosecution to bring up the past shoplifting incident. It's not the worst thing in the world, but it is not the best. In my youth, I only got caught once when I was 12 (a personal bottle of juice because someone dared me). I balled my eyes out and the manager let me go on a warning. Scared straight. |
It still goes by income. If you can afford an attorney you don't get one. |
| You can bet your life that this is not her first time shop lifting. I |
There can often be different rules for minors. |
I was thinking the same thing. It takes legit balls to take off with jewelry from a jewelry store. They tend to have pretty good theft detection there, and let's face it, it's definitely got more of a "this is a real crime" vibe to it versus stealing a lipstick from a pharmacy. (Said by someone who's never stolen anything, but I know which of those I'd choose if I had to do one of them!) |
You are correct. But grand larceny can be very straight forward case that does not require a lot of time or resources. Believe me, a private attorney will spend as much time on it if it is very straightforward case, but will take more money from parent, and sometimes get worth result. |