What carrers do you recommond for a 30 year old woman to have a upper class lifestyle

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Anonymous wrote:No one would tell a man to rely on his looks in response to this question.

Some of these posts are sickening.

Stop with the sexism people!!

My CEOs husband just shows up at a work event now and then. Tall good looking white guy with full head of hair and shakes hands. He has not worked in 20 years.

My neighbor is married to a lady who is a Harvard Doctor I know lots of guys who do it.

I was offered to marry two girls whose parents were multi multi millionaires. Like crazy rich. Both times her and parents had tons of money but the Dad was a Jeff Bezos types. But girls were nice, hot bodies but average faces a little short. Rich Jeff Bezos type Dad married a trophy wife. But him being short, average looking, balding he still had his ugly genes mixed in.

They saw me at six foot two inch, 190 pounds, very good looking in shape and smart as something to “breed” their 1/2 good looking daughter with. To me was not worth the price.

The one girl her sister married a really good looking dead broke guys and has amazing looking kids.

Her after I broke up. She got knocked up some average dumpy guys and kids are all average dumpy kids and community college type IQs.

So a pretty broke girl or guy this is path. Rich and Ugly, average and middle class or Good looking and Poor

My insanity I went poor and Beautiful and my wife went poor and handsome.

I rolled dice, why do people here not facing facts these are choices poor people have to face

And nonsense of savings to get rich. My daughters friend who lives at home, is 25, drives a used car, has student loans and is a day care worker all she has going for her is she is a pretty, nice, easy going, hard worker, loves kids and wants kids. She has a negative net worth.

Next month she is marrying a 27 year old guy whose parents own a big seafood restaurant in the water on Long Island. Family also has a big house on the property. It is a cash cow. The son is taking over business, she is moving in, will have kids, he and get will inherit everything and parents excited as the pretty nice girl wants several kids and wants to help
Son run restaurant.

So exactly how is she saving on her own to get rich. Next month she will be richer than 99 percent of people. The place is out by the Hamptons I not be suprised if building alone worth 20 million, it seats 300 and waterfront

just threw up reading this.

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You have to marry someone who has an equally good job. It’s hard to make enough money on your own. There is a huge financial benefit to combining households. Think about how much of a mortgage you could afford on a $125-$150k salary. It’s adequate for a single person but you’re still looking at a small condo. Then imagine you make that and so does your husband so you have a HHI of $250-$300k. And then one of you gets a better job in your late 30s or early 40s and now you’re making $250k and the other partner is making $150k and has some flexibility with their seniority. Maybe stock options come into the picture too. Getting married to the right person makes all the difference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have to marry someone who has an equally good job. It’s hard to make enough money on your own. There is a huge financial benefit to combining households. Think about how much of a mortgage you could afford on a $125-$150k salary. It’s adequate for a single person but you’re still looking at a small condo. Then imagine you make that and so does your husband so you have a HHI of $250-$300k. And then one of you gets a better job in your late 30s or early 40s and now you’re making $250k and the other partner is making $150k and has some flexibility with their seniority. Maybe stock options come into the picture too. Getting married to the right person makes all the difference.

Could not disagree more for middle class people. My two sisters went that route. Neither my sister or the husband could really devote thenselves fully to work. In the end both sisters dug a hole with childcare, daycare costs, neither got far in career as both always running out the door. My sister the teacher was making 100k and husband 120k my other sister at 150k and 100k. Sounds good, but the had double expenses and day care. Meanwhile my brother and I with stay at home wife’s were making 450k a year.

Not a surprise available to work 24/7 you move quicker. Trouble is men and women have egos.

Look at Barrack Obama or JD Vance or Joe Biden they got ahead as wife supported them.

Mary Bara CEO of GM has a stay at home husband just like the women who is law partner on my block. They had husbands who support them.

Sucks but making money is not a talent everyone has. And if one has talent let him or her go for it

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You have to marry someone who has an equally good job. It’s hard to make enough money on your own. There is a huge financial benefit to combining households. Think about how much of a mortgage you could afford on a $125-$150k salary. It’s adequate for a single person but you’re still looking at a small condo. Then imagine you make that and so does your husband so you have a HHI of $250-$300k. And then one of you gets a better job in your late 30s or early 40s and now you’re making $250k and the other partner is making $150k and has some flexibility with their seniority. Maybe stock options come into the picture too. Getting married to the right person makes all the difference.

Could not disagree more for middle class people. My two sisters went that route. Neither my sister or the husband could really devote thenselves fully to work. In the end both sisters dug a hole with childcare, daycare costs, neither got far in career as both always running out the door. My sister the teacher was making 100k and husband 120k my other sister at 150k and 100k. Sounds good, but the had double expenses and day care. Meanwhile my brother and I with stay at home wife’s were making 450k a year.

Not a surprise available to work 24/7 you move quicker. Trouble is men and women have egos.

Look at Barrack Obama or JD Vance or Joe Biden they got ahead as wife supported them.

Mary Bara CEO of GM has a stay at home husband just like the women who is law partner on my block. They had husbands who support them.

Sucks but making money is not a talent everyone has. And if one has talent let him or her go for it.

Except not everyone's spouse is a go-getter who would triple their salary if the other spouse stopped working.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you are real, even if you double your income it won’t be enough (I’m a mom and working full time busting my a$$ and make about 200k and it’s chump change).

Don't have kids and you'll be fine.

[Anonymous]

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He need a wife. No more money.

That's the issue as women have to have it all. If they give up career to support family, they get judged. They've to dress up and spend days at some office for appearances even if they don't need money.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A man is not a plan....the riding the horse nonsense is great until he dumps you for a younger equestrian...

Invest early and often-- you will be richer than most Americans even on a middle class salary- so long as you are patient.

If you have an easy 9-5, develop a business side hustle. Exploit your biggest skills for your gain

This^ and don't have kids, only one if you must.

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What careers do you recommend for a 30 year old man to have a upper class lifestyle?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You can be a data / business analyst for finance firms. Need to know a few basic data query but no need to leet code hard. I think the pay is 90-130k and bonus.

I am a female data analyst type who makes 150k. Trust me, my life is anything but “upper class.” It was better when I could WFH but now I’m commuting 3 hours a day and it’s a total drag. I have to stick around because I have kids about to go to college.

The PPs telling you to marry well have it right. Sadly that is reality these days.

[Anonymous]

Sorry OP, if you are introverted and lack charisma there not many options for you. Are you attractive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have to marry someone who has an equally good job. It’s hard to make enough money on your own. There is a huge financial benefit to combining households. Think about how much of a mortgage you could afford on a $125-$150k salary. It’s adequate for a single person but you’re still looking at a small condo. Then imagine you make that and so does your husband so you have a HHI of $250-$300k. And then one of you gets a better job in your late 30s or early 40s and now you’re making $250k and the other partner is making $150k and has some flexibility with their seniority. Maybe stock options come into the picture too. Getting married to the right person makes all the difference.

Could not disagree more for middle class people. My two sisters went that route. Neither my sister or the husband could really devote thenselves fully to work. In the end both sisters dug a hole with childcare, daycare costs, neither got far in career as both always running out the door. My sister the teacher was making 100k and husband 120k my other sister at 150k and 100k. Sounds good, but the had double expenses and day care. Meanwhile my brother and I with stay at home wife’s were making 450k a year.

Not a surprise available to work 24/7 you move quicker. Trouble is men and women have egos.

Look at Barrack Obama or JD Vance or Joe Biden they got ahead as wife supported them.

Mary Bara CEO of GM has a stay at home husband just like the women who is law partner on my block. They had husbands who support them.

Sucks but making money is not a talent everyone has. And if one has talent let him or her go for it

Not every man can make 450k with a team of support staff, might as well find a teacher wife so they can at least have benefits when one is laid off and have 2 401k matches.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
He need a wife. No more money.

That's the issue as women have to have it all. If they give up career to support family, they get judged. They've to dress up and spend days at some office for appearances even if they don't need money.

Judged? My multiple friends’ partner straight up told them/us they would divorce if we don’t have jobs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

What careers do you recommend for a 30 year old man to have an upper class lifestyle?

Marry rich.

For UMC lifestyle: Software engineer, finance or general business (accounting /management).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You can be a data / business analyst for finance firms. Need to know a few basic data query but no need to leet code hard. I think the pay is 90-130k and bonus.

I am a female data analyst type who makes 150k. Trust me, my life is anything but “upper class.” It was better when I could WFH but now I’m commuting 3 hours a day and it’s a total drag. I have to stick around because I have kids about to go to college.

The PPs telling you to marry well have it right. Sadly that is reality these days.

Well if a lady went into data she doesn’t have the social skill/upbringing for marrying up. Sorry it’s the truth. If you have the good looks the upper class men will have a fling with you that’s about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are real, even if you double your income it won’t be enough (I’m a mom and working full time busting my a$$ and make about 200k and it’s chump change).

Don't have kids and you'll be fine.

This!