Just because “lots of kids” apply to 15+ schools does not make it smart or necessary. Anxious parents gonna be anxious. |
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I didn’t read the whole thread, but here are my observations a teacher, mom, and former poor kid:
1) application fees can be waived. 2) sometimes, the college kid lives off grant and loan money —alleviating a financial burden on the rest of the family. My mom and my brother had an immediate lift in their standard of living while I attended college because I became mostly self-supporting. My mom gave me a bit of cash each month for the 8-9 months that I was away at school. This was less than it cost to feed me at home. When I’d come back home each summer, the strain returned. I didn’t come home the last two years as a result. I took campus jobs that had housing included and sometimes meals. 3) when the job market is tight, some people will go to college who might have worked instead. |
It is easy when they have private counselors and parents doing all the work for them. |
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Even with test required at Ivies, Stanford, MIT, everyone still wants to pile into a T15, T20, T50 college.
Overall, these colleges will not feel the effects of the demographic cliff. The past 25 years has seen a sea change in perceived selectivity and prestige-chasing. |
PP. I believe the kid copied his peer group. His parents didn't set his strategy. They did not go to prestige US schools. Ann Arbor high schools are like MoCo "W Schools". |
| There is a demographic cliff that will be amplified by a declining enrollment rate of young men. Higher education is headed in the wrong direction. |
And paying. It’s just a waste of money. |
Bitter, much? Not that many applicants have that edge. get a grip. |
The supplemental essays are not easy unless AI or parents are doing a lot of the writing. Most have 2 essays and some have up to 8. |
t Irrelevant due to climbing international students willing to pay full freight to study here. Every year my so-so LAC quietly adds a larger percent of them in order to stay afloat while bragging “10% increase in international students!” But it’s to stay afloat |
And by equal credentials, assume you mean: - excellent violin / cello or piano - science olympiad - 4.0 - high SAT - spelling bee. Tons of these cookie-cutter kids out there. |
Not bitter, just practical. Application fees were not a financial concern for us at all. My point was that parents should set limits on the kids. Saying the huge number of apps is “coming from the kids” absolves parents of the responsibility they have in the process. DD did 4 apps in the early round including an ED (and I thought three was plenty.) She will do 4-5 more (max) if ED is not successful. |
The applicant pool is weak. So, EITHER the applicant pool is weak, and scores don’t affect admissions, so the whole school is weak, OR the applicant pool is weak, but scores do affect admissions, so the school is actually reasonably strong. You can’t have it both ways. |
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No, you just need high executive functioning and start early. |