Just came back from Miami ...

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Anonymous wrote:My son graduated from Stanford Graduate School of Business (GSB), and he is currently working in Miami (finance), living in Brickell. He is dating five different women at the same time. Women in Miami love to date guys with status and money. My son said he would sleep with those women but would never commit to any of them. Yes, lot of beautiful women in Miami from Europe and South America.

Good job, tell your son to keep pumping and dumping those hoes.

I am his father, and he tells me that's how it work in Miami. Men use women for sex, and women use men for resources.

Now it makes sense. Low self esteem father with a low self esteem so. Lol

You are so caught up in "using" women that you ignore the probability that these women are actually enjoying the sex too.

You and your son seem to be the only ones getting used. The woman are getting both sex and " resources". Lol

Young guys don't care what prudes think. Their priorities at that age outside of work probably revolve around hanging out with their friends at the beach and banging good looking women. It's a much different scene in Miami. Women are fake for sure, but much better looking than frumpy DC striver women on ozempic.

And the young women they are banging are having fun too, and they are happy that these men are paying for it. What's the problem here?

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Anonymous wrote:I've had minor plastic surgery myself so I'm not opposed to it, but so many people have no ability to think critically about what it does to a society when women and girls feel enormous pressure over the course of their entire lives to change themselves to fit unreasonable beauty standards, at a level of pressure that they will pay tens of thousands of dollars and undergo risky surgeries just to get others approval.

Do people seriously think it's good for girls to grow up in a toxic stew where they are surrounded by all these images of surgically enhanced bodies and feel that they must do the same?

Do you all have no understanding of the levels of eating disorders, low self-esteem, and mental health issues among teenage girls and adult women, and you are unable to draw a line between unreasonable beauty standards and plastic surgery and the situation we're in?

So many men and women just stupidlly say, as long as you are more beautiful, nothing else matters. This mentality has consequences, for everyone. At the end of the day, no one really feels good about themselves. It's toxic and unhealthy but we have trouble accepting this because, it gives men pleasure to look at an a naturally thin body with fake breasts and butts surgically placed, all sorts of toxins and fillers injected etc

I thought women said that they are not seeking attention from men. I thought they said that whatever surgery they do, or whatever skimpy dress they wear they do it for themselves and not for men.

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Anonymous wrote:It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive.

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC.

Give me a break. I was saving money and going on international vacations when I was making $30k 20 years ago which is like 40-50k today.

In which state? I was making 85k 20 years ago in DC and couldn’t afford it

You couldn't afford vacation making $85k 20 years ago in DC damn lol? Does a vacation means first class Lufthansa seats and all inclusive Maldives? I am divorced with 2 kids. I make $110k. The 3 of us went to Utah and then took a road trip to San. Diego stayed there for 2 days. The entire 10 days trips cost of $2k. And I don't have any debt.

Of course if vacation means 5 star Michelin restaurant business class high end rentals then of course you need the kind of money $300k+ that's considered basic on this forum

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Anonymous wrote:It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive.

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC.

To the bolded: You know why. It's because everyone loves money. You don't deserve a rich man any more than the pretty girls in Miami chasing older men for it just because you are highly educated and rich. In fact they need the rich man more than you do. 😆

The girls in Miami are used for sex; very few marry these rich men. The men go home to their equally educated well earning wives. Assortative mating is a thing

The wives are the people getting used here. They are stuck with old men who cannot keep their dicks in their pants.

Imagine having all that education and money and ending up sharing your DH's dick with a high school educated woman who cannot keep a conversation.

Comparable equal my foot!

Men do not care about your "high" level of education when it comes to pussy. Arnold impregnated his nanny. The price of Monaco also impregnated his African nanny. This is something that successful and highly educated women either don't want to acknowledge or are simply in denial. When it comes to pussy, men don't care about your law degree from Yale or your MBA from HBS. Monica the high school grad who will make him feel like a million buck will keep getting railed by him.

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Anonymous wrote:It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive.

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC.

No international vacation ---- how about a local vacation?

No good car----- how about a Toyota corolla that runs just fine?

I pray you stay in good health and never experience monetary shocks in your life

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Anonymous wrote:It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive.

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC.

To the bolded: You know why. It's because everyone loves money. You don't deserve a rich man any more than the pretty girls in Miami chasing older men for it just because you are highly educated and rich. In fact they need the rich man more than you do. 😆

The girls in Miami are used for sex; very few marry these rich men. The men go home to their equally educated well earning wives. Assortative mating is a thing

The wives are the people getting used here. They are stuck with old men who cannot keep their dicks in their pants.

Imagine having all that education and money and ending up sharing your DH's dick with a high school educated woman who cannot keep a conversation.

Comparable equal my foot!

Men do not care about your "high" level of education when it comes to pussy. Arnold impregnated his nanny. The price of Monaco also impregnated his African nanny. This is something that successful and highly educated women either don't want to acknowledge or are simply in denial. When it comes to pussy, men don't care about your law degree from Yale or your MBA from HBS. Monica the high school grad who will make him feel like a million buck will keep getting railed by him.

No. They'd rather be hateful at the nannies than admit that they are married to dogs.

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I went to Miami 3 years and the competition for men must be fierce because I met 2 women off Tinder and slept with both during my 1 week trip there. These women were incredibly attractive, no way similarly attractive women would have slept with me here in DC. I didn't even take them on a proper date, spent less than $100 total for each date. I am far from being an attractive man. I'm 5'11, regular job, on the thinner side without any noticeable 6 pack etc. I do have a captivating personality.

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Anonymous wrote:It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive.

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC.

To the bolded: You know why. It's because everyone loves money. You don't deserve a rich man any more than the pretty girls in Miami chasing older men for it just because you are highly educated and rich. In fact they need the rich man more than you do. 😆

The girls in Miami are used for sex; very few marry these rich men. The men go home to their equally educated well earning wives. Assortative mating is a thing

The wives are the people getting used here. They are stuck with old men who cannot keep their dicks in their pants.

Imagine having all that education and money and ending up sharing your DH's dick with a high school educated woman who cannot keep a conversation.

Comparable equal my foot!

Men do not care about your "high" level of education when it comes to pussy. Arnold impregnated his nanny. The price of Monaco also impregnated his African nanny. This is something that successful and highly educated women either don't want to acknowledge or are simply in denial. When it comes to pussy, men don't care about your law degree from Yale or your MBA from HBS. Monica the high school grad who will make him feel like a million buck will keep getting railed by him.

This is actually true. While women will also sleep with the landscaper, the frequency men overlook a woman's education/income level asa criteria for sleeping with her is far more common with men. Men are also less condescending than women when it comes to judging their lack of a college education. While the educated woman is looking for a captivating conversation, the same cannot be said for the educated man.

And what the hell is considered educated anyways? Am I educated because I have a Bachelor degree in chemical engineering and Larry the landscaper isn't because he didn't go to college?

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Anonymous wrote:It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive.

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC.

To the bolded: You know why. It's because everyone loves money. You don't deserve a rich man any more than the pretty girls in Miami chasing older men for it just because you are highly educated and rich. In fact they need the rich man more than you do. 😆

The girls in Miami are used for sex; very few marry these rich men. The men go home to their equally educated well earning wives. Assortative mating is a thing

The wives are the people getting used here. They are stuck with old men who cannot keep their dicks in their pants.

Imagine having all that education and money and ending up sharing your DH's dick with a high school educated woman who cannot keep a conversation.

Comparable equal my foot!

Men do not care about your "high" level of education when it comes to pussy. Arnold impregnated his nanny. The price of Monaco also impregnated his African nanny. This is something that successful and highly educated women either don't want to acknowledge or are simply in denial. When it comes to pussy, men don't care about your law degree from Yale or your MBA from HBS. Monica the high school grad who will make him feel like a million buck will keep getting railed by him.

This is actually true. While women will also sleep with the landscaper, the frequency men overlook a woman's education/income level asa criteria for sleeping with her is far more common with men. Men are also less condescending than women when it comes to judging their lack of a college education. While the educated woman is looking for a captivating conversation, the same cannot be said for the educated man.

And what the hell is considered educated anyways? Am I educated because I have a Bachelor degree in chemical engineering and Larry the landscaper isn't because he didn't go to college?

Educated means being a lawyer who is skilled at making millions corrupting politicians ( "lobbyist").

These women will snub a pediatrician who makes 200k. It has nothing to do with actual education.

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Anonymous wrote:I went to Miami 3 years and the competition for men must be fierce because I met 2 women off Tinder and slept with both during my 1 week trip there. These women were incredibly attractive, no way similarly attractive women would have slept with me here in DC. I didn't even take them on a proper date, spent less than $100 total for each date. I am far from being an attractive man. I'm 5'11, regular job, on the thinner side without any noticeable 6 pack etc. I do have a captivating personality.

There is something about warm weather climates that result in a more laid back culture. More laid back culture tends to lead to more women interested in casual sex.

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Anonymous wrote:It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive.

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

Yes, in general across populations men choose relationship partners based more on sexual attractiveness and women choose more on the ability to provide resources.

Each approach has its benefits and pitfalls.

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Anonymous wrote:It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive.

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC.

Give me a break. I was saving money and going on international vacations when I was making $30k 20 years ago which is like 40-50k today.

In which state? I was making 85k 20 years ago in DC and couldn’t afford it

You couldn't afford vacation making $85k 20 years ago in DC damn lol? Does a vacation means first class Lufthansa seats and all inclusive Maldives? I am divorced with 2 kids. I make $110k. The 3 of us went to Utah and then took a road trip to San. Diego stayed there for 2 days. The entire 10 days trips cost of $2k. And I don't have any debt.

Of course if vacation means 5 star Michelin restaurant business class high end rentals then of course you need the kind of money $300k+ that's considered basic on this forum

A rich man has German cars, French vacations, Russian wife, and American house

A poor man has a Russian car, local American vacation, German wife and a tiny French house

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Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC.

To the bolded: You know why. It's because everyone loves money. You don't deserve a rich man any more than the pretty girls in Miami chasing older men for it just because you are highly educated and rich. In fact they need the rich man more than you do. 😆

The girls in Miami are used for sex; very few marry these rich men. The men go home to their equally educated well earning wives. Assortative mating is a thing

The wives are the people getting used here. They are stuck with old men who cannot keep their dicks in their pants.

Imagine having all that education and money and ending up sharing your DH's dick with a high school educated woman who cannot keep a conversation.

Comparable equal my foot!

Men do not care about your "high" level of education when it comes to pussy. Arnold impregnated his nanny. The price of Monaco also impregnated his African nanny. This is something that successful and highly educated women either don't want to acknowledge or are simply in denial. When it comes to pussy, men don't care about your law degree from Yale or your MBA from HBS. Monica the high school grad who will make him feel like a million buck will keep getting railed by him.

This is actually true. While women will also sleep with the landscaper, the frequency men overlook a woman's education/income level asa criteria for sleeping with her is far more common with men. Men are also less condescending than women when it comes to judging their lack of a college education. While the educated woman is looking for a captivating conversation, the same cannot be said for the educated man.

And what the hell is considered educated anyways? Am I educated because I have a Bachelor degree in chemical engineering and Larry the landscaper isn't because he didn't go to college?

Actually I am much more attracted to smart and accomplished women, but brains and success don't usually make up for lack of chemistry. When I have spent long stretches of time in Miami, I've also also been amazed by how beautiful the women are, but I usually can't get conversations going with most of them, even when they're interested. I have met some professional women there (professor, journalist, doctor, corporate officer, etc ) and things were fine with them. They weren't jumping into bed with me on the first date.

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Anonymous wrote:It is insane that people on this forum are trying to characterize women in Miami as gold diggers. Go look at some of the discussions on this forum regarding dating and men’s income/career. Women in DC are obsessed with wealth and social status. At least the women in south Florida try to be attractive.

Ehh, women in DC aren't really obsessed with wealth and social status. I'm from NYC and spent 6 years living in Miami but I would say DC is comparatively low key that way. Strivers for sure, but DC isn't really a destination for a woman with a HS education looking to hit it rich with a guy the way other cities are. More likely to be a big law associate or lobbyist who is looking for a comparable male equal.

Interesting.

So when a woman in big law or a lobbyist seeks a man with those credentials and money, she is not obsessed with status because she is looking for her "comparable equal". When a woman with a HS education does it, she is obsessed.

Are engineers and accountants making 150K equals to this woman in big law? Or is there a salary and specific grad degree that defines these "comparable equal" men?

Of course a 20 yo looking for money from much older men is a gold digger.
Professional women not wanting to financially support lousy husbands has nothing in common with it. They just stay single till they find it or forever. They don’t fly to Miami to bare their tits to find a man.
Equal means the same income at least and the same intelligence

150K is plenty of income. Anyone focusing solely on men making more than that is obsessed with income and status. One can make good money and still be obsessed with money. And engineers and accountants are just as intelligent as lawyers. So if "comparable" was the goal for these older women, there would be plenty of options in these professions. It's an obsession with money and status. It does not matter if younger women or older women are doing it. Women in general, rich or poor, prefer men with power, money and status. Neither their education level or wealth reduces that preference or "obsession" as you put it.

150k is not enough burrowing capacity or savings to afford a good house in DC; no international vacations; no good cars; no sports like golf or gym memberships . Men making $150k have a very different lifestyle from mine and I don’t want to finance them while in a relationship. They can find a woman making $150k or less. But for some reason men also look for higher earner women in DC.

To the bolded: You know why. It's because everyone loves money. You don't deserve a rich man any more than the pretty girls in Miami chasing older men for it just because you are highly educated and rich. In fact they need the rich man more than you do. 😆

The girls in Miami are used for sex; very few marry these rich men. The men go home to their equally educated well earning wives. Assortative mating is a thing

The wives are the people getting used here. They are stuck with old men who cannot keep their dicks in their pants.

Imagine having all that education and money and ending up sharing your DH's dick with a high school educated woman who cannot keep a conversation.

Comparable equal my foot!

Men do not care about your "high" level of education when it comes to pussy. Arnold impregnated his nanny. The price of Monaco also impregnated his African nanny. This is something that successful and highly educated women either don't want to acknowledge or are simply in denial. When it comes to pussy, men don't care about your law degree from Yale or your MBA from HBS. Monica the high school grad who will make him feel like a million buck will keep getting railed by him.

This is actually true. While women will also sleep with the landscaper, the frequency men overlook a woman's education/income level asa criteria for sleeping with her is far more common with men. Men are also less condescending than women when it comes to judging their lack of a college education. While the educated woman is looking for a captivating conversation, the same cannot be said for the educated man.

And what the hell is considered educated anyways? Am I educated because I have a Bachelor degree in chemical engineering and Larry the landscaper isn't because he didn't go to college?

Actually I am much more attracted to smart and accomplished women, but brains and success don't usually make up for lack of chemistry. When I have spent long stretches of time in Miami, I've also also been amazed by how beautiful the women are, but I usually can't get conversations going with most of them, even when they're interested. I have met some professional women there (professor, journalist, doctor, corporate officer, etc ) and things were fine with them. They weren't jumping into bed with me on the first date.

Yea, men sleep with these Miami girls but rarely marry them. They more often marry intellectual equal women with whom they also have a great chemistry

These girls jump in bed quickly because they want to land a rich guy and can’t make own money. A stunning female doctor won’t buy into that

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Anonymous wrote:I went to Miami 3 years and the competition for men must be fierce because I met 2 women off Tinder and slept with both during my 1 week trip there. These women were incredibly attractive, no way similarly attractive women would have slept with me here in DC. I didn't even take them on a proper date, spent less than $100 total for each date. I am far from being an attractive man. I'm 5'11, regular job, on the thinner side without any noticeable 6 pack etc. I do have a captivating personality.

What a stud!
And a "captivating personality" too