Scott Wolf (Party of Five) and wife Kelley are divorcing

[Anonymous]

Why be team anyone?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A sane person would not act like Kelley, even when provoked by a narc (which may not even be the case. We do NOT know.)

Narc’s just dont provoke, they methodically destroy over a long period of time with many multiple cycles of abuse. Of course it could be something else but his statement gave him away. Victims of long term abuse absolutely look like Kelly. It is a disservice to abuse victims to pretend like they come out of these situations mentally intact. It takes years, sometimes even decades for these victims to recover. She was filmed for six months in the Real World 24 hours a day and she was so sane and calm she was annoyingly boring. She’s not bipolar.

The Real World was 25 years ago when she was still in her twenties. She actually acted very strange on the Real World reunion show a?few years ago. She seemed angry snd anxious the whole time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A sane person would not act like Kelley, even when provoked by a narc (which may not even be the case. We do NOT know.)

Narc’s just dont provoke, they methodically destroy over a long period of time with many multiple cycles of abuse. Of course it could be something else but his statement gave him away. Victims of long term abuse absolutely look like Kelly. It is a disservice to abuse victims to pretend like they come out of these situations mentally intact. It takes years, sometimes even decades for these victims to recover. She was filmed for six months in the Real World 24 hours a day and she was so sane and calm she was annoyingly boring. She’s not bipolar.

Isnt the definition of bipolar, extreme moods in both directions, highs and lows?

yes but the highs can last months.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A sane person would not act like Kelley, even when provoked by a narc (which may not even be the case. We do NOT know.)

Narc’s just dont provoke, they methodically destroy over a long period of time with many multiple cycles of abuse. Of course it could be something else but his statement gave him away. Victims of long term abuse absolutely look like Kelly. It is a disservice to abuse victims to pretend like they come out of these situations mentally intact. It takes years, sometimes even decades for these victims to recover. She was filmed for six months in the Real World 24 hours a day and she was so sane and calm she was annoyingly boring. She’s not bipolar.

The Real World was 25 years ago when she was still in her twenties. She actually acted very strange on the Real World reunion show a?few years ago. She seemed angry snd anxious the whole time.

LOL I thought I was the only person on the planet who watched the reunion. Yes I agree, she acted really uptight. Even though Julie was so annoying, it seems like she overreacted and was just too good for it all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A sane person would not act like Kelley, even when provoked by a narc (which may not even be the case. We do NOT know.)

Narc’s just dont provoke, they methodically destroy over a long period of time with many multiple cycles of abuse. Of course it could be something else but his statement gave him away. Victims of long term abuse absolutely look like Kelly. It is a disservice to abuse victims to pretend like they come out of these situations mentally intact. It takes years, sometimes even decades for these victims to recover. She was filmed for six months in the Real World 24 hours a day and she was so sane and calm she was annoyingly boring. She’s not bipolar.

Isnt the definition of bipolar, extreme moods in both directions, highs and lows?

No Bipolar is a genetic chemical imbalance in the brain that can be treated by meds. Kelly probably has thousands of hours if reality TV footage that proves she’s sane. I am fairly confident that what Kelly is suffering is CPTSD also known as Complex PTSD which is often misdiagnosed as and can look like Bipolar disorder on the surface. CPTSD is caused by chronic trauma usually in the form of repeated abuse as is typically seen in victims of narcissistic abuse. Victims of CPTSD and are often stuck in flight or fright mode from walking on eggshells waiting for the next abuse cycle. Idealize (lovebombing) Devalue (abuse) Discard (threats of divorce,etc) then Calm then back to lovebombing. The charming Narcissists victim is co dependent on their abuser and the cycle is so insidious and manipulative the victim begind to lose their sense of reality. This cycle can repeat multiple times a year over decades until the final Discard which is where Kelley is now, leaving the codependent victim devastated often leading to a meltdown. As a result of abuse, CPTSD victims have a destabilized sense of self which causes like depression and anxiety which can be treated with meds but what she really needs is a great therapist and an amazing attorney. She’s not crazy, she’s abused.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A sane person would not act like Kelley, even when provoked by a narc (which may not even be the case. We do NOT know.)

Narc’s just dont provoke, they methodically destroy over a long period of time with many multiple cycles of abuse. Of course it could be something else but his statement gave him away. Victims of long term abuse absolutely look like Kelly. It is a disservice to abuse victims to pretend like they come out of these situations mentally intact. It takes years, sometimes even decades for these victims to recover. She was filmed for six months in the Real World 24 hours a day and she was so sane and calm she was annoyingly boring. She’s not bipolar.

Isnt the definition of bipolar, extreme moods in both directions, highs and lows?

No Bipolar is a genetic chemical imbalance in the brain that can be treated by meds. Kelly probably has thousands of hours if reality TV footage that proves she’s sane. I am fairly confident that what Kelly is suffering is CPTSD also known as Complex PTSD which is often misdiagnosed as and can look like Bipolar disorder on the surface. CPTSD is caused by chronic trauma usually in the form of repeated abuse as is typically seen in victims of narcissistic abuse. Victims of CPTSD and are often stuck in flight or fright mode from walking on eggshells waiting for the next abuse cycle. Idealize (lovebombing) Devalue (abuse) Discard (threats of divorce,etc) then Calm then back to lovebombing. The charming Narcissists victim is co dependent on their abuser and the cycle is so insidious and manipulative the victim begind to lose their sense of reality. This cycle can repeat multiple times a year over decades until the final Discard which is where Kelley is now, leaving the codependent victim devastated often leading to a meltdown. As a result of abuse, CPTSD victims have a destabilized sense of self which causes like depression and anxiety which can be treated with meds but what she really needs is a great therapist and an amazing attorney. She’s not crazy, she’s abused.

Her best friend Danny just posting something that supports Scott. Saying something along the lines of people falsely claim abuse when they can't take accountability of their own actions. It was posted in the instagram story but then took it down. Also bipolar can come on at any time, or she could have been treated for it and we didn't know. We don't know.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Based on her IG… She was clearly starting to lose it as early as January when she makes the post about her kid being in the hospital/leaving the other one home and passive aggressively mentions Scott is promoting a new show for Fox. Seems like she had to handle a lot on the home front and was starting to snap; though they have sufficient money that it seems odd she didn’t have more help at least (leaving a sick 12 year old home alone, if that’s literally true?).

Then something happened April. I’m guessing Scott cheated based on what she starts posting (betrayal, etc) & her parents seemingly come to town to support her in early June (which fits in with the Billy Bush comments) probably in advance of the divorce announcement. There are a lot of very weird posts (including one of her holding up a bag in front of her and filming while driving) in June. I think she’s having some kind of psych episode by that point.

The deluge of stories over the last few days tagging random famous people is way over the top. Mania for sure.

Something happened in April is like an affair was revealed, But maybe has been going on for years. And maybe her posting passive aggressively about everything she's handling is a reference to all of the child care and home maintenance she has been doing for a long period of time while he was stepping out. Ask me how I know.

Tell us!
How do you know?

I’m not the PP but now I’m invested in this. I just went through her Instagram having never followed her before. It is obvious she discovered a serious betrayal in April and she writes about it in flowery prose where she talks about being stronger and begins to dance around the topic of emotional psychological abuse. It’s all there in that posts and the following posts. She’s writing a book about it and she should.

[Anonymous]

https://www.reddit.com/r/therealworld/comments/1lba7jc/danny_roberts_posted_this_regarding_kelleys/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Based on her IG… She was clearly starting to lose it as early as January when she makes the post about her kid being in the hospital/leaving the other one home and passive aggressively mentions Scott is promoting a new show for Fox. Seems like she had to handle a lot on the home front and was starting to snap; though they have sufficient money that it seems odd she didn’t have more help at least (leaving a sick 12 year old home alone, if that’s literally true?).

Then something happened April. I’m guessing Scott cheated based on what she starts posting (betrayal, etc) & her parents seemingly come to town to support her in early June (which fits in with the Billy Bush comments) probably in advance of the divorce announcement. There are a lot of very weird posts (including one of her holding up a bag in front of her and filming while driving) in June. I think she’s having some kind of psych episode by that point.

The deluge of stories over the last few days tagging random famous people is way over the top. Mania for sure.

Something happened in April is like an affair was revealed, But maybe has been going on for years. And maybe her posting passive aggressively about everything she's handling is a reference to all of the child care and home maintenance she has been doing for a long period of time while he was stepping out. Ask me how I know.

Tell us!
How do you know?

I’m not the PP but now I’m invested in this. I just went through her Instagram having never followed her before. It is obvious she discovered a serious betrayal in April and she writes about it in flowery prose where she talks about being stronger and begins to dance around the topic of emotional psychological abuse. It’s all there in that posts and the following posts. She’s writing a book about it and she should.

I'm sure she's perfect. Her book about her bipolar personality will prove how honest she is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Based on her IG… She was clearly starting to lose it as early as January when she makes the post about her kid being in the hospital/leaving the other one home and passive aggressively mentions Scott is promoting a new show for Fox. Seems like she had to handle a lot on the home front and was starting to snap; though they have sufficient money that it seems odd she didn’t have more help at least (leaving a sick 12 year old home alone, if that’s literally true?).

Then something happened April. I’m guessing Scott cheated based on what she starts posting (betrayal, etc) & her parents seemingly come to town to support her in early June (which fits in with the Billy Bush comments) probably in advance of the divorce announcement. There are a lot of very weird posts (including one of her holding up a bag in front of her and filming while driving) in June. I think she’s having some kind of psych episode by that point.

The deluge of stories over the last few days tagging random famous people is way over the top. Mania for sure.

Something happened in April is like an affair was revealed, But maybe has been going on for years. And maybe her posting passive aggressively about everything she's handling is a reference to all of the child care and home maintenance she has been doing for a long period of time while he was stepping out. Ask me how I know.

Tell us!
How do you know?

I’m not the PP but now I’m invested in this. I just went through her Instagram having never followed her before. It is obvious she discovered a serious betrayal in April and she writes about it in flowery prose where she talks about being stronger and begins to dance around the topic of emotional psychological abuse. It’s all there in that posts and the following posts. She’s writing a book about it and she should.

I'm sure she's perfect. Her book about her bipolar personality will prove how honest she is.

Nobody said she was perfect. She’s human. But pretty sure her husband is a nightmare.

Also a couple of men like Danny and Billy Bush rushing to Scott’s defense doesn’t change my mind. This is EXACTLY why abused women don’t speak up. Especially if they are in a high profile relationship. Everyone here judging her and calling her crazy when she states she is abused is part of the problem and you are the reason why abused women stay in the shadows and suffer in silence. Pray it doesn’t ever happen to you or your daughter.

[Anonymous]

Her own kids took Scott’s side, right? Because she cheated? Not uncommon for bipolar, I think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am following this. She is clearly having a manic episode and anyone who has been around a bipolar person can see it: Grandiosity, excessive posting and tagging everyone, calling everyone else crazy, feeling closer to God or spiritual, saying you've never been happier. She is likely bipolar and off meds. She always seemed so stable and sane so it's a shock. Samed thing happened to a friend who is in a happy marriage, she started saying her husband was abusing her and demonizing him, talking excessively and lost her voice, spending money, acting grandiose. She was 5150'd and was mortified when she started meds and reflected on her behavior.

Agree with this. She was hospitalized for a reason. Then goes straight to a bar? She needs real help, but has to be open to it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Her own kids took Scott’s side, right? Because she cheated? Not uncommon for bipolar, I think.

What? Her kids are all children! Minors. They didn’t take Scott’s side. They are like in elementary/middle school at most.

It’s obvious from what she wrote that HE is the cheater if that’s even the case at all. But she claims she was abused and I think she was. Even *IF* she is bipolar (which I highly doubt) then he’s a jerk for not standing by her when they have fairly young kids together. So much victim blaming here and mental disease shaming from such a “me too” website is pretty gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Based on her IG… She was clearly starting to lose it as early as January when she makes the post about her kid being in the hospital/leaving the other one home and passive aggressively mentions Scott is promoting a new show for Fox. Seems like she had to handle a lot on the home front and was starting to snap; though they have sufficient money that it seems odd she didn’t have more help at least (leaving a sick 12 year old home alone, if that’s literally true?).

Then something happened April. I’m guessing Scott cheated based on what she starts posting (betrayal, etc) & her parents seemingly come to town to support her in early June (which fits in with the Billy Bush comments) probably in advance of the divorce announcement. There are a lot of very weird posts (including one of her holding up a bag in front of her and filming while driving) in June. I think she’s having some kind of psych episode by that point.

The deluge of stories over the last few days tagging random famous people is way over the top. Mania for sure.

Something happened in April is like an affair was revealed, But maybe has been going on for years. And maybe her posting passive aggressively about everything she's handling is a reference to all of the child care and home maintenance she has been doing for a long period of time while he was stepping out. Ask me how I know.

Tell us!
How do you know?

I’m not the PP but now I’m invested in this. I just went through her Instagram having never followed her before. It is obvious she discovered a serious betrayal in April and she writes about it in flowery prose where she talks about being stronger and begins to dance around the topic of emotional psychological abuse. It’s all there in that posts and the following posts. She’s writing a book about it and she should.

I'm sure she's perfect. Her book about her bipolar personality will prove how honest she is.

Nobody said she was perfect. She’s human. But pretty sure her husband is a nightmare.

Also a couple of men like Danny and Billy Bush rushing to Scott’s defense doesn’t change my mind. This is EXACTLY why abused women don’t speak up. Especially if they are in a high profile relationship. Everyone here judging her and calling her crazy when she states she is abused is part of the problem and you are the reason why abused women stay in the shadows and suffer in silence. Pray it doesn’t ever happen to you or your daughter.

You are ignoring that she most likely has a chemical imbalance in her brain that is causing the bizarre behavior.

Also, do you think it's a good idea to stop st the bar and knock back a few whiskeys after being discharged from a hospital? She's lucky she's not in liver failure. Her abuse of alcohol and the apparent chemical imbalance in her brain were not caused by anything Scott did. Her over the top crazy behavior is probsbly what caused Scott to leave. He has been committed to her for years. She does not get a pass for physically attacking people just because she's a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A sane person would not act like Kelley, even when provoked by a narc (which may not even be the case. We do NOT know.)

Narc’s just dont provoke, they methodically destroy over a long period of time with many multiple cycles of abuse. Of course it could be something else but his statement gave him away. Victims of long term abuse absolutely look like Kelly. It is a disservice to abuse victims to pretend like they come out of these situations mentally intact. It takes years, sometimes even decades for these victims to recover. She was filmed for six months in the Real World 24 hours a day and she was so sane and calm she was annoyingly boring. She’s not bipolar.

Isnt the definition of bipolar, extreme moods in both directions, highs and lows?

No Bipolar is a genetic chemical imbalance in the brain that can be treated by meds. Kelly probably has thousands of hours if reality TV footage that proves she’s sane. I am fairly confident that what Kelly is suffering is CPTSD also known as Complex PTSD which is often misdiagnosed as and can look like Bipolar disorder on the surface. CPTSD is caused by chronic trauma usually in the form of repeated abuse as is typically seen in victims of narcissistic abuse. Victims of CPTSD and are often stuck in flight or fright mode from walking on eggshells waiting for the next abuse cycle. Idealize (lovebombing) Devalue (abuse) Discard (threats of divorce,etc) then Calm then back to lovebombing. The charming Narcissists victim is co dependent on their abuser and the cycle is so insidious and manipulative the victim begind to lose their sense of reality. This cycle can repeat multiple times a year over decades until the final Discard which is where Kelley is now, leaving the codependent victim devastated often leading to a meltdown. As a result of abuse, CPTSD victims have a destabilized sense of self which causes like depression and anxiety which can be treated with meds but what she really needs is a great therapist and an amazing attorney. She’s not crazy, she’s abused.

Her best friend Danny just posting something that supports Scott. Saying something along the lines of people falsely claim abuse when they can't take accountability of their own actions. It was posted in the instagram story but then took it down. Also bipolar can come on at any time, or she could have been treated for it and we didn't know. We don't know.

That’s not a good friend. He should be trying to make sure she gets help or privately having those conversations with her.