DP. Do you remember the studies about girls who watched programming aimed at girls that included relational aggression and conflict for the first 15 minutes of the show then ended with a neat conclusion where the conflict resolved? Children imitated the relational aggression, since it was the majority of the show. They fought more with friends and behaved badly. The problem solving skills at the end of the show were just a blip. |
It is...and the PP keeps referencing this documentary as if it has anything to do with the book or...I don't know even why this is being brought up in this thread, TBH. |
Those are the units that are outlined by the county, not by Cooper. If the word "identity" bothers you, there are huge issues in your life. Identity is a huge concept for adolescents who are trying to determine who they are and how they fit into their communities. Are they athletic? Artistic? A combination of the two? Are they quiet and introspective? Risk-takers? Conservative in their approach to new things? Are they leaders? Team players? Religious? Community-service-driven? Scouts? Musicians? Readers? Humorous? Dramatic? Son's? Daughters? Siblings? The identity unit is not political, nor is it "woke." It's relevant to adolescence. |
Cooper/Langley always find new things to complain about. |
Amazing how we got through school back in the 80s and 90s without any units on “identity.” |
Yeah. Isn’t that interesting? |
We also got by without lockdown drills. Funny how times change isn't it? |
Yes, and many adolescents of that time struggled because they felt that who they were didn't fit the definition of what they were "supposed to be." I was musically-inclined, but suppressed that part of who I was because it didn't fit the image of what I "should" have been-- a basketball player, to match my height of 5'11" in eighth grade. I felt forced into athletics when I actually wanted to be involved in the arts. My best friend began college as a pre-law major because she felt that is what she "should" have been since both her parents were attorneys. She finally felt comfortable studying what she wanted to study when she was entering her fourth year. She was miserable in college until she felt comfortable speaking up. But no one ever asked her what she wanted. My cousin had little interest in taking AP science classes, but he was told that was the track he was on in school, so he didn't feel comfortable fighting that. He wanted to follow his love of languages, not science, but no one ever asked him what he wanted. |
how are 1 and 3 on the list (Pakistan/family & a mixed race family) a hidden agenda? |
I remember doing nuclear drills as a kid. |
But you did have unit and books on identity and understanding self: the Little Prince, On the Road, Life of Pi, Dear God it’s Me, Margaret, Jane Eyre, the Bell Jar, etc. |
We also weren't vaccinated against meningitis, varicella, and HPV. We've advanced since the 80s and 90s. We also didn't all ride in car seats until we were safe in a seat belt, and many of us rode in a lap belt only. We've learned since then. Many of grew up getting spanked and harshly punished. We've learned the error of our ways. Many of grew up being told that depression and anxiety were signs of weakness. Thankfully we've learned that isn't isn't case. Isn't it INCREDIBLE how we can be better educators, parents, and providers now? Let's do better than what we had. |
These identity explorations are causing more confusion than anything else. Almost by design. |
We also got through school without our parents sticking their noses into curriculum and telling teachers how to do their jobs. |
We are certainly trying very hard at all of these improvements but the proof is in the pudding. Kids these days are anxious, unsocialized, distracted messes. |