Men, do you care if your wife puts effort into her appearance?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think you can get away with being frumpy in the US because the competition is generally weak. In other countries, men simply won't date you because there are better options.


+1



Never long before the mail-order bride betas come a-slithering.


I wonder why you aren't seen as being desirable on more than one continent?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am a guy and I greatly appreciate my wife putting in hours and the gym to have a good body. Her grooming is important to me too. I reciprocate by keeping myself really fit, keep myself groomed, and not dressing like a bum.

Although we are busy, staying accountable to each other's physical preferences keeps our sex life pretty hot, which increases the happiness level in our marriage.


+1 This is pretty much my wife and I. I love being attracted to each other and our daily flirting and regular sex life are great. Its nice to snuggle up to her at night as well. As far as staying fit, we do it more for ourselves than each other, but its def one of the things I love about her.

I don’t really care about make up day to day. Someone me tioned above that their dh likes her to wear things that show off her hourglass figure - that’s definitey the case for me as well.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stay thin and in shape, but it doesn’t matter what you wear around the house. Any man would take that over a chunky woman who dresses up with makeup.


Not all men like skinny minnies


+1

I am 6’4” muscular 255 lbs. Skinny woman do nothing for me.

5’4” - 135-155 with curves is ideal.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I stay looking neat. I don't wear makeup daily, but I try to take care of my fitness, wear clothing that fits, keep my hair neat and groomed, keep my nails and brows tidy, keep skin moisturized and legs always shaved, etc.


Way to read the title.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stay thin and in shape, but it doesn’t matter what you wear around the house. Any man would take that over a chunky woman who dresses up with makeup.


Not all men like skinny minnies


+1

I am 6’4” muscular 255 lbs. Skinny woman do nothing for me.

5’4” - 135-155 with curves is ideal.


Thanks for taking one off the market lol. That's obese in my book
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stay thin and in shape, but it doesn’t matter what you wear around the house. Any man would take that over a chunky woman who dresses up with makeup.


Not all men like skinny minnies


+1

I am 6’4” muscular 255 lbs. Skinny woman do nothing for me.

5’4” - 135-155 with curves is ideal.


Thanks for taking one off the market lol. That's obese in my book

Thanks for being a Dbag!
Bet you wouldn’t be so tough with your mouth if the 6’4 guy got a hold of you.
Different strokes for different folks. That’s why we have Baskin Robbins.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stay thin and in shape, but it doesn’t matter what you wear around the house. Any man would take that over a chunky woman who dresses up with makeup.


Not all men like skinny minnies


+1

I am 6’4” muscular 255 lbs. Skinny woman do nothing for me.

5’4” - 135-155 with curves is ideal.

Right there with you!
Anonymous
Yes
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stay thin and in shape, but it doesn’t matter what you wear around the house. Any man would take that over a chunky woman who dresses up with makeup.


Not all men like skinny minnies


+1

I am 6’4” muscular 255 lbs. Skinny woman do nothing for me.

5’4” - 135-155 with curves is ideal.


Thanks for taking one off the market lol. That's obese in my book

Thanks for being a Dbag!
Bet you wouldn’t be so tough with your mouth if the 6’4 guy got a hold of you.
Different strokes for different folks. That’s why we have Baskin Robbins.


And you probably ate all 31 flavors with major gas afterwards
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stay thin and in shape, but it doesn’t matter what you wear around the house. Any man would take that over a chunky woman who dresses up with makeup.


Not all men like skinny minnies


+1

I am 6’4” muscular 255 lbs. Skinny woman do nothing for me.

5’4” - 135-155 with curves is ideal.


That’s a pretty big range on someone who’s 5’4” - completely different body type at 135 vs 155

(However, neither is fatfat)
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stay thin and in shape, but it doesn’t matter what you wear around the house. Any man would take that over a chunky woman who dresses up with makeup.


Not all men like skinny minnies


+1

I am 6’4” muscular 255 lbs. Skinny woman do nothing for me.

5’4” - 135-155 with curves is ideal.


Thanks for taking one off the market lol. That's obese in my book

Thanks for being a Dbag!
Bet you wouldn’t be so tough with your mouth if the 6’4 guy got a hold of you.
Different strokes for different folks. That’s why we have Baskin Robbins.


And you probably ate all 31 flavors with major gas afterwards

I don’t eat ice cream… Next
Anonymous
I am 38, married, 5’2”, curvy, wear Ann Taylor loft and talbots and 150 lbs…. Believe me, I get no shortage of attention from men of all ages and races and socioeconomic groups.

Men love “obese” women like me if we are relatively attractive and have a large chest. I have absolutely 0 concern that I would find a man if god forbid I were single again.
Anonymous
Any man who says he doesn't care about this is lying. Yes, wake up call, OP, put some effort in.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am 38, married, 5’2”, curvy, wear Ann Taylor loft and talbots and 150 lbs…. Believe me, I get no shortage of attention from men of all ages and races and socioeconomic groups.

Men love “obese” women like me if we are relatively attractive and have a large chest. I have absolutely 0 concern that I would find a man if god forbid I were single again.


Yes poor guys love that body type. I'm not poor though. To answer OPs question, I don't care if my wife wears makeup or dresses "nice." She looks super hot in a pair of sweatpants. She does go to the gym on a regular basis but her body was always amazing anyway. She wants six pack abs which I care absolutely nothing about. But whatever she wants, I support it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 38, married, 5’2”, curvy, wear Ann Taylor loft and talbots and 150 lbs…. Believe me, I get no shortage of attention from men of all ages and races and socioeconomic groups.

Men love “obese” women like me if we are relatively attractive and have a large chest. I have absolutely 0 concern that I would find a man if god forbid I were single again.


Yes poor guys love that body type. I'm not poor though. To answer OPs question, I don't care if my wife wears makeup or dresses "nice." She looks super hot in a pair of sweatpants. She does go to the gym on a regular basis but her body was always amazing anyway. She wants six pack abs which I care absolutely nothing about. But whatever she wants, I support it.


No sweetie not just “poor” guys. Real life is not DCUM and men IRL drool over any attractive woman who is minimally polite and pleasant.
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