
I agree with your last point BUT I don’t think it’s materialistic for men or women to want to date people who are not struggling to meet their basic needs (food, rent or mortgage, etc). Personally, I would be entirely fine dating someone who didn’t buy the latest iPhone or go on expensive vacations but I would not date someone who was struggling to pay their electric bill each month. I am able to pay for my very basic needs and would only date someone who could, too. |
Yes, could be a teacher. |
PP here and I totally agree. You can have compassion for somebody because it can be really hard to be financially stable through no fault of your own, but you don’t have to feel bad about not tying yourself to somebody who is going to make you financially unstable. |
I agree with both of you and I also feel like I might even date someone who wasn’t fully meeting their own needs but I surely wouldn’t date someone who wasn’t meeting their own needs who then turned around and called me/my gender “all about money” for thinking him a dubious prospect. |
?? In this area? My kid's teacher makes double that. |
YES!! OP sounds extremely entitled to attention from women. And I think that women he isn’t attracted to basically are invisible to him since he seems to think those who have rejected him are representative of all women. |
Good point. It’s one thing to be struggling financially and own it but calling someone materialistic for not wanting to front you rent money every month because you’re short again is a whole other issue. |
Check out what some Catholic schools pay first year teachers. As with most things, even in this area, there’s a range. |
I met my wife when I was 30 years old working as a golf instructor at a Country Club. She was just divorced when we met. I was in a lot of debt from years of trying to chase my dream as a professional golfer. We got married after she paid off my 150K debt and with her family connections, her father got me a job as a professional accountant. She told me a few years after we got married that I was good looking with a great personality and that I would do great things with her family connections.
If you're good looking and take good care of yourself, the future will be bright for you. |
You now have 6 pages of resounding, YES from the women. They are only after the money as a first priority. The rest is all secondary.
Go to near the end of this video at the 6:00 mark. It explains it all and how women choose. https://youtu.be/pInk1rV2VEg |
You need to work on your reading comprehension skills, incel. Or are you confused and you were reading a different red-pill thread in another browser tab? |
The funny thing is, it’s men who want to be measured by their income, because they know full well they won’t bring anything else to the household. As soon as women do start asking for men to do what good wives do, women are called picky, petty, excessive, etc. |
+1 he can't make ends meet but he expects to be able to find a date. So, that means he expects the woman to pay fro dinner? Or he wants to take her to McD and order off the $1 menu? |
Yes it is. She has bluntly told me that she thought we would have more income by this point. |
How is your marriage now? She did a lot for you, was she a good judge if character? Know many guys who would take advantage of such a set up. |