Do all women only care about money?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Meghan Thee Stallion, Cardi B, City Girls, and Saweetie have all been telling you the answer to your question for several years now.


Those are some class acts right there

What have they been telling us? Are they seeking lots of "stability" from men, just like the other women on this thread?


Broke dudes don't deserve no ....



I think that lyric is awful and contrary to my values. What matters is love and a person’s character.

And I always giggle when I hear it. Its sort of amazing.


But what about hard work? At 50k, he's under the poverty line in DC


People can work hard and remain in poverty, but it’s actually median for the US and two 50K salaries is enough in some areas here to get all your basic needs met.

I’m not saying a woman should feel bad for wanting to marry somebody who makes more money. But I do think our society is waaaaay too materialistic.


I agree with your last point BUT I don’t think it’s materialistic for men or women to want to date people who are not struggling to meet their basic needs (food, rent or mortgage, etc). Personally, I would be entirely fine dating someone who didn’t buy the latest iPhone or go on expensive vacations but I would not date someone who was struggling to pay their electric bill each month. I am able to pay for my very basic needs and would only date someone who could, too.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Most women do not want to be with a man who is 34 and hasn’t figured out how to support himself.


Pretty much. It indicates larger issues.


Yes, could be a teacher.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meghan Thee Stallion, Cardi B, City Girls, and Saweetie have all been telling you the answer to your question for several years now.


Those are some class acts right there

What have they been telling us? Are they seeking lots of "stability" from men, just like the other women on this thread?


Broke dudes don't deserve no ....



I think that lyric is awful and contrary to my values. What matters is love and a person’s character.

And I always giggle when I hear it. Its sort of amazing.


But what about hard work? At 50k, he's under the poverty line in DC


People can work hard and remain in poverty, but it’s actually median for the US and two 50K salaries is enough in some areas here to get all your basic needs met.

I’m not saying a woman should feel bad for wanting to marry somebody who makes more money. But I do think our society is waaaaay too materialistic.


I agree with your last point BUT I don’t think it’s materialistic for men or women to want to date people who are not struggling to meet their basic needs (food, rent or mortgage, etc). Personally, I would be entirely fine dating someone who didn’t buy the latest iPhone or go on expensive vacations but I would not date someone who was struggling to pay their electric bill each month. I am able to pay for my very basic needs and would only date someone who could, too.


PP here and I totally agree. You can have compassion for somebody because it can be really hard to be financially stable through no fault of your own, but you don’t have to feel bad about not tying yourself to somebody who is going to make you financially unstable.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meghan Thee Stallion, Cardi B, City Girls, and Saweetie have all been telling you the answer to your question for several years now.


Those are some class acts right there

What have they been telling us? Are they seeking lots of "stability" from men, just like the other women on this thread?


Broke dudes don't deserve no ....



I think that lyric is awful and contrary to my values. What matters is love and a person’s character.

And I always giggle when I hear it. Its sort of amazing.


But what about hard work? At 50k, he's under the poverty line in DC


People can work hard and remain in poverty, but it’s actually median for the US and two 50K salaries is enough in some areas here to get all your basic needs met.

I’m not saying a woman should feel bad for wanting to marry somebody who makes more money. But I do think our society is waaaaay too materialistic.


I agree with your last point BUT I don’t think it’s materialistic for men or women to want to date people who are not struggling to meet their basic needs (food, rent or mortgage, etc). Personally, I would be entirely fine dating someone who didn’t buy the latest iPhone or go on expensive vacations but I would not date someone who was struggling to pay their electric bill each month. I am able to pay for my very basic needs and would only date someone who could, too.


PP here and I totally agree. You can have compassion for somebody because it can be really hard to be financially stable through no fault of your own, but you don’t have to feel bad about not tying yourself to somebody who is going to make you financially unstable.


I agree with both of you and I also feel like I might even date someone who wasn’t fully meeting their own needs but I surely wouldn’t date someone who wasn’t meeting their own needs who then turned around and called me/my gender “all about money” for thinking him a dubious prospect.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Most women do not want to be with a man who is 34 and hasn’t figured out how to support himself.


Pretty much. It indicates larger issues.


Yes, could be a teacher.


?? In this area? My kid's teacher makes double that.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meghan Thee Stallion, Cardi B, City Girls, and Saweetie have all been telling you the answer to your question for several years now.


Those are some class acts right there

What have they been telling us? Are they seeking lots of "stability" from men, just like the other women on this thread?


Broke dudes don't deserve no ....



I think that lyric is awful and contrary to my values. What matters is love and a person’s character.

And I always giggle when I hear it. Its sort of amazing.


But what about hard work? At 50k, he's under the poverty line in DC


People can work hard and remain in poverty, but it’s actually median for the US and two 50K salaries is enough in some areas here to get all your basic needs met.

I’m not saying a woman should feel bad for wanting to marry somebody who makes more money. But I do think our society is waaaaay too materialistic.


I agree with your last point BUT I don’t think it’s materialistic for men or women to want to date people who are not struggling to meet their basic needs (food, rent or mortgage, etc). Personally, I would be entirely fine dating someone who didn’t buy the latest iPhone or go on expensive vacations but I would not date someone who was struggling to pay their electric bill each month. I am able to pay for my very basic needs and would only date someone who could, too.


PP here and I totally agree. You can have compassion for somebody because it can be really hard to be financially stable through no fault of your own, but you don’t have to feel bad about not tying yourself to somebody who is going to make you financially unstable.


I agree with both of you and I also feel like I might even date someone who wasn’t fully meeting their own needs but I surely wouldn’t date someone who wasn’t meeting their own needs who then turned around and called me/my gender “all about money” for thinking him a dubious prospect.


YES!! OP sounds extremely entitled to attention from women. And I think that women he isn’t attracted to basically are invisible to him since he seems to think those who have rejected him are representative of all women.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meghan Thee Stallion, Cardi B, City Girls, and Saweetie have all been telling you the answer to your question for several years now.


Those are some class acts right there

What have they been telling us? Are they seeking lots of "stability" from men, just like the other women on this thread?


Broke dudes don't deserve no ....



I think that lyric is awful and contrary to my values. What matters is love and a person’s character.

And I always giggle when I hear it. Its sort of amazing.


But what about hard work? At 50k, he's under the poverty line in DC


People can work hard and remain in poverty, but it’s actually median for the US and two 50K salaries is enough in some areas here to get all your basic needs met.

I’m not saying a woman should feel bad for wanting to marry somebody who makes more money. But I do think our society is waaaaay too materialistic.


I agree with your last point BUT I don’t think it’s materialistic for men or women to want to date people who are not struggling to meet their basic needs (food, rent or mortgage, etc). Personally, I would be entirely fine dating someone who didn’t buy the latest iPhone or go on expensive vacations but I would not date someone who was struggling to pay their electric bill each month. I am able to pay for my very basic needs and would only date someone who could, too.


PP here and I totally agree. You can have compassion for somebody because it can be really hard to be financially stable through no fault of your own, but you don’t have to feel bad about not tying yourself to somebody who is going to make you financially unstable.


I agree with both of you and I also feel like I might even date someone who wasn’t fully meeting their own needs but I surely wouldn’t date someone who wasn’t meeting their own needs who then turned around and called me/my gender “all about money” for thinking him a dubious prospect.


Good point. It’s one thing to be struggling financially and own it but calling someone materialistic for not wanting to front you rent money every month because you’re short again is a whole other issue.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Most women do not want to be with a man who is 34 and hasn’t figured out how to support himself.


Pretty much. It indicates larger issues.


Yes, could be a teacher.


?? In this area? My kid's teacher makes double that.


Check out what some Catholic schools pay first year teachers. As with most things, even in this area, there’s a range.
Anonymous
I met my wife when I was 30 years old working as a golf instructor at a Country Club. She was just divorced when we met. I was in a lot of debt from years of trying to chase my dream as a professional golfer. We got married after she paid off my 150K debt and with her family connections, her father got me a job as a professional accountant. She told me a few years after we got married that I was good looking with a great personality and that I would do great things with her family connections. 

If you're good looking and take good care of yourself, the future will be bright for you.
Anonymous
You now have 6 pages of resounding, YES from the women. They are only after the money as a first priority. The rest is all secondary.

Go to near the end of this video at the 6:00 mark. It explains it all and how women choose.

https://youtu.be/pInk1rV2VEg
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You now have 6 pages of resounding, YES from the women. They are only after the money as a first priority. The rest is all secondary.

Go to near the end of this video at the 6:00 mark. It explains it all and how women choose.

https://youtu.be/pInk1rV2VEg


You need to work on your reading comprehension skills, incel. Or are you confused and you were reading a different red-pill thread in another browser tab?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You now have 6 pages of resounding, YES from the women. They are only after the money as a first priority. The rest is all secondary.

Go to near the end of this video at the 6:00 mark. It explains it all and how women choose.

https://youtu.be/pInk1rV2VEg


The funny thing is, it’s men who want to be measured by their income, because they know full well they won’t bring anything else to the household. As soon as women do start asking for men to do what good wives do, women are called picky, petty, excessive, etc.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:It’s so funny how, when men ask a question like this, women project onto it an assumption the man is looking for a wife and kids, when it’s probably the case he’s just asking how to get consistent sex.


The answer is the same. He has no money. Where can he take a date? When I made $50k, my food budget was around $80/week. Chick Fil a is around $25 for two people. No money means no honey.

+1 he can't make ends meet but he expects to be able to find a date. So, that means he expects the woman to pay fro dinner? Or he wants to take her to McD and order off the $1 menu?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Maybe date someone who is also working in a non-profit?


My wife works at a nonprofit and thinks I am loser because I only made $500k last year.


That’s not why your wife thinks you are a loser.


Yes it is. She has bluntly told me that she thought we would have more income by this point.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I met my wife when I was 30 years old working as a golf instructor at a Country Club. She was just divorced when we met. I was in a lot of debt from years of trying to chase my dream as a professional golfer. We got married after she paid off my 150K debt and with her family connections, her father got me a job as a professional accountant. She told me a few years after we got married that I was good looking with a great personality and that I would do great things with her family connections. 

If you're good looking and take good care of yourself, the future will be bright for you.


How is your marriage now? She did a lot for you, was she a good judge if character? Know many guys who would take advantage of such a set up.
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