I cringed while reading this. |
I had an aneurysm trying to imagine them as employed |
| Big red flag for me and something I did a little of when I was right out of university. I just couldn't stick at something beyond 2 years. I covered it with international moves and stayed in big law firms so it kind of covered it. Now I am at VP level at a company I have been at for 7 years and I have learnt sticking it out at a company really does pay dividends. I am on my third role in this company and each has been a promotion. I was poached last year by a competitor, told my current company I was being poached, but then ultimately decided to stay. I am not yet convinced it was the right decision but I do think staying the course (through the boring times and good times) is good for your career and good for your resume. It shows focus and resilience. Then after a decent period you can legitimately move if there is a good promotion elsewhere. I have had to train the "itchy feet" out of myself. |
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Haha imagine bragging about your husband's job on the internet. This is why women get paid less than men. |
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I had 4 jobs in 12 years. 3-4 years at each (just started #4). Long enough to learn a lot and add significant value and justify the investment with me, but each time I saw something that was a better fit and went for it. Is what it is, no regrets. I am now pretty high level without ever being promoted. Big issue is what if you are doing great but you have a boss and there is no indication they intend to retire or die? Reality is most efficient way to move up is out. I am not a purposeful climber even I am not gunning for CEO I just wanted a certain income and interesting work and reasonable hours and it took a lot of effort and competitive resume before it all came together. If employer #1 could have arranged that for me I'd still be there now. With a new job every year though I would wonder what's going on. Are all those moves really steps up? If so you should be the CEO now! |
3-4 years is not “hop”. I am exactly in your shoes, I did have to go to a smaller company /less prestige firm to upgrade title, so I don’t think my current role will necessarily translate into an equivalent in a big company. |
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I am on job 10 and not a job hopper but I am 37 years out of college. I left off older jobs. But I some times slip and say oh yea I worked there.
A few companies went under or merger. 2 were bad fits, one was a contractor. I also worked two companies in college so really 12!! I applied to a job last year at Barclays worked there when 18-19!!! 40 years ago!! I wish I got it as a record gap! |
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I managed a person like this 4-5 years ago. She's in her fourth position since we worked together. I like her but I wouldn't hire her again because it would be disruptive.
If you're in a small field or town (which DC is), you get a reputation. |
You must not have been on DCUM long. Fully 20-30% of posts are by women bragging about their biglaw partner husbands, or in some cases, women asking about how to snag a rich husband like that. It’s maybe the #1 most disturbing thing about this board to me (I am a woman). |
| OP go get that $$$$. If your boss could hire someone as good as you for less, he would have. He (or she) doesn't care about you. |