Snap back vent !!

[Anonymous]

I’m getting so sick and tired of seeing the Kate Middleton’s of the world have kid after kid and wearing a size -2 one week after giving birth. This is not real life. I don’t want to hate my body or compare but it’s getting out of hand. Show me a woman like me!!!!?!!! A woman like me who does scissors into her “jeggings” on Saturday mornings. Show me a woman whose feet went up a half size.. whose nose widened ever so slightly... whose face is bloated. Show me a woman like me. I didn’t snap back after 1 and I probably look like I’ve had 2. I didnt snap back and the rest of the world needs to embrace what is normal and not outliers. It’s unreal! It’s unreal -signed 165lbs and idgaf!!!!!

[Anonymous]

You are comparing yourself. Some women are like her and also have full time staff to assist with “me time.” Please do not read anymore about that bimbo! Please only click on Rosanne Barr related stories, then say I’m not an old crazy fat racist. You will feel much better about yourself!

[Anonymous]

It isn't fair to compare on either side. Having seen Kate M. out and about more quickly after her third, the public is getting to see her shrink down pretty naturally. That seems to be her body type and that is 100% fine. It also is 100% fine not to snap back as long as you are healthy.

FWIW, I have four, including surprise twins. I bounced right back after the first two, but the surprise twins wrecked my body. I got hate for snapping back, when I was really just working my tail off at work and eating whatever I wanted. Then, when I didn't snap back, I felt judged by society somehow.

How about we all just accept ourselves, try to be healthy, and stop caring about and judging how the other half (or 5% or whatever) live?

[Anonymous]

Comparison is the thief of joy. Just live your life and be confident in your choices.