Bennifer Revisited
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Anonymous
Agree, also he seemed like the dump-ee with Ana, the reverse with JLo. Always a much different dynamic (in terms of pining  ).
-T. |
Anonymous
That’s how he looked the first time around. It’s how he always kind of looks. He goes through phases- like Jennifer Garner put it when she said his warmth can be like the sun shining on you when things are good, but it’s awfully lonely place when it’s not. He seems to have very strong highs and terrible lows, which impacts all his relationships. It’s not the women, it’s him. |
Anonymous
+100 very sad and not inspiring or worthy of admiration. |
Anonymous
I admire her because she is a hard working person and has done a lot of things. However, this behavior is so trashy/crazy that now I think she has some mental health issues. Btw, I think worst of Ben. |
Anonymous
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Poor J Lo’s kids.
It was only like six mos. ago they were spending the holidays w/ARod and his kids and everyone got along well. They were the unicorn blended family. And now here they are attending amusement parks together w/Ben’s kids. They must be so confused at the instability of their mother’s love life. It won’t work out long term for Bennifer. Ben dumped J Lo shortly after they were to be married. Remember he said publicly how he felt “gross” in his relationship w/her and how he had “no business being engaged??” He will likely turn on her again. If she doesn’t leave him due to his addictions first. |
Anonymous
I think the relationship is fake. But even if it isn’t, being “inspired” but this is whack. |
Anonymous
I think "confused" would capture it if maybe they were much younger. As adolescents i think they they might be feeling a lot of possible things, like angry, embarrassed, depressed, judgmental, worried, who knows? This is how I know j lo is all about spin, because teenagers (healthy ones at least) want to mostly be with their friends and truly, it's about them and their drama, they don't want their parents to have the drama...they want their parents in the background, like a plant. . |
Anonymous
| She is clinging onto him in every pic. I see him “needing his space” in 3…2…1. |
Anonymous
| Ben is a stupid dipshit. |
Anonymous
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Does anyone think Jennifer Garner is annoyed he went back with his ex. I would not be happy if DH went back to his ex after we divorced. I would wonder if he always wanted her.
Am I nuts? |
Anonymous
No but I suspect it will be awkward between them given she is the one who "got in the way" last time round... |
Anonymous
It may sting a little but I bet her larger feeling is relief that he's someone else's problem for now, and that JLo is not known as a partier at all. |
Anonymous
| This relationship is fake, fake, fake. |
Anonymous
+1. I bet it does sting. But Garner knows JLo will be a sober influence on him, and, as long as JLo is around, Garner won’t have to be the one to arrange and take him to his rehabs. |
Anonymous
No. She’s the one he decided to marry and have babies with. |