Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I meant no shame. I would be the last person to do that, as I would be considered " obese" by any standards- ridiculous standards imo.
I mean that I think she will be very affected if she gains weight- in a bad way- given the tummy tuck/ bikini trip post divorce.
Also, I probably used the wrong word in dressing "too young". What I meant was when people rapidly change their style- and it becomes more flash- maybe they are not content with themselves.
It is sad to see a normal looking, attractive woman competing with a Barbie doll looking new wife, and I think Jen is doing that. It would be so good for her to just take a break.
And the word "chubby"? Chubby is fine. I am a " chubby" gma of 3 beautiful " chubby" daughters and 1 beautiful " chubby" granddaughter. Who cares? We don't.

Look, Jen can be raked over the coals for a million reasons but her body composition and clothing shouldn’t be 2 of them.

Words have consequences, regardless of if you purposefully use them to shame or just do it because you think you entitled to say whatever you want. Stop body shaming. It’s hurtful. Stop calling your granddaughters and daughters chubby. It’s mean.

[Anonymous]

What is mean about "chubby" if you don't think there is anything the matter with that? Are you still thinking skinny is "nice" and "chubby" is somehow "mean"?
My point was that, given Jens obvious insecurities, the competition with Tina is not going to go well and she would do much better being herself.
I don't mean any hurt, maybe I misunderstand.
On the clothing, I am probably wrong on that. I guess it would feel good to refresh your wardrobe when things have been hard.
Again, I am sorry to offend anyone unintentionally.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is mean about "chubby" if you don't think there is anything the matter with that? Are you still thinking skinny is "nice" and "chubby" is somehow "mean"?
My point was that, given Jens obvious insecurities, the competition with Tina is not going to go well and she would do much better being herself.
I don't mean any hurt, maybe I misunderstand.
On the clothing, I am probably wrong on that. I guess it would feel good to refresh your wardrobe when things have been hard.
Again, I am sorry to offend anyone unintentionally.

Lady, you are digging a very deep hole here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where is the post about the new offices/ Remy's shoes?
It appears Jen is gaining back weight and she looks more and more unhealthy. The choice of clothing is often way too young for her. Clearly, she is struggling with the inevitability of getting older. I only mention the weight because I think it will be very hard for her to deal with given that she must compare herself with her exes wife.
I noticed in another recent video she was almost filming down the front of her shirt. I thought that seemed weird and desperate and wondered if she was maybe a bit drunk.
When you look back a few years, Jen is strong and healthy looking, brunette, a bit chubby but very attractive. The best thing for her would be to get out of the very destructive career path and reconnect with her kids and old friends. Jesus too.

you seem to have issues with weight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I meant no shame. I would be the last person to do that, as I would be considered " obese" by any standards- ridiculous standards imo.
I mean that I think she will be very affected if she gains weight- in a bad way- given the tummy tuck/ bikini trip post divorce.
Also, I probably used the wrong word in dressing "too young". What I meant was when people rapidly change their style- and it becomes more flash- maybe they are not content with themselves.
It is sad to see a normal looking, attractive woman competing with a Barbie doll looking new wife, and I think Jen is doing that. It would be so good for her to just take a break.
And the word "chubby"? Chubby is fine. I am a " chubby" gma of 3 beautiful " chubby" daughters and 1 beautiful " chubby" granddaughter. Who cares? We don't.

I hope you don't share your weight comments with your daughters and granddaughter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where is the post about the new offices/ Remy's shoes?
It appears Jen is gaining back weight and she looks more and more unhealthy. The choice of clothing is often way too young for her. Clearly, she is struggling with the inevitability of getting older. I only mention the weight because I think it will be very hard for her to deal with given that she must compare herself with her exes wife.
I noticed in another recent video she was almost filming down the front of her shirt. I thought that seemed weird and desperate and wondered if she was maybe a bit drunk.
When you look back a few years, Jen is strong and healthy looking, brunette, a bit chubby but very attractive. The best thing for her would be to get out of the very destructive career path and reconnect with her kids and old friends. Jesus too.

you seem to have issues with weight.

And age and women showing their bodies. Heaven forbid a middle-aged woman wear a tank or fitted V-neck!

[Anonymous]

She did a MeCourse with her therapist? Isn't that a very gross boundary issue…a business deal with your client?!?!? I am so confused by how that is possible or ethical.

[Anonymous]

No new book no new speaking tour no tv appearances nothing really new just shitting on your youngest and posing weird and tugging your straw hair and acting manic.

At least you have your cruise coming up.

[Anonymous]

Ok. It was suggested that I am digging myself in a hole, so I may be getting even deeper here-
Of course I don't sit around commenting on weight to my daughter or granddaughter. They look great and feel great. What's to talk about.
I seem focused on weight? Yes, because that is the subject of my post. I think Jen has gained weight and that is going to cause her to be more insecure and desperate. Why do I think that despite her claims to the contrary, she is very hung up on body image and the desire to be thin? Last summer, she lost some weight and did bikini posts. 30 pounds looked more like 50. Many viewers thought she had a tummy tuck and was covering it up. Her post was discouraging, even scolding to those of us fuller figured women. Did we have to hear the call to thinness from yet another person? Maybe, maybe not, but no doubt Tina's very slim figure is stuck in Jens head. Now, Jen says she is struggling with "body" image. I am no fan of Jens, but I would hope some of her real friends are there to help her. Her changing lanes from Christian mom influencer to hipster is bringing her into a new level of focus on looks and externals vs kindness and humor.

[Anonymous]

Another shame Remy post? It's so gross. I'm mostly fine with the mom-complaining-about-kidS content, but this just feels like it singles Remy out so much.

[Anonymous]

She so clearly hates being a custodian parent. It also sounds like she lets Remy live like a college kid at home. I come upstairs all the time to check on my teenager, lie on her bed, remind her to pick up her room, when she calls me in bc she has friend drama. I get that Jen "put in her time" with her first 4 kids who all sound like they were pretty self managing and all lived with 2 parents and had each other. But Remy no longer has siblings or a dad in the home and has a mom who puts her on blast to half a million people. If Jen were actively parenting Remy then she wouldn't be "finding" all these surprises because she'd be able to say: grab those shoes and take them up. So she neglects Remy for days? and then films all Remy's normal teenage cleaning instead of just addressing with Remy? She's awful and Brandon should get her out of that home.

[Anonymous]

Not to be catty but

What is the deal with Jen’s hair?

Why? Why?

Seriously. Why??

[Anonymous]

The towels video on her story from earlier today…basically a Me Course on how many ways you can call your teen daughter a slob in a very public way. It’s giving bully vibes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The towels video on her story from earlier today…basically a Me Course on how many ways you can call your teen daughter a slob in a very public way. It’s giving bully vibes.

Wow this is getting even more uncomfortable, if that was even possible!

[Anonymous]

I got so angry watching the towels video. At this point, it’s just mean! I wanted so badly to send a message and tell her it’s not a good look on her to constantly belittle her child. And her tone is not cute, it’s snarky in the worst possible way. And the way she keeps mentioning how she pays for the house, the towels, etc. She’s so full of bitterness. Remy needs to get out of that house!