How to bring up Viagra

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is usually willing to have sex but can't perform the whole time (trying to avoid getting moved to explicit forum). How can I tactful tell him he really needs a little blue pill? He is only 33.

It can be difficult to stay hard if your partner isn't attractive.

You left out any description of yourself OP.

Really? I guess you have low self esteem and always blame it on your wife. Maybe you’re not as hard or robest as in the early days. You’re as asshat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he's gay, or has ADHD, or isn't attracted to your weight gain, or watches too much porn, or needs to do more around the house, or is a beta?

Either way, you should divorce him...or find an AP.

Does that cover everything?

LOL

You forgot MIL issues though. Lots of them on this forum!

Or that he is the one with the AP.

But pretty good summary regardless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is usually willing to have sex but can't perform the whole time (trying to avoid getting moved to explicit forum). How can I tactful tell him he really needs a little blue pill? He is only 33.

I think you be frank with him. That's tactful enough. Tell him to see a doctor for his enjoyment.


33 is young. Is he masturbating or watching porn to excess?

We had problems with porn use 10 years ago. I would like to say it isn't a problem now but who knows?

Guessing it is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he's gay, or has ADHD, or isn't attracted to your weight gain, or watches too much porn, or needs to do more around the house, or is a beta?

Either way, you should divorce him...or find an AP.

Does that cover everything?

Is he on anti depression meds?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

ZachF wrote:It could be an early warning sign. He needs a physical to check his cholesterol, blood pressure, etc and overall fitness. If all is good, tell him you'd like to experiment with it. Maybe a 1/4 pill, see what it's like to be 16 again. If he tries it, he will probably be hooked from then on. Make it sound sexy, not like a failing and...

Did you really fing ask him if he's gay because of erectile issues? SMH

Um, some men are secretly gay. If she asked, it's probably because deep down she suspects.

If she asked, it's because it's much easier to think there is a problem with him, however unlikely, than to think there is something about herself that is causing it.

[Anonymous]

My husband was having difficulty in his early thirties. He went to an urologist and the Dr. discovered a tumor in one of his balls. It was cancer; ball removed; followed with 8 weeks of radiation.

Go to a urologist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He could be gay?

I've brought that up before and he just gets mad.

The fact that he gets MAD is weird. I mean, I'd just say no and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is usually willing to have sex but can't perform the whole time (trying to avoid getting moved to explicit forum). How can I tactful tell him he really needs a little blue pill? He is only 33.

I think you be frank with him. That's tactful enough. Tell him to see a doctor for his enjoyment.


33 is young. Is he masturbating or watching porn to excess?

We had problems with porn use 10 years ago. I would like to say it isn't a problem now but who knows?

I bet it still is

Agreed. Given that it was a problem before it seems likely.

+1. Excessive porn use is likely the problem for a healthy 33 year old.

[Anonymous]

Despite the fact that they tell women it can never be them, the truth is sometimes you just dont do it for him anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Despite the fact that they tell women it can never be them, the truth is sometimes you just dont do it for him anymore.

You totally right, woman need this as much as man do. Just take a look at https://myaphrodisiacs.com/top-aphrodisiacs-for-women/ - they do have viagra for woman as well. And there is no shame in need for having it. In the end of the day, sometimes it's about woman issues as well, not man only.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is from 2017. It was resurrected by a spambot. That aside, Cialis is better than Viagra.

Can I ask the guys here ... does your enjoyment increase when you can be at 100% erection, or is it just me?

Of course!

DW has a habit of during foreplay deciding to bring about her days events maybe because we are finally alone.

Geez I thought my DW was the only one who did that.

Because she's feeling close to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is usually willing to have sex but can't perform the whole time (trying to avoid getting moved to explicit forum). How can I tactful tell him he really needs a little blue pill? He is only 33.

I think you be frank with him. That's tactful enough. Tell him to see a doctor for his enjoyment.


33 is young. Is he masturbating or watching porn to excess?

We had problems with porn use 10 years ago. I would like to say it isn't a problem now but who knows?

I bet you $20 it is still a problem

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is usually willing to have sex but can't perform the whole time (trying to avoid getting moved to explicit forum). How can I tactful tell him he really needs a little blue pill? He is only 33.

33 would be a deal breaker for me. 33??? That’s a serious problem there.

So much much for in sickness and health. If it’s a combination of longer term cardiovascular and then psychological issues I’d say having a partner with an attitude like this would be a boner breaker. But for gods sake have a constructive conversation about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread is from 2017. It was resurrected by a spambot. That aside, Cialis is better than Viagra.

Can I ask the guys here ... does your enjoyment increase when you can be at 100% erection, or is it just me?

Of course!

DW has a habit of during foreplay deciding to bring about her days events maybe because we are finally alone.

Geez I thought my DW was the only one who did that.

Because she's feeling close to you.

That's nice and all, but it doesn't really help an erection.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread is from 2017. It was resurrected by a spambot. That aside, Cialis is better than Viagra.

Can I ask the guys here ... does your enjoyment increase when you can be at 100% erection, or is it just me?

Of course!

DW has a habit of during foreplay deciding to bring about her days events maybe because we are finally alone.

Geez I thought my DW was the only one who did that.

Because she's feeling close to you.

That's nice and all, but it doesn't really help an erection.

But she feels horny. It is easier to help a 55 year old man get an erection than get a wife of 20 years in the mood.