Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Didn't like it then and I like it now. I feel like when I was a kid -- I didn't really "get" a lot of the messages and the jokes were no different than other sitcoms. I esp like the episodes where Theo is thinking about grad school/job in Ca; Elvin and Sandra come back from their honeymoon and announce they won't go to med and law school and the fallout from that; Vanessa getting engaged to the handyman and then the way she backed out on a good guy bc she wasn't ready etc. I thought the parents had a lot of wisdom in dealing with these real situations -- you don't see that in sitcoms anymore as they aren't as relatable to real life.
+1. There are a lot of lessons in that show for parents/adults - more than kids, which is probably why I thought it was boring when I was a kid and I didn't understand a lot of the sarcasm. I also liked the episodes where they dealt with Vanessa sneaking off to Baltimore (?) for a concert; Sandra & Elvin's first apartment - and their initial struggle after marriage; the one where Theo graduated; and
I vaguely remember an episode that I still quote where Vanessa was distraught about being called "rich girl" at school bc she was bragging about some art that her parents bought. The dad pointed out - your mother and I are rich, you have nothing. Not a bad way to raise kids so that they aren't totally spoiled by parents' wealth which comes from the parents' hard work.