I don’t get it

Anonymous
I think if you share food with others it’s probably courteous to leave at least one serving of nuts in the container.

But here’s the thing: a serving of nuts is actually small - 1/4 cup or ~28g. It’s not huge and overeaters would probably be mad that’s all that is left but it’s a healthy serving size of a calorie dense high fat snack.

And this thread makes me very grateful to be a singleton living with an adoring dog. I feel sorry for people whose lives are eaten up by this kind of petty crap.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Did you say anything to him or just came here to complain?


We had an argument about it.


Did you throw the container at his head?


? Of course not ?
Anonymous
“I don’t get it”

Yeah right.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:My dh does this, I figured out it was rooted in getting yelled at as a child for finishing off the last of anything. He can't seem to control it, so I just finish off everything now.

Sounds like OP and spouse need to have a more depth talk. It gets tiring finding every snack having just a few crumbs left.



This is OP. He does things that are such more annoying that I can’t believe he brings this up. This is so very minor compared to his flaws.


Maybe he was having a bad day and seeing only 5 nuts in a 24 oz canister made he lash out.

Or do you always leave crumbs in containers for others?


How could he possibly be having a bad day? Other than grocery shopping and dinner prep, he has zero responsibilities. I handle the bills, investments, taxes, housecleaning, yard work, even the holiday cards, plus work full time.


Thank god you two dont have kids
Anonymous
If he’s retired and has. Nothing to do he needs to get the f out of the house every day and do something real.
Anonymous
Team OP. I'm not going to eat more nuts than I want just because the can is almost empty. In fact I like knowing those couple of extra are there for later so I don't gorge on a new container.
Anonymous
Just out the remnants in a tiny container and throw out big one. That’s better for everyone and every reason.
Anonymous
Probably not but if this is the worst thing that your spouse does to you - then you are much better off than 98% of the people on this forum! 👍🏽
Anonymous
Yes this is an outrageous offense!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My dh does this, I figured out it was rooted in getting yelled at as a child for finishing off the last of anything. He can't seem to control it, so I just finish off everything now.

Sounds like OP and spouse need to have a more depth talk. It gets tiring finding every snack having just a few crumbs left.



This is OP. He does things that are such more annoying that I can’t believe he brings this up. This is so very minor compared to his flaws.


Maybe he was having a bad day and seeing only 5 nuts in a 24 oz canister made he lash out.

Or do you always leave crumbs in containers for others?


How could he possibly be having a bad day? Other than grocery shopping and dinner prep, he has zero responsibilities. I handle the bills, investments, taxes, housecleaning, yard work, even the holiday cards, plus work full time.


Thank god you two dont have kids


We do have offspring- they are adults
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