I’m at a v20 and I can offhand list at least 5-10 partners and associates whose wives don’t work |
Yes. But that’s vastly different from saying you literally don’t know any partner’s wives who don’t work. Absurd. |
I mean that's my lived experience. Do you think I know every single partner at the firm or even in the practice group? I know about ten and they all work. Thus "I don't know a single partner's wife who doesn't work". I never said they don't exist. |
Also, I'd like to contextualize my point. I was responding to the misogynistic nonsense that big law wives sit on their asses and count their husband's money all day. This couldn't be further from my personal experience. The wives I know all have graduate degrees and successful careers of their own. This isn't the 1950s with lawyers marrying their secretaries who then quit. Assortative mating is the norm. |
And the kids suffer as a result. You left that part out. |
Obviously there are more than 10 partners at the firm. You knowing barely any partners makes your lived experience basically worthless for this conversation. Why did you bother to post? |