Picked DH Up From DCA- Boys Weekend

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Does this shock you? It’s not uncommon.

+1. And everyone in the friend group knows who the sus guys are who do this routinely and have since your 20s during the bachelor party days. And everyone low key talks about it when you aren't present. I'm a woman and assume the wives know and don't care.

Same. I'm a wife and my dh has always told me. I figure the wives know. Some of the women are my close friends. They seem happy in their marriages so I'm not about to blow anything up. I figure they know and don't know that I know.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why are you posting here, OP? Don’t you know the wives of the friends your DH was with this weekend?

Do you approach your friends and tell them their DH slept with some floozy on a boys weekend?

She ended her post saying "FYI if your husband was away this weekend" which is why I asked that.

OP won’t call those wives outta’ fear of what they might share about her own man’s participation ..

What? Youre going to call the wife of one of your DH's college buddies and tell them he slept with some skank? Yeah, right.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are you posting here, OP? Don’t you know the wives of the friends your DH was with this weekend?

Do you approach your friends and tell them their DH slept with some floozy on a boys weekend?

She ended her post saying "FYI if your husband was away this weekend" which is why I asked that.

OP won’t call those wives outta’ fear of what they might share about her own man’s participation ..

What? Youre going to call the wife of one of your DH's college buddies and tell them he slept with some skank? Yeah, right.

How dare you speak of Meredith in such a way!

[Anonymous]

You don’t even know what the wives think about it. Maybe they had a hall pass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And he was drunk. I don't care about that. They had a brunch at the hotel and he had a couple wines on the plane. He used rail to get to the airport, and called me to collect him.No driving.

On the way home, he blurts that two of the six guys there have regular flings with women......... and, in fact, one of them brought back to the hotel a woman he met at the bar after dinner. Her name was Meredith and she spent the night. This wasn't my DH's room, but I have no doubt he's telling the truth. He's just like that. He said the other non-cheating dudes were just like "wow wow wow". Apparently, "Meredith" was just like the wives of men in our big circle. So, like, who the hell was she?

And they went on to fish/golf, out to dinner, etc. Like nothing had happened.

These are late 40s, educated, wealthy, white collar, white dudes in DC.

Just an FYI if your DH was away this weekend.

why does their race matter?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don’t even know what the wives think about it. Maybe they had a hall pass.

Very unlikely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d take it as a sign that your DH is a good guy because he certainly wouldn’t have told you if he didn’t find it shocking and was up to no good. I’d also try to limit his time with those idiots.

Nice post. Thank you for sharing!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It happens all the time. I used to work for the largest staffing firm in the area. Same gentleman that started the company owns a local NFL team.

The leadership team used to go to Dewey all the time, hook up with way younger girls and…

Most the guys were married.

Wouldn't most spouses think something strange was up if the "leadership team" of a company is going to Dewey Beach for anything (unless, maybe your company owns a bunch of hotels in Dewey Beach)?

Are you that naive? No, the company does not own a bunch of hotels. A few of the guys have homes in Dewey and vacation with their family. They claim it’s a team building event, use golfing as an opportunity to get drunk and cheat on their wives.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:And he was drunk. I don't care about that. They had a brunch at the hotel and he had a couple wines on the plane. He used rail to get to the airport, and called me to collect him.No driving.

On the way home, he blurts that two of the six guys there have regular flings with women......... and, in fact, one of them brought back to the hotel a woman he met at the bar after dinner. Her name was Meredith and she spent the night. This wasn't my DH's room, but I have no doubt he's telling the truth. He's just like that. He said the other non-cheating dudes were just like "wow wow wow". Apparently, "Meredith" was just like the wives of men in our big circle. So, like, who the hell was she?

And they went on to fish/golf, out to dinner, etc. Like nothing had happened.

These are late 40s, educated, wealthy, white collar, white dudes in DC.

Just an FYI if your DH was away this weekend.

why does their race matter?

+1